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LiviInLove
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03-11-2013, 10:36 PM
 No worries hon! I totally know the feeling! Take care of yourself first.
No worries! I've missed you too dear! Yeah, thankfully. Got his daddies off my back about if it was time yet or not. *laughs* But it went alright, nothing really went wrong - just long and tiring, but we're all doing fine. He's as cute as a button, and his daddies are totally in love with him. And I've gotten to see him a few times.  I've been slowly been trying to catch up on all the missed sleep that I missed.
But all in all I am doing pretty good! Just dealing with some issues myself, but working on getting through them, slowly. =]
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HeartMoogle
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03-11-2013, 10:39 PM
I'm glad to hear everything went well. :) You get some rest and just relax for a little while. I can never express how much I respect you for doing that for them.
If it's anything you want to talk about, feel free to message me, sweetie. One thing I can say with absolute certainty is that I will not leave on hiatus if I know people need to talk to me about their problems. I wouldn't ever bail on anyone.
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LiviInLove
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03-11-2013, 10:43 PM
 Thank you! It's more just dealing with how I feel having given him up, even though really I wasn't. I just got super attached (understandably), and now I just feel like part of me is missing. At least I do get a bit of time with him, and soon as he gets funny, hand him back to his papa, or daddy. ((To avoid confusion Greg is Papa and Jon is Daddy.) =] We were laughing last time we were over there as he slept through most of our visit, and Greg was like "So he sleeps now, when people want to visit, but whenever Jon or I want to sleep, he seems to refuse to sleep."  I WARNED them! ;)
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HeartMoogle
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03-11-2013, 10:52 PM
 Yep. Sounds like a baby.
I understand you finding it difficult without him now. At least you do get to see him. I've heard surrogate mothers have the heaviest post-partum depression.  I'm sorry, though. You're gonna be a big impact in his life. Just you wait. :)
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LiviInLove
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03-11-2013, 10:53 PM
Totally, right?
But leave it to them to not listen to me when I told them to get used to totally bizarre and random and undependable sleeping patterns.  :P
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HeartMoogle
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03-12-2013, 06:06 AM
I think every expecting parent is given that advice and none of them ever believe it.
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03-12-2013, 09:07 AM
asdfghjkl this guy walked into work the other day and he was beautiful!
Turns out he's like my second cousin.... Words cannot express how angry that fact made me....
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LiviInLove
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03-12-2013, 04:05 PM
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I think every expecting parent is given that advice and none of them ever believe it.
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Haha, very true. I know that I look back myself and laugh that I got told that when I was expecting my daughter. At least we try, right? :P
GG:  Awww! :(
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03-12-2013, 05:35 PM
I showed him to my friend she was like "He's gorgeous! [name] Have a look *shows to friend*" Me: Doesn't help!!
hahaha :L
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LiviInLove
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03-12-2013, 06:18 PM
Awwww! Sometimes friends, despite meaning well, don't help any. My younger sister and I love to go out and just people watch and she teases me about looking... with "Lils, you're married." Me: "Um, yeah, I may be married, but doesn't mean I can't still look." *laughs* Endless teasing from her. Not that I'd do anything. *chuckles*
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03-13-2013, 07:10 PM
yeah we were teasing each other nothing horrible was meant by it haha :P
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LiviInLove
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03-13-2013, 09:07 PM
Yeah, it's all in good fun, definitely!
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HeartMoogle
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03-14-2013, 02:47 AM
So hey guys! Just wanted to announce National Day of Silence for this thread. We will be acknowledging it (at least I will).
Day of Silence is April 19, 2013. If you're unaware of what it is, let me explain:
National Day of Silence is held one day every spring in the United States. On the National Day of Silence, people who celebrate it do not speak all day, and communicate as little as possible in any way. We do this to show the world what closeted members of the LGBT community feel. Closeted members can't speak in a sense. On Day of Silence, we DON'T speak.
XD I don't know. I might not be the best at explaining this. Here's the link: Day of Silence XD
Here on Menewsha, we'll be celebrating it on this thread. I'll post a tag in the title of the thread the week leading up to it and then on the day of. I will also post in here a day or two before, as a final reminder.
I urge everyone to be respectful and not post on this thread that day. It won't accomplish anything (as there aren't any homophobs that read this thread, I don't think), but it's a respect thing more than anything else.
I also urge everyone to actually celebrate day of silence in your lives. Tape or pin a note to your clothes so people will know why you aren't speaking, if you do.
Let me know if you have any questions!
