i understand it's each woman's choice and i support that. but isn't it supposed to be in the first trimester

Originally Posted by Babyblueyez25

They allow abortion in this country at late late stages if the baby is 'disabled' that's so wrong..

I'm not anti abortion! The stage they are able to tell you a baby has issues like you are talking about is far far far too late on!

Iunno. My opinion on this largely depends on what they considered "disabled enough" to quality a woman for a late-term abortion.

They bend the rules for a baby in uterine with 'abnormalities' most of the babies born at the stages they still allow people to abort the baby has a high chance of living :/.. Also if baby was without issued they'd never have terminated anyway so why does because what a doctor says might be the out come then make it OK :(, I'm sorry I guess it just hits me on a personal level.

when i think of abortion i cannot keep morality and religion out of my thoughts. but i do, in spite of that, believe it's up to each woman. especially where health is in jeopardy. i disapprove of abortion as a form of 'birth control' i'm not sure how i feel about the morning after pill. i suppose it's better than abortion. even though that is basically what it is.

Originally Posted by Dystopia

I consider abortion a purely health-issue, not a moral issue of "playing God." No human is forced to give up their liver, their spare kidney, their blood or bone marrow, because a life depends on it. Its morally wrong to force a woman to give up her womb using the argument, "A life depends on it."

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that term makes me ill.

Originally Posted by Dystopia

Iunno. My opinion on this largely depends on what they considered "disabled enough" to quality a woman for a late-term abortion.

@ BBE - The important thing here is- What KIND of abnormalities? If they're severe enough, and the abortion won't harm the other, then I think the mother should have the option to terminate her pregnancy.

@ Hums - As long as you understand that how you feel on a religious and moral level is not what should be imposed on other women, then power to you. I respect your views as you respect mine.
No, the morning after pill is not the same as an abortion. It ONLY works if a fetus has not yet formed- If it has, then its too late, and the pill does nothing.

I think the morning after pill is OK in my opinion.. I fell pregnant with twins when my 3rd child was 6months old.. I wouldn't of ever considered termination but the pregnancy wasn't successful.

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I know one woman a family member of my friend who was 28 weeks pregnant when they found out their baby had downs syndrome.. She terminated...

i'm sure it does, Bbe. i think if the baby doesn't terminate naturally it's supposed to be born. i do prefer giving the baby up for adoption. but this abandonment issue make me sick. like i would not do that to a dog or a bunch of puppies. my dad says i;m a bleeding heart, maybe. but i feel ever life is important sorry this got so intense. i just love how that father love his son unconditionally. he's a beautiful boy and i hope he has a wonderful life

Originally Posted by Babyblueyez25

They bend the rules for a baby in uterine with 'abnormalities' most of the babies born at the stages they still allow people to abort the baby has a high chance of living :/.. Also if baby was without issued they'd never have terminated anyway so why does because what a doctor says might be the out come then make it OK :(, I'm sorry I guess it just hits me on a personal level.

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i wouldn't be able to take it, personally. maybe if, God forbid, a rape had occured. but who know what one would do until you walk in those shoes, right.
i'm sorry your lost your twins. but wow, five kiddos all under four.

Originally Posted by Babyblueyez25

I think the morning after pill is OK in my opinion.. I fell pregnant with twins when my 3rd child was 6months old.. I wouldn't of ever considered termination but the pregnancy wasn't successful.

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I know one woman a family member of my friend who was 28 weeks pregnant when they found out their baby had downs syndrome.. She terminated...

I know lol sillyness on my part but I was very much 'I made my bed imma lay in it' I thought it was only one baby though.. Until I had some bleeding at 8weeks and I got an emergency ultrasound and there was 2 babies on the screen ... I was terrified but the pregnancy naturally ended. I just think fate and what's meant to be will be.

did you find out what the baby's genders were.
i agree with you. the 'made your bed, i'mma lay in it' made me giggle.
isn't that what got you into this position =3

Originally Posted by Babyblueyez25

I know lol sillyness on my part but I was very much 'I made my bed imma lay in it' I thought it was only one baby though.. Until I had some bleeding at 8weeks and I got an emergency ultrasound and there was 2 babies on the screen ... I was terrified but the pregnancy naturally ended. I just think fate and what's meant to be will be.

Originally Posted by hummy

did you find out what the baby's genders were.
i agree with you. the 'made your bed, i'mma lay in it' made me giggle.
isn't that what got you into this position =3

Lmao yes it was . No I didn't they where too young I was 9weeks when the pregnancy ended so they were tiny.

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Sorry I went to DAC im desperate to work out a more layered n detailed look

i wasn't sure you could tell that young.

no worries work away, i wish i could do that
i just toss things together and it never works

ohh I've given up now lol! I love your avatar hummy I think it works perfectly

I never got into the layering thing. 8U

oh dystopia you are one of my fave avatar creators on mene. Layering or not your avatars are hella creative that's why I always used your feedback in the avatar forums lol.

I just throw stuff on in the same colour.
This is what happens.

sleepy its also an awesome avatar

Awhh. Thanks, BBE. I have fun creating avatars, and I'm glad you like them.

Hey Anarchy, you walking demon thang. How'd your grid game go?

yup I sure do, u suona and Linnea usually always have eye catching unique avatars. I'm jelly of the looks and things you are all able to work lol.

Oh man. Did you ever see Linnea's Linguin?

I'm not sure if I did

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Oh no yes I did!! I seen it in her runway

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and her pink ninja turtle

i don't get the layering thing either

You have kinda layered there hummy

star finds her body annoying righ tnow i get an hour and a half sleep, then the throbbing of my knee and shoulder woke me up 'sigh'

I LOVE HER LINGUIN ITS THE MOST DELIGHTFUL OF ALL THINGS. LOL.