Probably that. You yelled at him for lying, but you'd probably yell at him for gaming, too, so he kind of postponed it? Men. xD;

Iunno. I kinda feel like Shad woulda gotten upset anyways because he was gaming LOL.

Okay maybe. But at least he would have told the truth.
I hate being lied too. >.<

That's understandable. No one likes being lied to.

Why would i have been mad at him for gaming? we got married to zelda music, and our rings were in pokeballs. I'm a bigger gamer than he is. I don't understand why he had even the remote idea he had to lie to me.

*still angry* i chose him over another guy because he always told the truth to me, and accepted me for who i am. I don't take lying to me well.
and he has been doing FAR to much of it.

Then my previous statement stands. If he had just told the truth, Shad wouldn't have gotten upset.

Iunno. But it sounds like he was afraid that's what was gonna happen.

If he's been lying to you often, you might wanna talk to him about it, not us. We can't tell you what his problem is. And if its important to you, you should def confront him.

i'm just ranting. because this is an ongoing thing. and no matter what we do we're arguing every day. i try to talk to him and he gets pissy and storms off cause he's just been scolded... like.. omg... its like he's 5.. i married a 5 year old. I have 3 kids.

idek. If there are ongoing problems, it just sounds like a good idea to bring 'em up and deal with 'em. Or they'll just annoy you until you get pissed enough to do something you regret.

Kind of agree with Dystopia there, only the issue is if the conversation can be started in relatively calm manner and led in same way at least for a while, not just turn into insult/anger fest....

Yikes, crazy alert.

i really wish that was possible guys. :[ i've tried so much.

.___. Iunno then. That kinda strikes me as a major red flag for relationships. If you guys can't communicate and its over something that's super important to you, that's a terrible, terrible thing.

*has never had relationships so will stray away from commenting/giving advice...*

I fail at advice, so I stay quiet too.

Originally Posted by Dystopia

.___. Iunno then. That kinda strikes me as a major red flag for relationships. If you guys can't communicate and its over something that's super important to you, that's a terrible, terrible thing.

yeah... we have our days that we love each other. but its just days. we've been closer to breaking up than anything else.

*bids the thread good night as she heads off*

.___. I'm sorry. /hug.

I hope its just a rough patch that you two can overcome.

i hope so as well.... i really don't wanna give up.

night sadrain

I understand that feeling. And that's good too! Its not good to give up on important things too easily.
Just make sure that holding on is good for you, too.

well i hope it is...

super exhausted now though. darn 2 am.. can't stay up another our til end of event. >.<

sorry i couldn't get 100 posts in. i really did try :[ (when i had the chance to be on)

.___. Take care of yourslef.

i try. xD i just.. i'm so addicted to events. and i didn't get to really touch it until now.

:U They are p. nice.

you know what would be awaesome of my husband right now. coming in and dtragging my falling asleep butt away from the computer. xD