Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

First kiss was to my ex-wife. It was a simple nervous not really worth it.

Did so as an experiment. I don't really like it. Also ex-wife.

Boring, honestly "didn't feel a thing" is one way to put it... and I did almost all the work... =.=
Also ex-wife.

Do I regret them? All 3.

Sounds like she was a keeper! Oh wait haha

I'm glad to hear that's over with Poet.

@ Inso - Yeah me too...

Never had sex. I'm 23 with no interest in sex.

Kissing is no big deal...unless the person is disgusting D:

Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

@ Popcorn - That's not too bad. At least (from what you said) you didn't miss

Lmbo, yeah...his mouth is/lips are much larger than my own...no way to miss.
x' D

Originally Posted by Absurditea

Oh my goddd! That's hilarious. xD Hope he's okay now haha

LMFAO! It is!

For me, all of the above were amazing then, but looking back...WOW, that was...lackluster. I don't regret any of it though, because...like everything else, they're skills. You need to practice. You're probably going to be pretty terrible at first.

First time I kissed my girlfriend, I was shaking so bad my legs almost gave out and I almost collapsed under my own body weight. But it was pretty nice once the nervousness stopped. Still...I'm really glad it doesn't happen like that anymore.

Though after I got over the panic, I got way...way too aggressive in that. As in, tongue and lip biting and whatnot immediately. I'm amazed I didn't get shoved off or worse on a few occasions. Like I said, though...I regret nothing, even if it's embarrassing to recall. It was all practice.

...not going into my first sexual encounter because I don't think I can really discuss that without going well beyond PG-13. Though, again, it felt amazing then. Looking back, dear god, I can do better. I wouldn't say now that it was terrible, because hey, we both enjoyed it, but it was very lackluster.

Though that's more than I can say for some other early encounters. No shortage of bedroom accidents and experiments gone wrong there.

I have not had a first kiss yet unless you count daycare and the Vietnamese boy from down the street taught me "TV Kissing" and we kissed for real, on the lips.

I've never kissed or anyone or had sex.
Quite frankly I'm in no rush.

My first time for anything would be special.

I agree Masami; I want my first times to be very special. I too have never had sex, which is obivous since I said I never kissed anyone haha.

My first kiss was very special to me. It was with my first girlfriend, we were talking, she was knelling in front of me as I was sitting leaning against her bed frame on the floor. Then out of no where she had her hands on the side of my face and kissed me. It was snog and tongues, the second time; first was shaking and scary to us.

The first time I had sexual intercourse was also special to me. Embarrassing really on the details leading to it but I rather not say, it was again with my first girlfriend after a year of dating; yes a year. Then I found out she was a tart and I was only practice to her.

Did it hurt, yes. Do I regret it, no. She may have used me for my best friend and as a practice boyfriend til she got him but I still loved her and wish her happiness. :)

Originally Posted by Insomniac

Sounds like she was a keeper! Oh wait haha

I'm glad to hear that's over with Poet.

Comments like this is the main reason I love the people of Menewsha haha

My first kiss got me a nose in the eye....but it was cute!
And later that same boy wanted to rush into having sex. I turned him down, and five years later enjoyed that moment with my current boyfriend. c:

I honestly can't remember my first kiss. It had to be around 6th grade or so, but I suppose that it was so dull that it didn't stick with me. My first real spark of a kiss happened in high school with my first serious boyfriend. Or so I thought it was serious. He turned out to be a jerk.

The first time I had sexual intercourse was so awful. It was.....it was awful. It was rushed, gross, unsatisfying, and left me feeling physically ill. I made my boyfriend of the time take me home immediately after and a week later, we broke up. It was so bad. I regret the whole thing to this day and it happened three years ago.

My current boyfriend and I had a wonderful first time. Though that was his first time, but my second time. It was much less gross and very satisfying lol

Well, I'm not able to answer these questions, seeing as I've never kissed anyone, let alone had sex with them...
I don't plan to have sex with just anyone, because I guess it's special or whatever (although to be honest, I can't really see myself having sex at all, really...)
Kissing, however, I would do with just about anyone - I don't think that has to be saved for anyone special.

Originally Posted by Stellar Delusion

For me, all of the above were amazing then, but looking back...WOW, that was...lackluster. I don't regret any of it though, because...like everything else, they're skills. You need to practice. You're probably going to be pretty terrible at first.

First time I kissed my girlfriend, I was shaking so bad my legs almost gave out and I almost collapsed under my own body weight. But it was pretty nice once the nervousness stopped. Still...I'm really glad it doesn't happen like that anymore.

Though after I got over the panic, I got way...way too aggressive in that. As in, tongue and lip biting and whatnot immediately. I'm amazed I didn't get shoved off or worse on a few occasions. Like I said, though...I regret nothing, even if it's embarrassing to recall. It was all practice.

...not going into my first sexual encounter because I don't think I can really discuss that without going well beyond PG-13. Though, again, it felt amazing then. Looking back, dear god, I can do better. I wouldn't say now that it was terrible, because hey, we both enjoyed it, but it was very lackluster.

Though that's more than I can say for some other early encounters. No shortage of bedroom accidents and experiments gone wrong there.

