I think wood and vanilla are the only real "manly" smells. Taking floral or citrus ones and making them more pungent tends to leave one's eyes burning.
I used a perfume for the longest time that was unisex. It smelled great on me and on the men folk who borrowed the lotion if I had it on me. I think the middle note was a flower. Lily of the valley.
i watched a show the other day
they said used sliced potatoes soaked in green tea
use them for eye puffiness just like you do cucumbers
it's supposed to be so much better for you and worked really well
yeah, soak/steep it in green tea
then relax with it on for twenty minutes
it's supposed to really reduce the swelling
and it reduces the darkness around your eye, too