@My Friends;
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Fiona_Watergate
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03-14-2013, 03:02 AM
I'll join in. I came out to my hubby about a week ago. Hes always known I liked girl, but I just wanted to make sure he knew the extent that it went to. I'll be more then happy to join people in this.
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HeartMoogle
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03-14-2013, 03:06 AM
Congratulations, Fiona! :D
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Fiona_Watergate
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03-14-2013, 03:16 AM
Thanks it took us sperating, and one night when he was over it just all came out. I mean I've told a few of my friends but that was it. (long story short my dads a pastor and says its demons) I grew up hearing that, and always felt alone I was all alone. I knew I didn't have any demons, but I still felt guilt for feeling the feeling I had for other woman. It wasn't till high school that I was okay with liking them, and it wasn't till I was married that I knew for sure I was Bi. I love my hubby so much. he told me as we were sitting in the bath and I was telling him how I felt that its how my brain is wired that there is nothing wrong with how I feel about woman. That he's fine with it and it doesn't matter what anyone says about it. That its just how I am. (and pretty much that I need to love myself for me)
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HeartMoogle
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03-14-2013, 03:19 AM
I'm so glad. :) I'm sorry about your dad. Screw him. But I'm glad your husband is fine with it. :) And I'm so proud of you for coming out.
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Fiona_Watergate
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03-14-2013, 03:30 AM
Thanks Heart I means a lot. Yeah I feel as though my dad will never understand even if I did tell him. anyway I know I can't tell them (dad and mom) but at least I was able to tell my hubby. I'm not married to my parents so they don't have to be okay with it. I'm just thankful that my hubby is okay with it.
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Kirin Rosenbaum
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03-14-2013, 04:18 AM
I can't in real life but I won't post here.
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Well at first I felt bi... but I have come to realize I am very much pansexual.
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HeartMoogle
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03-14-2013, 05:45 AM
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Thanks Heart I means a lot. Yeah I feel as though my dad will never understand even if I did tell him. anyway I know I can't tell them (dad and mom) but at least I was able to tell my hubby. I'm not married to my parents so they don't have to be okay with it. I'm just thankful that my hubby is okay with it.
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I'm glad. :) Screw your parents. You're you. You've got all you need.
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I can't in real life but I won't post here.
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Well at first I felt bi... but I have come to realize I am very much pansexual.
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KIRIN.  I haven't talked to you on here since my return. And I'm like never on Facebook so I haven't really seen you on there either. I'VE MISSED YOU.
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LiviInLove
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03-14-2013, 03:02 PM
Oh, I'll definitely be joining in - on here (as if I'm on - my daughter takes up my time most days - sneaking on while she eats break fast real fast) - but I'll also do it in person too. Although that may be hard, as I always do talk to my daughter, so we'll see how that goes. >.< LOL! ((Can I break silence to talk to my 20 month old, so she doesn't get upset as to why mommy isn't talking? But if I see anyone else, not talk to them instead?))
Fiona: That is great that your hubby understood!
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Grumman_Goose
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03-14-2013, 09:21 PM
Is there something like this in the UK because i think everyone will be like "GG what the fuck are you doing?" haha :P
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HeartMoogle
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03-15-2013, 02:52 AM
I wouldn't know. XD But that's why you pin a note to yourself letting people know. It's not a hugely known thing even here in the States.
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Oh, I'll definitely be joining in - on here (as if I'm on - my daughter takes up my time most days - sneaking on while she eats break fast real fast) - but I'll also do it in person too. Although that may be hard, as I always do talk to my daughter, so we'll see how that goes. >.< LOL! ((Can I break silence to talk to my 20 month old, so she doesn't get upset as to why mommy isn't talking? But if I see anyone else, not talk to them instead?))
Fiona: That is great that your hubby understood! 
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XD I don't see why not, Livi! Maybe you can have her assist you somehow. Not sure how, though, with her being so young.
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LiviInLove
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03-15-2013, 04:55 PM
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XD I don't see why not, Livi! Maybe you can have her assist you somehow. Not sure how, though, with her being so young.
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I could try to get her to help me. *laughs* But I don't think she'd be able to do much. It's now that I wish that we had taught her baby sign so I could communicate to her that way.
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HeartMoogle
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03-16-2013, 04:13 AM
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I could try to get her to help me. *laughs* But I don't think she'd be able to do much. It's now that I wish that we had taught her baby sign so I could communicate to her that way. 
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Oh well. No harm, no foul. XD
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