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Old 08-30-2015, 08:20 AM

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*checks to make sure she's not wearing a red shirt*

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Old 08-30-2015, 12:04 PM

*peeks in and waves* Hello.

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Old 08-30-2015, 11:33 PM

Silver Storm ~ I am so sorry about your husband.
If you need to chat or just need someone to talk to feel free to send me a message on this account or on my main.
If you need anything just let us know.
Each day will be difficult, but it will be easier in time.
I know some days are much harder to deal with than others.
How long had you been married?

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Old 08-31-2015, 04:59 PM

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Silver Storm ~ I am so sorry about your husband.
If you need to chat or just need someone to talk to feel free to send me a message on this account or on my main.
If you need anything just let us know.
Each day will be difficult, but it will be easier in time.
I know some days are much harder to deal with than others.
How long had you been married?
We had just celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary in June. He was the light of my life and so full of life. I miss him so much.

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:02 PM

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:04 PM

Thanks hummy.

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:05 PM

i read the first paragraph then posted my red shirt post
i'm speechless but want you to know my heart aches for you.
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I am going to try and be around but I don't know how it will all go. My husband passed away August 17th and his memorial service is tomorrow. Some days are better than others. But even if I am not here feel free to come in and hangout.

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:11 PM

Thank you hummy. It has been hard, some days are worse than others but I guess that is just life. He was so stubborn and full of life that I figured he would way out live me. Life just seems so empty now.

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:15 PM

i hope you have a good support system to lean on, sweetie

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:19 PM

Yes I do. He touched so many lives. Our church was filled for the memorial service with four rows of chairs outside in the foyer in front of both sets of doors.

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:24 PM

that's amazing, Silver
i'm so glad you have the church and friends/family
what a tragedy

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:30 PM

Yeah. I got home from work that night to find him gone and random bits of EMT paraphanalia strewn across my living room. Had to call the ER to find him, got transfered around like 5 times before some one told me he was there and asking for me but when I got to the hospital I was told he was dead. All I know about what happened is that he called 911 reporting shortness of breath and coughing up blood. And I overheard in the ER that he was dead on arrival. Nobody told me anything else.

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:33 PM

no help from the hospital?
that is just absurd!
as if this isn't traumatic enough
i'm so sorry you didn't get to say goodbye


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Old 08-31-2015, 05:41 PM

Yeah. They called his mom because she was the first listed emergency contact and didn't bother to even call and inform the WIFE!

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:43 PM

That's awful, Storm
I'm sorry they didn't at least think to contact you to tell you where he was.
That's tacky of the hospital, in my opinion.

How are you doing today?
Did the memorial service go well?

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Old 08-31-2015, 05:45 PM

I have no words for his mother
she should have got you to the hospital!


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sorry, this is hummy's mulie

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#42
Old 08-31-2015, 07:48 PM

My condolences Storm.

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#43
Old 08-31-2015, 07:50 PM

*leaves prayers/good thoughts*

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Old 08-31-2015, 09:36 PM

Storm: That's awful that they didn't inform you but they told his mom - which I can understand but you were his wife!! :( My heart breaks for you!!

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Old 08-31-2015, 09:43 PM

*leaves flowers and lurves*

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Old 08-31-2015, 09:54 PM

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That's awful, Storm
I'm sorry they didn't at least think to contact you to tell you where he was.
That's tacky of the hospital, in my opinion.

How are you doing today?
Did the memorial service go well?
Well and to me the worst was that they told me he was there and wanting to see me and then when I get there, he was dead on arrival.

The memorial service was wonderful and the church was full with four rows of chairs outside each set of double doors because there were so many people. I cried a lot but it was just what he would have wanted I think. I will post a link, in a minute, to the video that they made for him. It will give you an idea of the wonderful man I was married to. I mean if you guys want to see it.
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I have no words for his mother
she should have got you to the hospital!


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His mom told me she was trying to find my number but we never talked that much. His family was the kind that only really got together for funerals, weddings and the such.
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Storm: That's awful that they didn't inform you but they told his mom - which I can understand but you were his wife!! :( My heart breaks for you!!
It made me mad. We had been in there a week before and we had tried to get me listed as the first emergency contact. And WHY, when I had been in there with him the past few visits for something else, would you call the mother FIRST?! Its not like we were estranged or something.

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Old 08-31-2015, 09:56 PM

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Well and to me the worst was that they told me he was there and wanting to see me and then when I get there, he was dead on arrival.

The memorial service was wonderful and the church was full with four rows of chairs outside each set of double doors because there were so many people. I cried a lot but it was just what he would have wanted I think. I will post a link, in a minute, to the video that they made for him. It will give you an idea of the wonderful man I was married to. I mean if you guys want to see it.

His mom told me she was trying to find my number but we never talked that much. His family was the kind that only really got together for funerals, weddings and the such.

It made me mad. We had been in there a week before and we had tried to get me listed as the first emergency contact. And WHY, when I had been in there with him the past few visits for something else, would you call the mother FIRST?! Its not like we were estranged or something.
That is WRONG that they told you he was wanting to see you and then changed how things were when you got there.. I mean like wtf!! D: Grrr!

Woah!! :/ That's just WRONG! That hospital was in the wrong with how they chose to handle all of that.

I'm glad that the memorial service was wonderful.

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Old 08-31-2015, 09:56 PM

I would like to see it

and to be honest,
the mom knew your number. period.
it was wrong of her to not get you to her son.

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Old 08-31-2015, 10:04 PM

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That is WRONG that they told you he was wanting to see you and then changed how things were when you got there.. I mean like wtf!! D: Grrr!

Woah!! :/ That's just WRONG! That hospital was in the wrong with how they chose to handle all of that.

I'm glad that the memorial service was wonderful.
Yeah it really frustrates me. All they needed to tell me is that he was there and I was going to be out the door. I just didn't want to drive to that ER and find out that they had taken him to one of the others for some reason. But I drove there expecting to cry on his shoulder and then laugh it off and then I get there and the nurse is like "I'm sorry but he has passed away."
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I would like to see it

and to be honest,
the mom knew your number. period.
it was wrong of her to not get you to her son.
Yeah his mom is a different duck. She was really torn up that night but everytime I have seen her since, she is happy, smiling and telling you all the stories about Jacob. Some of them really aren't appropriate to be telling everyone, like all about his birth and how he was so big that he ripped things. And they are stories I have heard over and over.

Its terrible to say but it almost seems like she ENJOYS being the victim and all the attention that comes with this. I just want my husband back.

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Here is the video that was made of Jacob for the memorial service.

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#50
Old 08-31-2015, 10:06 PM

my nonna was the same way
8shrugs* some people like the spot
light now mater what the painful cost is

 


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