What have you been up to?

Hey Immy and I am going to a baby shower this weekend. still need buy a gift as well a gift bag.

Hi Kat. Hi Star. Been doing...well here I just sent this to someone else on another site in a message...maybe it was this site anyways...

So laundry is almost completely done, been playing fb games, and been watching season one of CSI Las Vegas with Grissom in it. Yes I'm re watching it all over again. I cannot wait until autumn now just to see the new SuperGirl series. Oh and I'm posting tomorrow and if the rest of the house don't get done I do not care. I've done so much laundry the past three days after being sick and procrastinating on drawing for awhile now that I thought my step dad would notice. But, his only thought to me today was "You didn't do the trash?" he got home late at 8:30-9pm for once, this is rare for him at work some times without storms being around, and I am like, I give up. "I aint doing nothing tomorrow" so I'm going to chill as much as I can while I watch the butterflies cocoon themselves. They hooked their selves onto the garage door and in a bad spot they might have been killed, two got moved today, and one more gets moved tomorrow after taking my brother to school and the library. Luckily we have bug containers to catch insects in and watch. Comes in handy lol.

Thats a bit of what has been up. Anyways, off to bed soon after trash >.> and more laundry.

Well okay then, you sound busy.

Haha with laundry alone yes, I just have to do 3 blankets today AND probably the dishes, but everything else...well I'll say "F*ck it" excuse my language.

Three blankets doesn't actually sound that much.

Well this week for about 3 days now constantly doing laundry for four people (step dad, mom, 6 year old little brother, myself, and blankets included) means...almost twenty loads or more lol I lose count, step dad has alot of clothes for a guy.

It's kinda a lot, but that's also what happens when you're an adult living with your family without a job. Mine did the same to me.

Nah I chose to do the laundry lol now I just gotta do dishes XD

Why are you complaining if it was your choice?

Cuz I'm tired. I was forced to get up an hour earlier than my usual time and there is a lot of negativity in the house. So Im on edge with everything. I did it to make my mom happy and to keep my step dad from b*tching. Worked with mom, never works with him.

I did laundry everyone 30-45 minutes yesturday all day until 9pm and finishing it today and last night he just comes home late and complains trash didn't get taken out.

Originally Posted by Immy

Cuz I'm tired. I was forced to get up an hour earlier than my usual time and there is a lot of negativity in the house. So Im on edge with everything. I did it to make my mom happy and to keep my step dad from b*tching. Worked with mom, never works with him.

I did laundry everyone 30-45 minutes yesturday all day until 9pm and finishing it today and last night he just comes home late and complains trash didn't get taken out.

Sounds like you're dealing with an authoritarian. Those are the most annoying sorts of people. "I'M ALWAYS RIGHT BY DEFINTION, AND I'LL BEMOAN YOU AS HATING AUTHORITY IF YOU DARE CHALLENGE ME.... but I'll sit in a corner and cry about how unfair authority is when it's not my authority..."

That's the common trait I see with them.

He thinks he is always right, he's a leo and italian (which doesn't do well when mom is pisces and German, I'm German and a scorpio, and my little brother is...German, Irish, and Italian all in one including a libra I think) so we don't mix well in this house hold.

He wants us to do everything his way and just the way he wants it done when he wants it done. He thinks because we don't work that we have nothing else to do (we take care of the my brother, his only kid who is a pain in the ass. Forgive my words) he is egotistical alot and believes he doesn't do anything wrong. Ever. Which annoys me to no end because when something is his fault he gets dramatic.

Originally Posted by Immy

He thinks he is always right, he's a leo and italian (which doesn't do well when mom is pisces and German, I'm German and a scorpio, and my little brother is...German, Irish, and Italian all in one including a libra I think) so we don't mix well in this house hold.

He wants us to do everything his way and just the way he wants it done when he wants it done. He thinks because we don't work that we have nothing else to do (we take care of the my brother, his only kid who is a pain in the ass. Forgive my words) he is egotistical alot and believes he doesn't do anything wrong. Ever. Which annoys me to no end because when something is his fault he gets dramatic.

Definitely an authoritarian and a narcissist. Possibly also a sociopath. I know my dad is pretty similar at times. Though he tends to be SLIGHTLY more pragmatic about it. But I know right wing authoritarian tendencies when I see them.

I'm just annoyed lately, nothing I can do can keep him from bitching, I'm not looking for attention, I'm just trying to keep more positive in the house and its not working. This is why I wish I was working again, I don't have a job anymore, so finding one is kind of hard.

Anyways, I've given up on most of my things I like to do this past week and still he doesn't care. Also, you should see him when we bring up the PRIDE subject on gays, bis, trans, etc. He didn't even know what I was (what it meant) lol

Originally Posted by Immy

I'm just annoyed lately, nothing I can do can keep him from bitching, I'm not looking for attention, I'm just trying to keep more positive in the house and its not working. This is why I wish I was working again, I don't have a job anymore, so finding one is kind of hard.

Anyways, I've given up on most of my things I like to do this past week and still he doesn't care. Also, you should see him when we bring up the PRIDE subject on gays, bis, trans, etc. He didn't even know what I was (what it meant) lol

I get the feeling that he would smash the computer if you watched any of the progressive new channels on Youtube or various other outlets.

Dang girl your step dad sounds like a big baka. At least you help around the house. To bad he dose not seem to appreciate it.

haha he isn't that that bad lol

Haha star I haven't heard that term in forever.

I hope you've got a nice de-stressor handy. You sound like you need it.

Usually music, games, or re watching the first CSI Las Vegas with Grissom in it, I cannot wait until I get the Criminal Minds series going over again.

I've been looking for people to do some gaming with. Mostly things like Age of Wonders 3, or even some other multiplayer games. I would like an excuse to pick up more of those.

I know some people that playing Final Fantasy 14 are world of warcraft. I have not played a good mulit-player game in a long time. maybe I should try find a new online one again.

Originally Posted by bluerockman

I've been looking for people to do some gaming with. Mostly things like Age of Wonders 3, or even some other multiplayer games. I would like an excuse to pick up more of those.

All I have is Guild Wars.

You know, I never got around to trying it, but I heard it was one of the MMOs that did MMOs right. And didn't force a monthly fee on you.

They started to at first, but then it changed and now its free.

Also, I need to desperately find some fandoms.