Originally Posted by hummy

that is so good to hear
i'm so happy your doctor's appointment
had all good results for you, sweet star!

me to with all the stress i was sure it'd be all bad news, i mean im fifteen pounds heavier but for four months? that's not bad, i can lose that easy. im goign to try and restrict myself back to a tuna deit. with chicken in between i figure this way i can lose that and try and go lower..

Originally Posted by LiviInLove

I may be able to look into it for the future, but it's too late now to get myself over there - I can't just up and leave my husband and the girls without warning a day and a half before and I'm not sure how long I'd have to be over there.
But I'll definitely check it out.

oh yeah that is really soon
i was reading some online news
this guy's wife had a down syndrom baby
in their country you can abandon the baby, legally
she said the baby or me and he took the baby
yay for a good father. anyway he did a gofundme
he got an incredible amount of donations
it melted my heart. love is unconditional

star is going to go crash now se eyou guys when she gets back.

Originally Posted by star2000shadow

me to with all the stress i was sure it'd be all bad news, i mean im fifteen pounds heavier but for four months? that's not bad, i can lose that easy. im goign to try and restrict myself back to a tuna deit. with chicken in between i figure this way i can lose that and try and go lower..

and drink a full lass of water one half hours before you eat your meals

Originally Posted by hummy

oh yeah that is really soon
i was reading some online news
this guy's wife had a down syndrom baby
in their country you can abandon the baby, legally
she said the baby or me and he took the baby
yay for a good father. anyway he did a gofundme
he got an incredible amount of donations
it melted my heart. love is unconditional

Yeah. Sadly too soon. :( I can't do that to Al and the girls - even though I really do want to be there.

Oh, that is wonderful. Good dad! <3 That's wonderful that he got so much support! <3

Good to know that guy did what was right :)

Originally Posted by star2000shadow

star is going to go crash now se eyou guys when she gets back.

have a good nights sleep, star
thank you for helping me

Alright, it's time for me to attempt to sleep. Night y'all!

Originally Posted by LiviInLove

Yeah. Sadly too soon. :( I can't do that to Al and the girls - even though I really do want to be there.

Oh, that is wonderful. Good dad! <3 That's wonderful that he got so much support! <3

he is going to start a fund for other families
so they don't have to abandon their child
i never knew people abandon their children
i could't abandon a puppy or a kitten


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good night and sweet dreams, Livi, sweetie

I don't think its fair to say that love is unconditional. Some people are strong enough to handle and support a disabled child, but some people are completely destroyed by it. And if someone has the responsibility to admit that to themselves and either choose to give the child away for adoption or abort, I think that's something that should be respected, not looked down upon. Its sure better than introducing the child to a bad environment where everyone is friggin' miserable.

geez i'm crying at a soap opera!


---------- Post added 02-17-2015 at 04:05 AM ----------

Originally Posted by Dystopia

I don't think its fair to say that love is unconditional. Some people are strong enough to handle and support a disabled child, but some people are completely destroyed by it. And if someone has the responsibility to admit that to themselves and either choose to give the child away for adoption or abort, I think that's something that should be respected, not looked down upon. Its sure better than introducing the child to a bad environment where everyone is friggin' miserable.

i am saying this love is unconditional
this father loves his beautiful son unconditonally


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Ahhh... Controversial. Well as a mother to a little boy with severe autism, and another with learning difficulties. I can't and will never understand or support aborting because baby doesn't meet expectations. I have neuro typical children as well (one, my daughter) and although I love all my kids unconditionally, there is something much more rewarding when you work hard so hard with a child who struggles and you see small progress. Definetly not for everyone takes a super strong person to feel the kind of pain and hurt that comes along for the ride so(good ones outweigh the bad) yes adoption I think is understandable. Not sure I could respect the choice to abort for the baby having issues :(.

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it is too early lol I've been up for a few hours ughh.. I'm sleepy lol.

good morning, Bbe sorry i was updating

that's OK hummy *hugs* how are you?

