Originally Posted by Roachi

HEY no druging my cows you!! :illgetu: LOL
Haha yeah i thought it was soo funny :P

Oh no.....I'm just drugging....um...uh.... feeding the blue one because I'll have the most difficulties with him :yes:
:D haha I'm glad! This is the first time I've been in someone's siggy.....that I know of :ninja:

If you can get close enough to him, he'll bite your fingers off first xD
Haha <3

Originally Posted by Roachi

If you can get close enough to him, he'll bite your fingers off first xD
Haha <3

:insane: Oh no! ~holds fingers in a protective fist at the thought~ Hmmm.....well, I have a new Starcatcher's net that I'm sure would be the right size for catching cows....
:D <3

Hahaha, you never give up do you! :P

Originally Posted by Roachi

Hahaha, you never give up do you! :P

Hahaha!! Not until I get a cow.....or two :stare: :poke:

Lol are you feeling any better today?

Originally Posted by Roachi

Yeah your right Liz. He reckons he wouldn't care if i text guys, he trusts me. Obviously because i've never text/talked to another guy in that matter & because i've never cheated or done anything in that matter ever. It would be different if i was doing that. But he sent me a text after storming off, saying that he was sorry, and that he's happy with me and has no intention of cheating on me, and that he has to talk to this one girl (the peer support worker) because it's vital for him to network so he gets a job there when he's finished his course.

I guess if he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat right? Lol Not like i can stop it from happening. But yeah, it just irks me the amount of times they text him during the day. But i guess i gotta learn to bite my tongue more.

Yah thats true, it's always the other person you can't trust lol. But in saying that it also means you can't trust them, coz you can't trust what their reaction would be. I know Rob would prob make it worse by trying to be nice, he's wayy to nice for his own good. Females are attracted to him for that very reason.

But your tongue's going to get sore. :lol: I know from experience. Though my tongue's sore from other sort of issues. xD I think it's got to be a 50/50 effort. He has to see where you're coming from, or at least try to understand. And I understand the importance to it. However, there has to be some professionalism from her. I think there is such a thing as helping too much. The talks shouldn't be an everyday sort of thing.

So true, so true. And yeah, nice guys are always a hot commodity. xD Wesley can be really nice, and I think that's why I'm suspicious of the females he could talk to.

RFoachie♥~~hummy's gonna add gold Commanders pendant to Futter's trade.
you decide how much that is worth, please.

Originally Posted by fireprincess

Hahaha!! Not until I get a cow.....or two :stare: :poke:

Lol are you feeling any better today?

LOL
Um yeah better i guess. I hope i don't get acid reflux again tonight i have to stay an hour later at work tomorrow to make up time.

Originally Posted by Liztress

But your tongue's going to get sore. :lol: I know from experience. Though my tongue's sore from other sort of issues. xD I think it's got to be a 50/50 effort. He has to see where you're coming from, or at least try to understand. And I understand the importance to it. However, there has to be some professionalism from her. I think there is such a thing as helping too much. The talks shouldn't be an everyday sort of thing.

So true, so true. And yeah, nice guys are always a hot commodity. xD Wesley can be really nice, and I think that's why I'm suspicious of the females he could talk to.

LOL yeah. Yah that's true.
I agree as well. Someone in that field shouldn't be texting someone so frequently like that. I would feel better if she had a partner.

Yah tell me about it lol.

Originally Posted by hummy

RFoachie♥~~hummy's gonna add gold Commanders pendant to Futter's trade.
you decide how much that is worth, please.

OHH yay!! Ahh i dunno?? 0____o

:drool:
Why must you tempt me with items I'm questing, lol.

Lols maybe we can do a deal :P

Maybe, just out of curiosity how much would you want for one of the Totally is Santa's Hat?

Originally Posted by Roachi

Well i dunno, possibly it's my insecurities. But i have good reasons to be insecure about him. It's just this lady who is meant to be his peer support worker, just texts him a little too often. It's like... Don't you have other clients you should be helping or texting?! And he's really good friends with his ex best friends, ex fiance'. It's all a bit fucked up in my opinion. I'd be pissed if my best friend was talking to my ex. I'd be like wtf??



I guess all you can do is give someone the benefit of the doubt right? I gave rob that, but he ended up having a crush on his psychiatrist. It was pretty fucked up. I dun even know why i took him back in all honesty. I don't think this relationship is gonna work, it's been rocky from the beginning. I shoulda just went with the clean break when he went back to his mums, and not gotten back with him.

