agree its BS Clair..don't follow the rumors...^^ and go for it! :)


and i guess your right Suona.. i am just hoping i can resist that urge when the time comes..^^

Well, good.
I really want to get into college and not have a lot of bills to worry about over my head.

exactly Clairbear. :hug: you will be fine.. ill keep prayin for you...:)

and guess what? i have a new friend...who is donating a Vday pendant to go into my Sash offer....O_O I am like flabbergasted....and grateful... i am going to pay him back somehow..its a 85,000 value now...isn't it? ^^:

so now i am sort of halfway there to the 200k ^^;

WOW!
That's amazing! :O

Hayate and I are talking about a dream he had.
He and I got our own apartment in the dream! :heart:

really? thats an amazing dream... i think its more of a goal for him too...^^

my husband doesnt want to think about the house until he clears his debt... 9 more months...^^;

It's a goal for me, too.
He and I are talking about it right now, actually.
We've agreed that we won't seriously think about it until I've graduated, and also that we'd reassure our parents that we'd have seperate bedrooms. Neither of us want to have sex before marriage. It's both something we're against.

Good girl! so keep that chastity belt on as you are both living together.. k? but remember the parents might not trust the situation at first.. you both will have to work hard on that trust... k? :)

Really, Esme... if you understood my past, you'd realize that there was NO problem with me keeping my virginity. If you only knew, then you'd know I'd NEVER have sex before marriage, and Hayate only supports me 150%.

We both understand they won't trust us at first.
But we're determinded to prove them wrong.

THen go for it... i understand what you mean.. but im just saying it because you guys haven't lived together yet....its a strangely different situation from just going out and stuff.. you know? thats why hubby and I waited until after we were married... ^^ but if you guys feel you can handle it and gave serious thought to it... there should be nothing stopping you... :)

We agreed to have seperate bedrooms.
In all truth, I'm TERRIFIED of sex before marriage.... it's just not right.
Don't worry, you can trust me.

Thats good Clairbear.. i trust you..no worries.. i am just hoping it won't be a stressful situation with your parents is all. ^^ if they know your character.. im sure they will agree... :)

<3

im gonna head out for a bit.. will you be around later on..or will you be sleeping?

My mother should be fine with it, after we reassure her and talk to her about it. My father, though, who I haven't seen in 11 years in person, will probably flip, but it won't bother me. It's not like he's here, raising me.

mmm.. the father... yeah.. my father wasn't there raising me either..so when he was angry that i was getting married and he wasn't invited... i just said " if you actually stuck around then maybe you would have been...but since you disappeared for so long.. i was afraid the invite would have gone nowhere...so its your loss, dad" >>

pisses me off that they expect to be treated as fathers eventhough they haven't been there for most of your life...

I love my father, but... he lives far away, with his new wife and their baby daughter, my half sister. I just don't feel like his opinion on how I live my life matters... a whole lot.

Aaaw. I love you, Clair Bear. :hug:
I'm the same way. :) I don't want to have sex with anyone until I am married, and then only ever with that person. ^^ My one and only.

Although, you guys could very well sleep in the same bed and not have sex. Cuddling is a really nice thing.

ha I lived with my father untill I was in my second year of high school and he will not be coming to my weading.

I don't plan on having sex before marrige either. (but right now this is all kind of early since I don't have a boyfriend, lol)

@Clair Bear- Hm, I know that here you get free college if you are activily in high school. Once you are out you have to pay. So that might be what they are talking about. But college costs the same for everyone. If you go to school A and take class B then it is the same price for you and anyone else there.

@ Lilith - lol I don't have a boyfriend either. xP
I made it clear with my ex when we were together that I wouldn't have sex, though, and he was fine with it. He knew we are too young and that its good to wait.

Amen for Abstinence... ^^ just so you all know...well yall dont need to know..but i am such a sharer...lol.. i had sex at age 23...and it was great with my hubby and the passion and love and everthing was awesome.

so it can be done..and it will be great after marriage...^^

omg guys.. this great friend of mine just gave me a Vday pendant and bunch of other EIs and CIs to put for my Sash offer...O_O.. i need to calculate the total..its gonna tke a while...XD

ill brb. <3

@ Esme - Eh. I'd feel dirty if I just slept with a boyfriend and broke up and then married some other guy. I'd feel so guilty and like I somehow let my husband down.

And thats awesome! :O
Congrats!

Oh... I love your avi Suona.
I love the white and black look.

That is great Esme.
I am so happy for you. ^^

@ Lilith - Thank you. ^^
I love yours too. Lovely purple.

Gah sorry. I was tired when I typed that 1058

@Suona- I was trying to come up with something to wear but everything I put together looked like it was really unfinished so this was the final product.

Well I'm going to bed. Talk to ya'll later.

omg... i have a total of 127,750gold worth of items to offer up on the Sash.....O_O.. i just need about 72,250 gold....^^; I can do this!!! with help of my darling friends who give me items and gold... wow... i am so grateful! ^^

-snuggles esme-