Iku, i think i'm going to have to agree with you on this one. :sweat: jeremy said he saw her yesterday and wanted tell her how he felt, but had to hurry and clock in. maybe he should call her, but then what if Vic is there. ugh such a mess!

I figure if we skip out and she's mad that's too bad, she should know better and should be trying to get help to get him out of her house!

Yeah. Someone needs to muster up the courage to speak with her in person, alone. D:
If you guys at least try to help her then it won't be such a heavy weight on your conscience.

True, I hope hubby does. she won't listen to me, sometimes she doesn't even acknowledge i am there or she has grandchildren because of me. :P

put your differences aside.
you know it's not always easy to do the right thing.
but, in the end, she is your family.

I guess. I just don't want her to get hurt and thought she would have pulled the plug already.

if he's abusing her she sort of feels like she has no control.
have you seen marks on her?

no, we don't see her much. the one time over the summer when all this came out about him, she had some scraping on her hand and a busted toe. she even got a restraining order on the guy, why she did go back?

If you don't see her much to begin with I don't see the damage that could be done by not going to a wedding you don't even want to go to?
If you don't think it's a big deal, then yeah go, just with the relationship you have with each other and the relationship she has with this guy that's no good, I don't see the point. I don't really see it as right or wrong, but if someone's not setting aside the time to make you part of their family, I wouldn't set aside the time to make them part of my family.
My time means too much to me than to be wasting it on people I don't care for.

Haha I really don't think we will go, at least I hope not. :P

my hip is bothering me and my chest hurts when i take a deep breath.

That's no good. o Ao;;

Hip from all the exercising you think?

i just think family is family,
even if you aren't close.
i wouldn't want to make a rift for your husband to blame you about later.
that is just my two cents, though.

well i'll just leave it up to him, if he wants to go then we'll go, if not i'm good with that. :)

iku- i dunno, i don't think so. we are supposed to get some snow tonight, and it's awfully cold. it's bothered me ever since i had Kaleb. :P

More snow? :O!!!

I think it rained on and off here. Didn't go outside though; so I don't know for sure. xD
Oh gosh. He dislocated your hip!

it's still snowing.
sashie-belle just loves it!

he must have! it sure is hurting. :XP i may just have to take some pain meds.

I was hoping it would snow this season, but no luck. :c

Aww, feel better, Lon~

*sends snow iku's way* it's just been melting here, but at least we've seen some moisture! and thanks, i'll try!

You can send some more snow my way ^^ It's 12 degrees out and I want more snow on top of the 4 inches that will never emlt away :P

Eep! -bundles up and rolls around in the snow- = w=

*sends some snow to Zephi*

mmmm triple berry smoothie for breakfast! :drool:

Yum. :drool:
I just had cereal.

oooh what kind??

Frosted mini wheats. :ninja:

YUM!

ugh i don't want to go to jacob's basketball game today. :P i'm tired of these sports things already.

Haha. I never did any sports things growing up. XDD I was in band for a bit. And a volunteer firefighter for a short while, but that was it. After my first year of band in high school, I was done. Too many games and marching and extra stuff, pfffft!

Have to get ready for Star Wars nao. Baaai! :D