Oh man. I can see why, then. I would have a hard time getting over something like that from the past, too. I have a hard time enough trusting people as is, and if they break that trust once, i'll never forget it. And then after that, its really hard to trust them for that thing again. I hope you guys can work things out and be happy. ^^

But I dont think there's really anything wrong with being friends with best friends ex's. If you were good friends with them before the break-up, then you can't just drop them as a friend because the relationship didn't work out. That would suck.

Originally Posted by Liztress

Yeah, I understand how you feel. And I mean... There's nothing wrong with having female friends or talking to them. But you shouldn't hide it or encourage the girl to call/text more. My personal thought is that he should tell her to back off some. :/ I have some guy friends that I talk to online and you know, there have been times when they seem to cross the line of being friendly and then coming off as too flirty/comfortable in saying certain things. It makes me uncomfortable and I tend to shy away from talking to them.

Wesley and I had discussed this issue before. He's a lot better at not being insecure with guys talking to me than I am about girls talking to him. I trust him but not the girls. :lol: And I think everyone (or at least every female) has their insecurities. It's got to be normal.

Oh man, I know what you mean. I can be crazy insecure. I'm super self-conscious and have terrible confidence in myself, so I always feel like any guy that likes me would just be easily taken by someone prettier than me and not be interested in me anymore. So, I get jealous and insecure with girls around them. :lol:

My bf is really paranoid about me talking to other guys. He doesn't seem to like it in any way. Even if I just mention having spoken to a guy, he goes off asking who they are and what they wanted and what not. And when we're out together, he says he likes to do little things like have his arm around me to let people know i'm his. :lol: He's always trying to show me off and what not. He's silly. But in no way would I accept him not allowing me to speak to friends of mine just because they're guys. I'm very loyal, and I let any friends of mine know as soon as I think they've gone too far joking, or they're saying too much to me. I'm pretty good about telling people how it is and telling them to knock shit off when they're going too far with something, though.

But I do not trust women at all. He's cute, sweet, and very charismatic. I wouldn't blame girls for hitting on him, and I know there is a plethora of sluts around here. They think its fun to mess with guys that are taken. Makes them feel better about themselves or some such shit. Pisses me off so much to see. If someone is taken, then leave them the f*** alone, seriously. So messed up to be that b**tch that ruined someones relationship and broke a persons heart, and made it hard for them to trust people again.

But anyways, it makes me really nervous when my guy is around other girls. If he goes off to a party or something, then i'm paranoid the entire time. :/ He told me when we first started seeing each other that he had cheated on his last girlfriend, and that he was very ashamed about it, and that he never wants that to happen again. But I worry that if it happened once, that it might happen another time. D:

Originally Posted by Suona

But I do not trust women at all. He's cute, sweet, and very charismatic. I wouldn't blame girls for hitting on him, and I know there is a plethora of sluts around here. They think its fun to mess with guys that are taken. Makes them feel better about themselves or some such shit. Pisses me off so much to see. If someone is taken, then leave them the f*** alone, seriously. So messed up to be that b**tch that ruined someones relationship and broke a persons heart, and made it hard for them to trust people again.

That's happened to me before. My ex met these two girls who decided they wanted one of them to go out with him. So while I was off at college and he was still home, they would convince him to hangout with them during times he said he would call me and ignore my phone calls. He told me once that they would tell him to "break up with Maria" and he also told me not to worry because "he wasn't going to do so." But in the end, he ended up leaving me to go out with one of them.....and did I mention they were 14 year old freshman in high school and we were 4-5 years older than them?

Anyway - I still know the goings on in his life because he lives across the street from my best friend....and they are really good friends(to give some background - he was my brothers best friend when we were younger. Then it turned out he lived across the street from my best friend from middle school and on....and so WE became really close. Best friends before we started dating...)....so I still know what happens to him. And I just found out...(4 years after we dated and broke up)...the chick (finally) left HIM....for one of HIS best friends......lmaoooo It just makes me think that Karma is not something to mess with because it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Originally Posted by Roachi

LOL
Um yeah better i guess. I hope i don't get acid reflux again tonight i have to stay an hour later at work tomorrow to make up time.



LOL yeah. Yah that's true.
I agree as well. Someone in that field shouldn't be texting someone so frequently like that. I would feel better if she had a partner.

Yah tell me about it lol.