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How long is left of event? I don't want it to end ever lolol

what upset me the most was that they throw the babies away like trash. the mother did not set eyes on her son, nor hold or even touch him. it broke my heart that he never got that mother's love bond. i just don't see how you don't love a child because it's not perfect.

Its not a matter of the child not meeting your expectations. Its understanding what impact this child will have on you and on your life. Depending on the household, a disabled child may completely ruin them. It takes a lot of time and money to care for a disabled child- And the two things form a vicious cycle- "I need to be home 24/7 to care for this child, so I cannot work. If I do not work, I cannot support my family. I need to work 24/7 to support this child, so I cannot be home. If I'm not home, I cannot support my family."

There should never be shame in choosing to give away or abort a child. Not everyone is capable of giving a disabled child a fulfilling life. Depending on the severity of the disability, its questionable if the disabled child is even capable of a fulfilling life, and its cruel to everyone involved to not euthanize.

Its not about "How many lives." But "How many lives worth living."

i'm watching 'downton abbey' and i am sobbing over a TV dog dying of cancer. and i look at that baby boy and it breaks my heart he'll never know his mother's love.

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Originally Posted by Babyblueyez25

that's OK hummy *hugs* how are you?

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How long is left of event? I don't want it to end ever lolol

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no Dy, it's not. it is his imperfections. she told her husband
me or the child' and he choose the baby boy and she divorced him and he is not welcome in the family/in laws house.
and as an infant she doesn't even know the severity of his disabality

Originally Posted by Dystopia

Its not a matter of the child not meeting your expectations. Its understanding what impact this child will have on you and on your life. Depending on the household, a disabled child may completely ruin them. It takes a lot of time and money to care for a disabled child- And the two things form a vicious cycle- "I need to be home 24/7 to care for this child, so I cannot work. If I do not work, I cannot support my family. I need to work 24/7 to support this child, so I cannot be home. If I'm not home, I cannot support my family."

There should never be shame in choosing to give away or abort a child. Not everyone is capable of giving a disabled child a fulfilling life. Depending on the severity of the disability, its questionable if the disabled child is even capable of a fulfilling life, and its cruel to everyone involved to not euthanize.

Its not about "How many lives." But "How many lives worth living."

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abandoning these children isn't the same as giving them to a good home.
some of these babies are abandon in the streets! some are just left in the hospital like you leave an umbrella at church.
it has nothing to do with the amount of work to take care of the child. it's legal to just dump them like trash.

Totally for adoption some people aren't cut out for the no sleep, the therapy's, the lack of communication, the feeling of helplessness and knowing what's affecting your baby you cant control. I'm a single mum I know too well how it wears a person down so I can totally understand adoption. If I could take my sons autism away would I? Yup without a doubt but I'd never be able to just abort coz the baby has a different need of support than neurotypical.. I mean we shouldn't get to play god.. And even the abandoning its so wrong. The important people in every scenario are the children and babies involved. If my baby was severe I'd still continue my pregnancy, if the baby wasn't going to live much more than a few hours after birth I'd still continue. How could I grow that gorgeous little part of me perfect in its own way and not at least try fight for it and protect it. Doctors aren't always right. He won't walk, he won't talk, he won't blabla... I guess I'm jus a lil different that way.

Oh no. I don't support literally throwing a child away- There are many other options for families who feel unable to nurture a child that they've created. I support the options to give a child away to adoption or abort them, but I don't support murdering one in cold blood.

All I'm saying is- People have different strengths. Different mental and emotional fortitude, and different financial situations. If some people decide that they aren't able, for whatever reason, to take their child, then they shouldn't be looked down on for using a legal and humane method to make what they feel is the best choice for themselves and that child.

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They allow abortion in this country at late late stages if the baby is 'disabled' that's so wrong..

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I consider abortion a purely health-issue, not a moral issue of "playing God." No human is forced to give up their liver, their spare kidney, their blood or bone marrow, because a life depends on it. Its morally wrong to force a woman to give up her womb using the argument, "A life depends on it."