Cool ^^;
Ohh interesting ... Are you buying a house?

lol i am buying a house but the open house i went to was for his school hotdogs and to see what they are doing in class...hehe

Ahh i guess the terms are different here. Because going to an open house here means; going to a house to view and maybe buy.

@Roachi - Yeah anywhere from 4 - 5 depending upon what you want to dead. A bursary is basically money that is put forth independently from the gov, or a business etc... for education. So some larger companies have bursaries that students can apply for and if they're accepted they get some extra cash. Chris got over 400 in bursaries from the government to go with his student loan.

That is definitely possible, especially if you're already eating healthy and working out and what not it could be something else. Which is super lame. My problem is that lately I've been getting headaches at least 1 - 3 times a week that last for hours on end. Its ridiculous.

Hahaha I think everyone wishes their hair were the opposite it was. I used to wish my hair was curly but now I'm diggin that its straight since its so much easier to put into different styles.

Yeah he wants to be a teacher, though now he's debating on that but I still think he'd be a great teacher since he actually seems to care about what he would be teaching and how well a job he would be doing.

Holy shit dude that is a lot for a person and even persons to deal with. I can understand all of it except for having a child because he felt obligated. I mean no offense but that is such a terrrrrible reason to procreate, its too bad he felt that way and that she just took the kid away. That's just not right. lol I dont' think you're being mean it is what it is. If she's unattractive meh I think more people need to be brutally honest, then you wouldn't have girls and guys that think they're king shit and acting like it when they're really not.

He should see what he can do legally about that if he really misses his girl. I'm sure there are steps he can take that would force her to move back especially if she took the kid and ran under false pretenses. Ontop of that he kinda does need to really man up and tell her that its inapropriate for her to contact him like that and that he would prefer she only talk when its about the kid. It isn't an unreasonable request and honestly its a lot of pressure on you especially in a new relationship.

Oh heck yeah lying is NEVER the right answer. Its better to just do the little hurt if at all to that person at that time than lie about things and let them fester and get worse. I'm sure that it will and everything will be easy street :D He really should investigate what he can do legally to see his daughter and form that bond with her. I think that's what he really needs so he can stick up to the ex and really move on and everything.

Rant on my friend rant on, I do it all the time lol.

What i want to dead? LOLOLOL
Ahh i see well that's awesome. Bursary here was a high school qualification before they brought out the new fail system i like to call it xD.

Yeah maybe i'm not getting enough iron or something. Should prob go see my doc. Holy crap that doesn't sound good at all, you should be seein your doc too!

Yeah that's true i guess. But i don't know who would want to have curly hair it's a nitemare.

Why is he debating it?? What else would he do with his degree then?

LOL i agree dude, i have no idea what was goin through his head. Coz he just created a huge problem for himself. I can understand though, he feels that he put her through a lot of shit. He told me not to think that he is a victim coz he was terrible. So i guess he felt like he owed her something, and she wanted a baby for so long. So yeah? Dumb choice, but you can't take it back now. Yeah if he was in the right frame of mind (not an alcoholic) perhaps like how he is now. He coulda stopped her from going out of the country, the city even. She would have had to move back to NZ, if he got a court order. But it's all a little too late now.
Yeah that's true. She acts like she's this hot as thing and can get anyone. But Rob was her first bf and she hasn't had one since then. So, what does that tell you really?

I know this is selfish but i don't want him too. Because i don't want her back in NZ. It will only cause drama with Rob and i. It's sad he doesn't get to see his daughter and i really do feel for him. But if our relationship is gonna work, it needs a good run without his ex being involved. Because to be honest i never wanted to get involved with a guy who had a kid, i mean i haven't been with a guy who had kids up till now. I always avoided them because i knew i wouldn't be able to handle the ex. And if she comes back into the picture and starts causing crap, i think i'd leave him, because i know mentally and deep down i couldn't handle it. Yeah if she starts doing it again i will. I'll tell her myself if i have too.

I don't know, i mean i did say to him - That he should get some visitation rights and what not. He's only seen her once in the last year. But he doesn't listen. So i'm just leaving it, coz it's not my daughter or my problem. If he wanted to see her that bad, he'd do something about it. I know that if i had kids, i would not just uproot them and take them away from their father. Regardless of how i felt about him. The child shouldn't have to suffer. I mean i didn't have a dad growing up, so i know what it's like. And i couldn't do that too my kids.

Ahh it's good to get someone elses perspective sometimes though :)

Originally Posted by Roachi

Edit:
Hey doodles :D
I offer 14k for x5 mystic fauns, x5 overlords wrath and would you let the jade ronins go for 7.2k?

Whoops sorry doodles, I did the old post and sprint lol. Been looking at ways to decorate a crusty shabby hall for cheap haha. Cool, i'll send a trade over for all this stuff. Just double check i've added everything, i'm pretty worn out X___x;; Had a big blow at Joe today, coz he started going nuts about pulling in all this extra money for the wedding and crap.

Just goes bonkers over money aye. Technically, if I wanted too - I could pay off the majority of the wedding on my own, and i'm unemployed LOL. So after that i've been pretty run down just tryna de-stress. ARGH.

AHHHHH!!! LOLOLOL You can tell my mind wanders eh, I meant what you wanted to get... lol

Oh weird, I know there are bursaries available only to graduating highschool students but its not only limited to that one area.

Naw its probably just the fact I've been sleeping weird or I spend to much time in front of a screen. Maybe I should take up reading actual books, not stuff online. But really where's the fun in that. Iron would explain it, you should investigate on that further madam!

He's thinking of becoming an instructor for a Company or something along those lines. I think he'll enjoy being a teacher more though because he's one of those guys that like getting that reward of doing a good job and what not at the end of it all and I think he'd get that if he was a teacher.