OHH yay!! Ahh i dunno?? 0____o

I hope you don't either :hug:

@Suona - Yeah trust is a biggy for me as well. Coz i've been hurt so many times. But i really gotta learn to just deal with it. Yeah your prob right. I just find it weird, because she doesn't talk to her ex, but talks to him lol.

@Fire - Mhmm *hugs*

you look adorable!
almost time for double-bonus goldies and the fifteenth contribution item!

Lols thanks humz. Im gonna head to bed, work tomorrow. Argh. :( Night!!

:hug:
you are most welcome, Roachi sweetie.
have a good nights sleep.
we'll keep the threadie warm for you.

Originally Posted by Roachi

LOL
Um yeah better i guess. I hope i don't get acid reflux again tonight i have to stay an hour later at work tomorrow to make up time.



LOL yeah. Yah that's true.
I agree as well. Someone in that field shouldn't be texting someone so frequently like that. I would feel better if she had a partner.

Yah tell me about it lol.




OHH yay!! Ahh i dunno?? 0____o

Might need to play matchmaker for her then.

Thing that really bugs me is how guys don't seem to understand why we feel like we do. But it's like, guys know how other guys are, so why is it hard to believe that gals would know how other gals are?

Originally Posted by Suona

Oh man. I can see why, then. I would have a hard time getting over something like that from the past, too. I have a hard time enough trusting people as is, and if they break that trust once, i'll never forget it. And then after that, its really hard to trust them for that thing again. I hope you guys can work things out and be happy. ^^

But I dont think there's really anything wrong with being friends with best friends ex's. If you were good friends with them before the break-up, then you can't just drop them as a friend because the relationship didn't work out. That would suck.



Oh man, I know what you mean. I can be crazy insecure. I'm super self-conscious and have terrible confidence in myself, so I always feel like any guy that likes me would just be easily taken by someone prettier than me and not be interested in me anymore. So, I get jealous and insecure with girls around them. :lol:

My bf is really paranoid about me talking to other guys. He doesn't seem to like it in any way. Even if I just mention having spoken to a guy, he goes off asking who they are and what they wanted and what not. And when we're out together, he says he likes to do little things like have his arm around me to let people know i'm his. :lol: He's always trying to show me off and what not. He's silly. But in no way would I accept him not allowing me to speak to friends of mine just because they're guys. I'm very loyal, and I let any friends of mine know as soon as I think they've gone too far joking, or they're saying too much to me. I'm pretty good about telling people how it is and telling them to knock shit off when they're going too far with something, though.

But I do not trust women at all. He's cute, sweet, and very charismatic. I wouldn't blame girls for hitting on him, and I know there is a plethora of sluts around here. They think its fun to mess with guys that are taken. Makes them feel better about themselves or some such shit. Pisses me off so much to see. If someone is taken, then leave them the f*** alone, seriously. So messed up to be that b**tch that ruined someones relationship and broke a persons heart, and made it hard for them to trust people again.

But anyways, it makes me really nervous when my guy is around other girls. If he goes off to a party or something, then i'm paranoid the entire time. :/ He told me when we first started seeing each other that he had cheated on his last girlfriend, and that he was very ashamed about it, and that he never wants that to happen again. But I worry that if it happened once, that it might happen another time. D:

Ah, yeah... I feel exactly the same way. I know I'm not much of a catch and that there are better looking gals out there that he could get with. I have gotten better about it a little but I still get nervous if I find out that he's talked to someone. ;_; What if she says the things to him that I should be saying? And what if the things I'm saying aren't good enough? *dies* If I put too much focus on this topic, I start getting panicky. :lol:

I really do hate people like that. :( They only care about themselves.

I believe that if one does it once, it will only happen if they haven't learned or just don't care about the other person. From a personal stance, I think the first time it happens (and I don't mean per relationship but rather overall) then sure, you can claim it's a mistake. But if you do it again, then you didn't learn nothing. :( We're humans and bound to make mistakes. But that is no excuse to do it over and over again.

*sits in the corner* I missed out on everything, since I went to the circus yesterday.

Originally Posted by Apricot

*sits in the corner* I missed out on everything, since I went to the circus yesterday.

But the circus is cool! *snuggles*

Lol. It is, but, I missed you~ *snuggles back*

I'm hoping to go to the circus this year. *snuggles* And I misseded you too.

Oooh~ *claps* You should, you should. :XD *Noms on your hand* <33333 How're you been holding up today? Feel any better?

Yes, I am. *noms back* I could use a nap though. xD I had some trouble going back to sleep.