Loss.
We've all suffered, we've all experienced it in one way or another.

Last year I lost my Auntie Debbie to Ovarian Cancer. It was heart breaking, and then on August 30th I lost my grandmother. That was devestating.

I've never been good at handling my emotions when it comes to pain, but talking to others always helps. So I've decied to create a Nation to pain, to heart ache.

So come in and remember the good times with the people you've loved and lost. Remeber the happy, the good the the slightly crazy.

RULES:

~no insulting; we're here to bare our pain, not increase it
~follow Mene ToS
~be supportive
~Story telling memories is encouraged
~rules are subject to change at my whim

To have your loved one put on the In Loving Memory list, please fill this out.

If you have an icon your would prefer to have in front of the name just add that, or say no icon, or else I will use my own.
[COLOR="your choice"]~name of loved one -date of death~ yourname Misses You [/"color"]

IN LOVING MEMORY


~Auntie Debbie -19/8/11~ Codette Misses You
~Grandma Reine -30/8/12~ Codette Misses You
~♥Tia Joanie -/4/12~ hummy Misses You
~Grandma- 98 & Grandpa- 2000~ Llonka Misses You

We are now Open.

it's good to see you, Coddie♥.
you have been in my thoughts and prayers.
hummy lost her Tia this april to lung cancer.
her daughter said, 'i wish she would die already!'
not in a loving, merciful way,
in a greedy,'i want her monies and stuffs way.'
it broke my heart and i was and still am,
eternally grateful my Tia was too weak to hear her.

aww hummy thats an awful thing for her daughter to say *hugs* And thank you for all the support lately.

hummy is always here for her Coddie♥.

hummy wishes there was more she could do for you.

would you like to add your Tia to the In Loving Memory list?

hummy cannot*trieshardnotto*remember the exact day she left her.
it was april/2012♥Tia Joanie.

Hows that look? ^.^

just a little friendly foryourinformation, Coddie♥sweetie.
hummy wouldn't put up last names along with death dates.
it is way too easy to steal someone's identity these days as it is.
trust hummy, hummy is trustworthy and unfortunately, she knows firsthand.

good point. I'm so used to writting the full thing out for obituaries and family events.

yeah, people are ebil and sneakie like that.
a 'friend' of hummy's stole her identity, three times.
one time was most likely by her friend.
hummy still owes on that one.

Ouch that's cruel

yeah, hummy ignored a lot of telltale signs and regrets it now.

lurve for Coddie♥

i hope you are doing well, Coddie♥sweetie.

the people i miss is my great-grandparents. to me they were my grandparents, since my mom's parents died before i was born. I wish i could talk to them and get their wisdom on things.

aw, sorry, llonka♥

Grandma passed away in 98 and Grandpa in 2000 i think. i was just getting to where i could use their knowledge. :(

Aww llony!*hugs* would you like me to put them on the list?

So we just had the family viewing for grandma...whoa....

sure if you want Cody!

did you do ok? was this your first time? my first time was Grandma and it wierded me out a lot.

i'd love to stay and chat but i have class tonight and hubby is yelling for the dishes to be done before i go. so i'll talk to you tomorrow!

how did you handle it, Coddie♥?

It was my first time. It was weird. She kept looking like she was just napping... Like she'd wake up and scold us all for crying...
Needless to say by the end of prayers the entire family was in tears. At least my boyfriend is coming for the funeral tomorrow.
Llony, any thing special you want it to read or just grandma and grandpa with the years?

my condolences, Coddie♥sweetie.
i hope the funeral goes without drama.
i'm Italian, and we always have drama!