I was 16.

I don't mind public sex, it's quite exciting C: Though one time my partner and I clearly scared off some French tourists and he was bricking it because he thought they were going to report us and that they took down his car registration and things, so he came up with some bullshit story as to what we were doing in the unlikely event that happened xD

What story? XD

Well he said that we'd have to pretend to be our mutual friend and his girlfriend, then he said if anyone asked what we were doing we were having tea and cakes in the back seat and catching up on our day. xD

lol what XD

Haha riiiight!

The only time public sex was finished was out in our car. It was fun as we felt like teenagers again, trying to hide one on our parents. I remember driving around out in the middle of nowhere, trying to find the perfect place to tuck away. Ironically, a few years later my husband ended up smoking a joint with my dad and brother in the same snow bank we had found to hide together. He said the feeling was 'odd'.

Damn I miss my brother.

There's a place near my house called Rogie Falls (okay it's not that near, it's like a fifteen minute drive) and the car park is tucked in off the road and since it's for hiking it's usually dead at night. That's where we went. First and second time it was just us, third time we scared off the French tourists and never went back haha

My very first kiss was when I was 7 and it was a girl from down the block, she was my "gf" at the time. Later when I was 14 I made out with one of my friends and tried some things for the first time.

The first time was awkward, I was 16 or 17 (?) we had been friends for a long time then and I'm not sure how it ended up happening, but it was also not bad, it was important to me at the time because we had been very close for a few years and after that we ended up doing it a few more times over the years but never staying together, eventually it ended and we met other people but I still see her once in a while.

Originally Posted by Izumi

Slapper is very British. *nods*

Bartuc - :0 14 too? I was 19...late bloomer I guess. Sex in public is just plain awkward...tried a few times.

Awkward? You mean awesome, right ;)

Originally Posted by Insomniac

Awkward? You mean awesome, right ;)

If I could find a place that was out in the middle of nowhere I would enjoy it more. I don't like the thought of getting caught....and that makes it hard for me to enjoy it.

my first kiss was with my first boyfriend, back in grade 9. It was a simple kiss, nothing special.
My first time having sex was with my current boyfriend. We were together for 6 months - both of us were 18- before we entertained the idea of sex. It was pretty... well it was kinda weird to be honest. *laughs* It was both of our first times. I had 4 boyfriends before him-but nothing past light petting happened- and I was his first girlfriend, so we both had a bit of learning to do about each other.
Now almost 4 years since we started dating, sex is still pretty magical. ^.^

I've always wanted to try public sex. I'm kind of a show off, and I like attention, and I like being daring and bold. My boyfriend on the other hand is a bit more reserved.
I did get to go parking with my best chick friend -also my boyfriends best friend's girlfriend. We just wanted to try something completely new, and our boys were okay with it. So we found a road hidden in a wheat field, and tried something new. We discovered that I'm bisexual - I'm fully willing to be in a committed sexual relationship with a guy or girl-and she just has a wonderful appreciation for the human body. But our relationship hasn't changed, which I consider myself lucky for.

@Izu - agreed. If not for getting caught intimacy in the grass sounds awesome. Granted anything else just sounds awkward in general.

Originally Posted by Izumi

If I could find a place that was out in the middle of nowhere I would enjoy it more.

This made me teehee. Ostensibly saying "I'd like sex in public if it wasn't in public." :p

Originally Posted by Saisei

This made me teehee. Ostensibly saying "I'd like sex in public if it wasn't in public." :p

Well, maybe saying "out in the open" is more appropriate. I won't lie -- vc Andrews novels inspired me to daydream about a picnic out in the open in the middle of a field in the middle of nowhere. And no, not with my uncle. :P

I messed around through clothing when I was 15 with my first boyfriend, but we never kissed on the lips, we did kiss on the face, hands, shoulders and necks. My second boyfriend(whom I'm with now, and I like to call him, "my rebound relationship gone right) was my first kiss and we didn't kiss for three months into the relationship. It was skyhigh romantic.

Both of us had our first time together 9 months into the relationship. It was in a bed and it was amazingly romantic and perfect. It wasn't planned but it wasn't totally accident either. I slept all night with him after that (17 now.)

He is a great guy.

@ TAK - Aww that's a cute story >w<

Aww aura I feel all fuzzy inside. I love that feeling of a relationship feeling so right. I had to go through 5 years with someone who turned out not to be the one for me, but it was worth it as I ended up finding mr. Right after it, while I was trying to rebound myself. So many things could of gone wrong and we wouldn't be together, but we made it. :)

I love cute stories like that! :')

my very first kiss was in fourth grade :)

My first kiss was actually non-consensual. But my first consensual one was with my at-the-time girlfriend of nine months. I don't regret that. I loved her a ton.

My first time having sex was with my current fiancee. I definitely don't regret that. My first time wasn't exceptionally special, but it was my first. I'm glad I got to share it with her. I believe that "virginity" is of course going to vary from person to person. For some, it's important, for others it's not. To me, I wouldn't go giving it to just anyone, but I don't think it's an end-all kind of deal. It's just sex, and sex is natural. But virginity just seems to be the construct of men thinking that they can drastically change something about women. I mean, what does that word mean to homosexual couples especially lesbians, anyway? The hymen can break at any time for any reason, and that doesn't change the worth of the person at all.

Technically, the hymen doesn't even break, it just gets stretched out.

Stretchy, stretchy.

I was kind of "old" when I first had sex. I was in my 20s.

One of my friend's is in his 20s and he's still a virgin so it's not old at all. :) Pretty sure the average age was either 18 or 18 anyway

I believe when you give birth it goes away though.

Really bucketea? I thought the average was like 15... o.o

Not every time, but it usually does disappear after you give birth

Nope, not at all. For every bunch of horny thirteen year olds there is an equal number of twenty year olds that are waiting

Huh... maybe the average is just really low here...