Yeah. Like a hikikomori ^^ Have you seen Welcome to the NHK ( I think it's NHK anyway)

oh I understand that. I hate being forcing into long car trips with my family because I have no space and its really horrible. small spaces are nice, but being close to being is not.

Yeah but mine is things like the mall scares me...

oh. I never go to the mall so I wouldn't know if that would ever scare me. its small enclosed spaces with people in my space that bother me a lot. if there's no people, I could purposely lock myself in a small closet or box because I like that small dark space. yes, I am weird.

Hmm.. do you like going out at night Nao? And maybe wal-mart at 3 am? Hehe... it's nice then. Even I like it then :P

I live in a community that 3am is when all the scary hicks come out

Oh... neermind then. How would you be able to stand it in Japan then? There are SO many people in a really small space. It's always busy my hikikomori friend ^^ But you'll have your future hubby to keep you safe :heart:

Yeah that and I'm slowly getting over it:D

Well that's good. I'm really glad Nao! I was like that in korea. I swaear I hardly ever left my room and tried to leave only when it was dark outside so people wouldn't see me.

Zephi: yes it good plus I think Nao's future hubby will force her to leave :heart:

That's not always good. But if you can focus on him and what you guys are doing and just forget everyone else around you, you'll have a great time. Moving to another country will be awesome. Do you live in the US now?

I do he lives in England T_T

Aw. That's sad nao! I knwo how you feel though *pats nao on the shoulders* It'll be ok. You guys spend much time together?

We voice chat every night or most and we've been together for 4 months....which seems like way too soon to say I do but its like omg he is the one.....

You don't even have to explain Nao ^^ I know exactly what you mean. I met my hubby online and he definitely is THE one. We were talking about 2 days before I knew for a fact that I loved him. Dated for 4 months before we met in person. It's been amazing the whole time so I'm really happy for you :heart:

Thanks Zephi :D

Hehe... Well I really mean it! I wouldn't say it if I didn't!

I like to be myself online. I know a lot of people would rather be someone else and do things and say things that they wouldn't say in person but I'm quite the opposite in the fact that I like to be true to myself. Everything to you see and hear is me :P

*waves* i got my tank set up running!!!!! hooray!!! now to play the waiting game :(

Zephi:I'm true to myself too, I know you are honest

llonka:waiting for what?

Hey llonka! Finally decided to join the insanity huh? :D

Are you waiting for the water to get to the right temperature??? O_O I wanna see! Take pictures of it and post on FB :P

for the filter to cycle ^^ will get some guppies on saturday.

not the cherry ones????:(

yeah i wanted those but thought we should make sure the tank is ok first. i'm a nerd haha

Don't worry llonka my dad was too

Aww... where are you gonna get the cherry barbs from? Do they have them nearby?