Aww. I'm glad that stopped too.
:' )

Originally Posted by Faded Beauty

My first kiss was very special to me. It was with my first girlfriend, we were talking, she was knelling in front of me as I was sitting leaning against her bed frame on the floor. Then out of no where she had her hands on the side of my face and kissed me. It was snog and tongues, the second time; first was shaking and scary to us.

The first time I had sexual intercourse was also special to me. Embarrassing really on the details leading to it but I rather not say, it was again with my first girlfriend after a year of dating; yes a year. Then I found out she was a tart and I was only practice to her.

Did it hurt, yes. Do I regret it, no. She may have used me for my best friend and as a practice boyfriend til she got him but I still loved her and wish her happiness. :)

Darn...it makes for a cute story. I am sorry about her motivation though.
:' /

I regret my first three sexual partners, the first two due to them being insane, and the third I was WAY too drunk and had only met her about an hour before, so even though I officially achieved whore status, she ended up disappointed, so I count it as a win sort of.

First sex was just incredibly awkward. I had no idea what I was doing and was too nervous to finish. I firmly believe anyone that says their first sex was magical is delusional or a liar.

Been with my current girlfriend for over a year. She's a lovely, sane girl and I enjoy every moment I spend with her. Turns out you get better at this whole thing the more times you do it.

@ Pk - Wait you're supposed to get better? Crap....

Originally Posted by Pkero

I firmly believe anyone that says their first sex was magical is delusional or a liar..

Agreed whole-heartedly on this one

My first kiss was someone who was someone i really liked but after it happened i never saw her again.
My first time sadly was special but not who i wanted it to be....
the one i wanted didnt want me and i guess i ended up settling.

---------- Post added 10-01-2012 at 06:13 PM ----------

Originally Posted by Absurditea

Agreed whole-heartedly on this one

I cant agree with that. My first time was pretty amazing. I kinda can describe it as magical but not literally think there was some form of sorcery behind it...
[hehehe magic sex XD]
It wasnt who was my first time and sometimes wonder if I should have waited but it was something that ended up being really special to me. BEST of all...I didnt screw it up like I always feared....but that was 6 years ago.

Poet's first time... poet didn't feel a thing... o.o
Poet's partner felt everything... it was unfair... it was "magical" for them but pointlessly plain for poet. Poet did all the work too... like the rest of the marriage =.=

Just makes me wonder if Poet's partner knew what to even do.
My first time...eh let's just call her psycho #1, did none of the work [which at first made me wonder if I was even doing it right XD] but it was only cause she never watched anything dirty and it was her first time also....also she was the first person i ever got engaged with. [thankfully we are no longer a couple] but it was still a pretty magical moment for me. Suuuuuure she is a no good evil, twisted , cheating cu....well you get the idea....but I wont let any of that impact that first night in bed.

---------- Post added 10-01-2012 at 06:30 PM ----------

Also thinking back to the night I am so happy it turned out I WAS doing it right. XD I never watched anything or did anything ...so it was pretty much just common sense so I was thinking "If I have part A, I should put that to part B....yeah...this is all making sense now!"

---------- Post added 10-01-2012 at 06:31 PM ----------

Also I was disagreeing with the comment that "anyone who says it was magical is either delusional or a liar"

They knew... they knew exactly what to do but wanted me to be a "master" but ONLY then... and ONLY that way... =.=
They'll probably be pretty pissed I just said that in public but whatever... they said plenty of lies about me, the truth should do just fine.
Ah, you got cheated on too? After all the work? Bleh... that's why I'm picky...

Well we're all a LITTLE crazy so it's not all too far off

Yep cheated on also by 10 past exs. It feels SOO AMAZING DOESNT IT >:O!
Oh s&m? I personally am for that in some cases but eh...there need to be set rules.
V.V after all that work yeah I was cheated on for a good 2 years by her.
The way I wanna remember her was the shy girl from that night who was so scared but wanted to. She had that innocent look that I do miss, but when I see her now [yeah I passed by her sometimes but I look so diff she woulnt know its me] I see how whoreish she became.
Sorry that you got cheated on also, I feels for ya.
I can say I'll always remember mine. 0ct 13 [friday],2006. Come to think of it....maybe it was like bad luck to pick that night....

My first time was far from magical (in fact the few times I could describe as that didn't happen until four months in) but it wasn't bad. My ex (joining the cheater club) knew exactly what he was doing because since he was six years older, he'd been with more people sexually than I had (I think his number was 13 or something like that).

In your ex's defence however, in some positions it is hard to do anything more than wiggle your hips, arch your back or lift your legs (missionary being the main one I'm thinking of here) because you don't really have much room to show off your moves if you have another person on top of you.

Wiggling hips, arching your back , "tightening " [not sure what the proper term would be] , is still better then laying there doing nothing. ANYTHING would have been better.
DAMN IT THIS WAS TEAM EFFORT THING!
Honestly the best part was when we were both done [HA! BOTH DONE! FIRST TIME PLAYING AND HIGH SCORE!] We just held each other and she said
Sin [her old nickname]: I love you so much
That right there is why that night was so amazing , it was perfect, just after school, friday, parents would not be home for the weekend, her parents thought she was sleeping at her friends, there was a full moon.
Not only that my heart was still broken from someone else so she helped that pain heal.

I guess the proper word would be clenching, but I'm not actually sure haha. I know what you mean though.

Best way to get over one person is to get under another, as the saying goes.