I think wood and vanilla are the only real "manly" smells. Taking floral or citrus ones and making them more pungent tends to leave one's eyes burning.

I used a perfume for the longest time that was unisex. It smelled great on me and on the men folk who borrowed the lotion if I had it on me. I think the middle note was a flower. Lily of the valley.

Inis Cologne Spray Irish Perfume Cologne for Men and Women

i watched a show the other day
they said used sliced potatoes soaked in green tea
use them for eye puffiness just like you do cucumbers
it's supposed to be so much better for you and worked really well

Oh really hummy? I'll have to try that. Mud mask and...potato time? lol

yeah, soak/steep it in green tea
then relax with it on for twenty minutes
it's supposed to really reduce the swelling
and it reduces the darkness around your eye, too

I don't have any puffy eyes, but thanks to my funky sleep schedule, I sometimes have a bit o' darkness. I'll have to try that out.

Maybe with my homemade mudmask.