Ah... i have tried to watch the notebook so many times but something comes up and i can't... i feel as if the movie runs from me

What did you manage to watch though, Mahaha. XD

The notebook is just ok in my opinion

I like fairy tale type of unreal romance. 8D

I didn't think you liked romance Xuv xD

... I like UNREAL fairy tale romance.
Eternal One True Love. O__O
*sulks* I know I am unreal, so what! :< *protects philosophy*

nah you are just idealistic xD

Oh well, at least I am idealistic in those, not in life survival necessity. Like Money. We need money to survive, love is not bread.

Now, do I sound like those money minded parents that object Romeo and Juliet? XD

hehehehe so you only like love stories when you are certain they won't happen in real? animated movies must be your favorite then
Ahh... im watching old seasons of castle these days... after that i will try notebook again.

Good morning everyone. the notebook was good because of ryan gosling haha. i'm about to head off to work. cya guys!

NO. I am sure this fairy tale kind of love story do happen, just that they are so rare that they do not often happen and people start to think it is fantasy...

Which is why I am very into cartoon and anime. Art style wise, I am all for Japan. Originality wise also Japan. They are just bunch of creative people. Their voice acting is also VERY refine than western.

hmm... i will have to agree with that Xuv... but it is extremely rare, anyways its wonderful to see it happen in real life

Sometimes, I read newspaper on some Lifestyle kind of issue, they talk about some old couples, had been married for 50 years... and so. That is so sweet already. Although they might not be high class or rich, but that is the love I think is rarer than diamonds.
and even touching stories of how husband and wife reunited after the world war, during the 70s or 80s, which they remain married until old. During war was separated for a few years.

Hmm... I read a quote similar to all this where when a couple was asked how they stayed together for so long and the wife answered that they were taught to mend the things that broke, not throw them away... I guess this puts a level of responsibility on us, as we have different ideas of love and life these days

really? I think so too.

Nowadays, from what I see... especially in dramas. Love is like instant noodles. It is nice to eat during that certain minutes, and awful to swallow after that.

hey rette and Maha. I got to the office. whew glad that there wasn't much traffic. you guys are talking about romance? ^^

Wow~ you can access Menewsha at work! That is so nice~

hmm... I think so. XD
I am the idealistic romance religion.

I am so over blind dating and having friends "hook you up" with their friends. it's so tiring and a waste of time in my honest opinion. i say that it will happen when you least expect it.

hiya spunky, yes there is too much expectation in it that it ruins the real thing...

hmm, I won't necessary deem blind date and hook you up friends is not effective. It is just one of the way to expose to know more people. Well, just don't treat it as finding romance, treat it as knowing more friends, expanding social circle. Then the strangers can slowly get to know deeper and maybe it sparks?

You have to give some chance to know each other.

But if blind dating, it kinda worries me of the safety issues. I heard a lot of online fraud and date rapes.

it's either you or the other party have high expectations which ruins everything.

i agree with you rette. there is nothing wrong with expanding your social circle but it also seems that your friends think that you can't find someone on your own which pisses me off sometimes. but it's healthy to meet people with different personalities and likes.

Yeah, for blind dates you may want to have a chaperon you trust with you, or make it a group blind date.

haha or you could have some of your friends just sneak around and follow you.

Ninja friends!

ooo! I want Ninja friends! XD

Self adjustment, don't put expection on romance. Just meet people and have fun.