I never did anything like that. I was usually the submissive one in whatever way we did it though, I wouldn't mind being in control for once.

Your inventor has lasted 127 years too? :o

Really? I saw Vin as more of the dominant one...

Nope. I think I was only in the dominant role once and I was drunk so don't really remember it. I don't mind being a sub though. If I was going to try dominant again it would have to be someone that I'd slept with a couple times before so I'd trust them and therefore I'd be confident enough with them.

@ Vinyl: Sadly no, pappy passed away many many years ago... but his family has followed in his footsteps!

Anyways, dominant does seem like fun... I just don't think I could do it!! XD

@Cross: Aw, I'm sorry. At least the family still appreciate you! :)

I could only be dominant if I knew the person well, otherwise I'd hold back.

@ Vinyl: Yeah, I'm grateful!! I don't know if I'd still be around if they hadn't! XD

Well, my problem there... I'm rather shy in those situations, even with my girlfriend... idk why, it's just how my brain is!

Your family sound lovely! :')

Ah, I warm up considerably after a while. I think I'd only need around 3-5 times to get fully used to someone

Well does your girlfriend want the pain type? Tied down? Maybe teased? It really depends her preferences before you can go too far.

If you want to surprise her though... when she's on the bed just pounce her XD

Yeah, that's about how I am... those opportunities don't come up for us very often with her work schedule, and her roommates being home.. blah blah. But I know she wants to be the sub, so i guess I need to figure out how to be dominant! haha

---------- Post added 01-11-2013 at 08:57 PM ----------

Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

Well does your girlfriend want the pain type? Tied down? Maybe teased? It really depends her preferences before you can go too far.

If you want to surprise her though... when she's on the bed just pounce her XD

She's not too much into pain, I mean she is, just not serious pain. Tied down yes, and teasing is always good.. who doesn't like that one? haha.

(btw, not sure if your aware.. but this does change some things... she is MTF trans. So yeah..)

Tying up is always fun. :) Generally being rough is also a winner. Biting, scratching, hair pulling etc. (it depends on how long her hair is though).

She does have long hair... and again something I should mention... I, well.. I can't bite right now. lol, the rest I can do though! XD

You could always use ice cubes too :)

XD Well, she's got several fun things to use... a collar and leash, riding crop, rope... all the fun stuff!! lol

Ooh, very fun indeed haha

A few years ago when I was in school I jokingly asked my most prudish friend (who also happens to love horses) if I could borrow her riding crop because I had a busy weekend with the boyfriend planned and she actually stopped talking to me for three weeks. I still find it hilarious haha

LOL, that's funny! Some people just have no sense of humor!! haha

MtF doesn't actually change much... people of both gender can love being submissive... actually I found... I think it was more men wanted tied up than women in a study.

As for ice cubes... totally should :D
Also... depending how close you're comfortable getting, find fun places to put the ice cubes

They honestly don't haha. It was clearly meant as a joke anyway. The best one was some lad I knew said that this other girl I was friends with was so cold that her boyfriend would try and get her in the mood but she'd just roll him off of her and pick up Harry Potter to read instead xD

Well.. I just meant some things could be different due to different equipment... lol.

XD Never have tried ice cubes... could be interesting!

Ice cubes make things pretty amazing to be honest

@ Vinyl: wow... lol, one of my ex's was that way actually... she'd rather read than have sexy times. *shrugs* to each their own

Good thing to try as well, is take her arms and pin them to the bed at the wrists with your arms and have fun ~_^

I don't think I could happily date someone with a really low sex drive. Mine is ridiculously high so I'd need someone that felt the same xD

XD Tee hee... it's too bad I have no idea when I'll get to spend more time with her!! Cause now I'm wanting too! lol

Aw that's the worst D;

Originally Posted by Vinyl

I don't think I could happily date someone with a really low sex drive. Mine is ridiculously high so I'd need someone that felt the same xD

I'm the same... we had a lot of issues with that.. but hey, I'm not with her anymore, so that doesn't matter! My current relationship, we both very much have a high sex drive... so it works out pretty well! haha