Do you observe that males and females take on different roles in your family?
Are these roles along the same lines as the stereotypical or traditional gender roles?

The only Female roles I really see is that the wives seem to cook and the husbands barbecue. The rest varies a lot.

The women also tend to do a lot more event planning and the guys don't really care to do it.

The only mena and women I see often in my family are my parents. Other women, I see they usually do whatever they want while the men have to apologize for their behavior.

... But I can't cook because the last time I tried I endangered the security deposit and we need it back...