Aww man that's so shitty... I didnt' know that there was a time limit on those kinds of things? HAHAHAHAHA That's so gross!! I hate people like that, its like dude really... get over yourself. lol ahh too funny.

Well even if its selfish as long as you recognize that within yourself I think that's a good thing. Its better than playing both sides or encouraging him one way when you feel another. And its not like you're a bad person for not pushing him to do that or encouraging him in that way, you're just being honest with yourself and really its his responsibility anyway if that's something he feels strongly about. I agree with you on giving your relationship that chance, I can defo see how you would need a strong foundation before she came back and it was something that could be dealt with.

Yeah I get that and I think that's how it should be. He needs to take that initiative and go that distance if he really wants to make that connection.

*falls into a lump on the floor, oddly resembling a withered dustball under a cupboard*

So worn out... D;

Originally Posted by Nivvy

Whoops sorry doodles, I did the old post and sprint lol. Been looking at ways to decorate a crusty shabby hall for cheap haha. Cool, i'll send a trade over for all this stuff. Just double check i've added everything, i'm pretty worn out X___x;; Had a big blow at Joe today, coz he started going nuts about pulling in all this extra money for the wedding and crap.

Just goes bonkers over money aye. Technically, if I wanted too - I could pay off the majority of the wedding on my own, and i'm unemployed LOL. So after that i've been pretty run down just tryna de-stress. ARGH.

All good dude lol.
Where at your apartment?
Sweet, let me see <33

Ahh god he's still goin on about that?? I'm glad Rob isn't like that with money. He wants us to get a joint account and for me to take control of all our bills and stuff @@ lol. It actually seems logical, coz we share our incomes anyway, and it will make more sense. Especially when i start working again.

Why is Joe bein so selfish and grumpy about it all? What does he want you to do? Go and get a loan or something? Your trying your best. He earns so much more, what's his problem?

@Mixy - Don't worry i will reply! Just so hungry right now xD.

@Shanny bo banny - *luffs on* why you so worn out?

Early classes, work, then soooo much reading and studying D: Then to top it off I've been sick for almost a week as well );
It's just really wearing me out, lmao xD.

Like right now, I'm supposed to be studying for ANOTHER calculus quiz, but I'm spoiling myself on Mene for a bit xD. So relaxing.

*twirls about* I had alot of fun today! Just went traveling about and saw alot of fun stuff. X3 <3

Did no worries, food before internet I always say!

Hey guys, just stoppin in to say hi. Can't stop for long. Went out lastnight with my best mate and she kept me out till 4am. Which i can't handle anymore xDD. So just swinging by to check things before i have a shower n get into bed with a dvd. Hope all is well in your worlds! And thank god the cyclone has passed here.

4am!! i want to do that! buy me a ticket to new zealand! o: hi guys love you all :3

No you don't, especially when you gotta sit there watching someone play the slots at the casino & then drive them home!!

Aw Roa, that's sounds less than spiffy. Were you playing the designated driver for them?

There was a cyclone in your area? :x Hope you're doing all right over there! I hear your side of the world isn't doing so well in terms of natural disasters. >.<;;

Glad to hear its passed, I have family down in NZ right now that told me about the storms that have been going on, sounds pretty freaky >.< And awesomeee!! Hope you had a good time <3 <3

Roachi:
Can I buy a Dryad's hollow for 1.5k? :)

Originally Posted by Chunsa-chan

Aw Roa, that's sounds less than spiffy. Were you playing the designated driver for them?

Yeah ... My friend won a mini jackpot at one of the local bars. So she gave me $100 and my mum $50. She ended up wanting to go up to the casino. Which was cool, we stayed awhile. But then my mum lost what she had, and she started getting on everyone's last nerve. So i had to drop her home which is about a 20-30 min drive from town. And then i had to drive back to the casino, and coz i didn't wanna waste anymore money on the slots i had to stay and watch sarah play them till 4am lol. Then i had to drop sarah home and then i had to drive back home myself, and i live out south. And with the wind and rain and me being tired it took like an hour, just to get home.

Originally Posted by Rylynne

There was a cyclone in your area? :x Hope you're doing all right over there! I hear your side of the world isn't doing so well in terms of natural disasters. >.<;;

Yeah cyclone wilma. Lots of floods & landslips in various places. Trees and houses ripped apart etc. It's still pretty windy today.

Originally Posted by aphrodite remix

Glad to hear its passed, I have family down in NZ right now that told me about the storms that have been going on, sounds pretty freaky >.< And awesomeee!! Hope you had a good time <3 <3

Ohh you do? I never knew that! Where in NZ do they live? Yeah it hit the north island pretty bad. Though we're okay, little flooding in the back yard and the net goin up and down but that's about it.

Ahh i did, kinda lol.

Originally Posted by neller

Roachi:
Can I buy a Dryad's hollow for 1.5k? :)

Sure sweets, i'll send a trade <3

Ah they're visiting relative in the south islands I believe. I don't know exactly where lol (terrible I know) its my Uncle and Aunt that are there and they're visiting their cousins. They normally go every year and then they come from NZ to Canada also every year.

That's good to hear :3 glad you're doing okay!

Ahh i see i see. Cool beans :) ^^
Yeah i'm alright, i just always feel so awfully tired though. I wonder if i've got low iron levels or something.

That could be, though if you had a fitful sleepy then that's probably the culprit. A great sleep lots of water and a good meal is probably what you need and you'll perk up like a flower in the sun.

Nah, i've been eating healthy, sleeping pretty decently and exercising. So i think it's something else. I've been taking multivitamins too, and no change :(. Maybe i just needa get into the exercise a little more or something?

Oh wow dude, well I guess it depends? What kind of exercise have you been doing?