Suona
oh.i see.well its all good to rant once in a while right?:)
we all do it.i usually feel bad when i rant XD My dad is actually thinking of putting me
in a charter school.though im scared to go to a school instead of being homeschooled.:sweat: :oops:
you could say i have the type of anxiety if there is too many people my stomach hurts badly.or just in general if there
are people i don't know i get really scared and thats when my anxiety stomach aches happen.:sweat:

My friend was kind of like that. She did really poorly with people. She couldn't even talk to anybody on the phone if she didn't know them. I remember that once when I was at my house, she called to ask me if I could call a restaurant for her to order a meal because she was too scared to call. lol She just had a lot of trouble with people, but she really improved over like the last year or two. We're all really proud of her. But she's also 19 now, so she should be able to do that.

You should probably try working on it, too. It'll be really hard to get through life once you're older if you dont get accustomed to being around people. Its definently a necessity in life, I'd say. Something good to gradually work on until you're comfortable with it. Some people just have a harder time than others. :] But I bet that you'll be able to get use to it in due time. I think that when I got a job in highschool that really helped me to get more accustomed to people.

yeah im usually not good with talking but i am wanting to work on that.i mean whenever my cousin's friend come over i say hi and talk but her friends always seem to hate my sister and me.

Originally Posted by Suona

My friend was kind of like that. She did really poorly with people. She couldn't even talk to anybody on the phone if she didn't know them. I remember that once when I was at my house, she called to ask me if I could call a restaurant for her to order a meal because she was too scared to call. lol She just had a lot of trouble with people, but she really improved over like the last year or two. We're all really proud of her. But she's also 19 now, so she should be able to do that.

You should probably try working on it, too. It'll be really hard to get through life once you're older if you dont get accustomed to being around people. Its definently a necessity in life, I'd say. Something good to gradually work on until you're comfortable with it. Some people just have a harder time than others. :] But I bet that you'll be able to get use to it in due time. I think that when I got a job in highschool that really helped me to get more accustomed to people.

I thought I was the only one who used to beggggg people to do that for me. I hate dealing with strangers, they scare the shit out of me, especially over the phone.
; __;

That said, these days I can make doctor's appointments and order food, but anything else and I get nervous.
/derp
Though, I stopped asking people for help about it a long time ago. I just... usually end up not eating if the only "food" I have is money to order something, I'd rather walk to the place (unless it's too cold or too late) to just not eat. It depends.

*returns from her long trip*

Noms will start again tomorrow, so for those of you who've seen avatars you like, I hope you've saved them!!! XD

*eyes Sizzla's current outfit and twiddles her thumbs*

:O
ELF!
*tackles Belly*

*flails her tiny golden hammer menacingly*

i can't wait for the next round :squee:
im gonna dress my best XD

My gosh, I've seen some incredible avatars. The layers and complexity of colour combinations is awe-inspiring! I absolutely adore all these new ideas and fresh avatars.

And, you need to get out of your shells every so often. I used to be just like what you described when I was younger. I think it came from being bullied and having tough parents when I was small that contributed to being so shy and timid. It was in middle school when I suddenly blossomed into a social butterfly and have been steadily becoming more bold since. Any party or meeting I attend I'm remembered, and people remember your impressions because of your confidence. And it can go beyond making friends.

I mean, doesn't it seem silly to be afraid of calling someone on the phone? Even a restaurant? It never hit me how silly I was until I really thought about it; same with purchasing condoms, "lady products", etc., and being afraid of the cashier.

I've noticed quite a variety of nice avatars myself recently. I feel like people's item combinations are more creative. Of course, having more items helps with that, so really, variety and creativity should always be increasing, right? :D Anyway yeah, lotsa nice avatars out there.

:lol: crane, I totally agree with you on the shyness thing. Being confident and stepping outside of your shell is really important. I still struggle with doing that sometimes, but it's something I'm going to have to consciously work on forever probably. I feel like there's a confident/witty me on the inside, but I don't always feel like I can bring that out and charm the pants off of everyone, even though I've done it before and know I can. I guess it's when I'm in the right mood... XP

And yeah, being embarrassed about buying harpoons and condoms is totally ridiculous. The first time I bought condoms, yes, I was slightly embarrassed, especially considering I was at a gas station and it was the only thing I was buying. :lol: But everyone buys these things -- it's not like the cashier is going to judge you for your purchases. XD They've seen it all -- and more, most likely!

I dunno. I've never really had a problem with calling or dealing with people I don't know. I find that if you're friendly to someone, they'll be friendly to you. :yes: It's really all a matter of your attitude going into it. A positive attitude and a smile go a long way. :yes:

teehee
Of course! I don't know where the idea that cashiers secretly log all that sort of information or keep tabs on what you're buying comes from. It's such an irrational fear; they couldn't care less! I get nervous when I'm in a new position and I have to talk to certain clients and make certain phone calls, but it all goes away within the first few and I get the hang of it.

My avatar feels so bland now. :lol:

i need more pink items dang it!:illgetu:

Me too. I love pink.

in my whole wardrobe i have at least 4 items that are pink

though i do like this avi but if my DAC would work then i could have an awesome avi but it doesn't work ,_,

I don't usually use the MAC to premake avatars. :sweat: I just kindof go with it.

i make them up and buy items at random but sometimes i feel like i need to use it but i can't so oh well

Yeah. :sweat:

I'm really pissed off right now, so I'm going to go break something and I may not be back tomorrow.
We just got a PS3 and a bunch of games.

monstahh
i hope you feel better...?:sweat:
right now i feel a bit sad but im posting around to keep my mind off of it XD

There will always be different methods of going about it. You'd be surprised with what kind of outfit combination you can come up with using the same ol items.

I gotta do it the way you do, though, Desired. With the DAC, I can have a solid plan and sometimes I even manage to tweak it to make the outfit look better afterward.

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Why are you sad, Desired?

Originally Posted by TheDesireMistress

monstahh
i hope you feel better...?:sweat:
right now i feel a bit sad but im posting around to keep my mind off of it XD

I went from being depressed all day to boiling mad.
I really really really hate Christians who pull that "Holier-Than-Thou" crap. :roll:

demoscout
my DAC wont even work at all.i never got to use it.,_,

im sad because my friend he went out and about i don't know him in real life but he is like my best friend but i keep feeling like we aren't friends.,_, he is like an older brother to me and helps me through tough times but yeah :sweat:

Monstahh
ah i see.i went from super happy to sad T^T

It won't work? Have you tried mentioning it in the DAC forum?

I'm sorry about that. I have gone through that too. It's like...you're unsure of how the other person really feels about you. Don't let insecurities take over, though. Just give it time. :)

demoscout
no not yet...i pm a mod but she hasn't replied in two to three days
im not sure what to do.