I know, and he'll ask me sometimes why I don't trust him at times, but he hates if I bring up the past. I know that if I had a history of cheating on ex's then he'd have a hard time trusting me too. Actually, I have no history of that, and he still doesn't trust me much. He won't admit to his extreme insecurities either.
But like I said, we just had a really good summer together, and I really think it helped strengthen our bond and our trust in each other. Well, I had thought that, except for the tantrum he had for the first few days of me being here because I spent much of the time talking to my new roommate, because he was the only one home (now living with 2 guys and a girl). He flipped over me being less than responsive during a two hour frame where I wasn't texting him back that much because I have having a discussion. Then he had that audacity to ask me the next day if I cheated on him. If he was here in person I would have kicked his stupid ass myself. I was so pissed off at him to have the nerve to ask such a thing from me the day after I move into a new home. He knows I'm not that kind of person. And mind you, the roommate I was talking to is about 40. Grrrr. Gets me worked up just thinking about it.
I think the main problem is just the arguments. Like that stupid petty one I just mentioned. Those are what make things worse between us.
D: That SUCKS. That is the distance though...silly petty arguments that wouldn't happen if you were in person together. UGH. I feel for you, so badly! I do hope it works itself out, but dayum you have a lot to deal with @_@;
Thank you very much, Randeh
Yeah, i'm hoping so much things just go smoothly, because my life is already going to be rough enough without fights on the side. I really need him to be able to lean on, not to help push me over, you know? That was an issue last semester. He just kept bringing me down and everything was always about him, but he didn't take me into consideration and how I was working my butt off. Things are going to only be crazier this semester for me, too, because I also got a job, and they want me working nights until closing (11:30). @__@;; Have a huge load from classes, and then huge night work shifts. Going to be rough. This will also be his first semester in college and he'll be working, too, so I know that he's going to be having things a little rough, too, because he's never experienced this before.
@ Suona - Woman! You keep making it sound even more and more hard @____@!!! I know what it's like to be in school and working full time. I was taking a full time course in College as well as extra courses online and working 40-47hrs a week (from 6am - 5pm on weekends and 3pm to midnight/1am on weekdays) so I feel for you! If he's not used to it it's definitely going to be a super readjustment! I think something that worked for me a bit (at least for a while) in my last long distance relationship was the mentality that when we fought - it was because of the distance. I knew it and just had to remind myself. It didn't always work but it often took the edge off a bit. D:
It's going to be tough though, but all good things are worth it right? I'm here if you ever need to vent!
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And yeah, I noticed that a bunch of my links on my runway thread got botched. I'll have to go back in and replace a ton of avis once I figure out what is missing. Way too much hassle. I wonder why it's doing that, though.
I noticed the same thing when I was in my runway thread the other day. I have no clue what is missing by just looking at it. So I'll probably just wait to do one big update on my thread since it's out of date anyway.
Right? I've made so many avis that I can't tell just by looking. I'll have to pull open my folder of avis and the thread and compare the gradually to see what's missing. I need to update a bunch of old avis, anyway, because they weren't saved as png's, so the quality is poor.
I don't have many of my really old avatars saved and the ones that I do have saved are kind of jumbled in with avatars I created using the old DAC that you had to download to use.
Mine basically go in order of how old they are, just because that's how they're saved in my folder. And I only put up avis that I've actually made, so it's a little bit less work. I wonder if I should move of them over from tinypic if they're special ones I want saved. Perhaps I'll just store my AP and UP wins in their own folders so that I can remember which ones I won with incase the links get lost. That'd be my only worry.
I was so pissed off at him to have the nerve to ask such a thing from me the day after I move into a new home. He knows I'm not that kind of person. And mind you, the roommate I was talking to is about 40. Grrrr. Gets me worked up just thinking about it.
