I need a guy like that. *swoon*

If he would also do the litter box, and cook great meals, it'd be heaven.

Rob use to do the litter box for my kitten. But he's gone now :(
But unfortunately he's not good at cooking lol. But thats okay coz i'd be upset if he was better then me lol.

Hahaha. I'm a pretty good cook myself. Just lazy. TT_TT
If I ever get to visit you, I'll cook you something. ^^

If I won the lottery, one of the first things I'd splurge on was a maid who would cook meals too.

Originally Posted by Chunsa-chan

*Noms on Roachi*


I'll give all my gold to someone who comes and folds my laundry for me. DX

i'll bring my little folder thingie with me and be right there!

*swoons at Hummy* Please do!

XD

@Chunsy - Lols me too.
Haha me too! I was actually just discussing that with Rob. I'd hire a live in chef LOL

ROA
OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG

OMGOMGOMG ROA

Someone just very seriously said he was going to buy me a ticket to Hawaii. *flabbergasted*
And since this is a guy who I know likes me, the comminet-phobe in me is stalling on this sooooo hard.
(,,#ﾟДﾟ)
*freaks out*

Okay
I offer 30k for the hooch
^^

Originally Posted by Chunsa-chan

ROA
OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG

OMGOMGOMG ROA

Someone just very seriously said he was going to buy me a ticket to Hawaii. *flabbergasted*
And since this is a guy who I know likes me, the comminet-phobe in me is stalling on this sooooo hard.
(,,#ﾟДﾟ)
*freaks out*

free trip to hawaii?
put the phobe on holdie!
it is warm there and pretty flowers are smelling so inviting.....a-lo-a- ha!

Originally Posted by Chunsa-chan

ROA
OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG

OMGOMGOMG ROA

Someone just very seriously said he was going to buy me a ticket to Hawaii. *flabbergasted*
And since this is a guy who I know likes me, the comminet-phobe in me is stalling on this sooooo hard.
(,,#ﾟДﾟ)
*freaks out*

Well if you won't go i will ^^ xD
Do you like him is the question lol.

Originally Posted by Vickyll3

Okay
I offer 30k for the hooch
^^

Sure i will put that up on the front page.
Thanks for the offer. <3

even if you don't like him like him, if you can stand him.....GO TO HAWAII!!

I know right? I would xD. I'd be like hell yeah! And get drunk every night and order a crapload of room service and hang out at the beach :P.

Of course I like him! That's the problem! Ahhhhhhhhh.
We've been friends for a couple years now, and we even joked a long time ago that we'd be each others 'fallback', untill we went off to have relationships with other people. But those have ended, and he and I are still good friends.

Accepting this would open a can of worms that I'm scared to open. I joke that I'd like to find a 'guy that does thisorthat' but even if I did, I would still freak, because what am I supposed to do with them?!? *not good at this relationships thingy*

Is accepting this like accepting anything more? Is it a nod to pursue something we almost started years ago?

(#ﾟДﾟ)

dudette!
if he's a almost was or a wanna be and you do not go to Hawaii,
you WILL regret not knowing forever.
and if it does go somewhere and it's not such a good somewhere,
good and true friends will previel.
seriously, go to Hawaii.

make it known that you want to always be friends before you say, 'send me the ticket!'
'i'm not an idiot!!!!!'

I think you should make your intentions clear. That your not ready to just launch into anything, and that going to hawaii with him doesn't mean you guys are gonna hook up. Seriously girlfriend just chillax, you don't have to do anything you don't want too. And commitment isn't that scary lol. Especially if you like the guy for heavens sake!! LOL Go to Hawaii what hummy says. Go for our sanity at least lol.

yes, go to Hawaii.
who know, among the beautiful blue waters and the dolphins jumping and the black sandie beaches,
a tan my be had!
if you don't go you may miss the best time in your life, ever.
*chants with Roachi*
'go to Hawaii! go to Hawaii! go to Hawaii'

Thank You Roachi!

hiya, Vickster!

Hi guys, just stoppin in briefly. Back at work boo! :(

boo, work.
come home and play!

*waves at hummy*
Hello

Roachi, I forgot to tell you I love your avi!

Originally Posted by Maria-Minamino

That's happened to me before. My ex met these two girls who decided they wanted one of them to go out with him. So while I was off at college and he was still home, they would convince him to hangout with them during times he said he would call me and ignore my phone calls. He told me once that they would tell him to "break up with Maria" and he also told me not to worry because "he wasn't going to do so." But in the end, he ended up leaving me to go out with one of them.....and did I mention they were 14 year old freshman in high school and we were 4-5 years older than them?

Anyway - I still know the goings on in his life because he lives across the street from my best friend....and they are really good friends(to give some background - he was my brothers best friend when we were younger. Then it turned out he lived across the street from my best friend from middle school and on....and so WE became really close. Best friends before we started dating...)....so I still know what happens to him. And I just found out...(4 years after we dated and broke up)...the chick (finally) left HIM....for one of HIS best friends......lmaoooo It just makes me think that Karma is not something to mess with because it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Maria-Minamino:
See! Thats what i'm so scared and paranoid of. I know that there are girls out there like that, and it drives me crazy. If they're taken, then leave them the hell alone! D:< And those sneaky little brats. And thats gross when they're that young. When you're older, its not that big of a difference, but when you have someone like 15 with someone 20, then thats rather gross. :/ Just too young to be dating that much older, I think.

Hah! I love when stuff like that happens! :lmao: My ex had been promising to me while we were together that some girl he was always texting was only a friend and that he didn't think of her as anything more than that. I knew that wasn't true, because before we were dating I knew how often he texted her, and she sent him tons of pictures of herself all the time. -__- Well, after we broke up (was complicated thing, really), a few months later I find out that he's dating her! :lol: And she lived two states away, so it was stupid anyway. But he eventually ended up moving away to her state to be with her. They got engaged, and then she got knocked up, so they had to push the wedding months ahead! :lmao: Oh man, that was so priceless to me. The reason we broke up is because his brother made him because i'm athiest and they're jehovah witnesses, and then he ends up getting her pregnant before they're even married!! Hahahaha. I was sho overly thrilled when I heard that. Serves him right.

Originally Posted by Roachi

@Suona - Yeah trust is a biggy for me as well. Coz i've been hurt so many times. But i really gotta learn to just deal with it. Yeah your prob right. I just find it weird, because she doesn't talk to her ex, but talks to him lol.

Trust is big for me, too. I don't like when I dont know what is going on. If he's doing something and I dont know where he is or whats going on, then I get super paranoid. Even when we were just seeing each other and not dating, he told me that one night after I went home from hanging out, his ex called him up because she wanted to stop by to have sex with him. -__- He declined and told her to leave him the hell alone and not to ever go to his house. And she gets drunk and texts him randomly all the time. But I dont know if other girls text him. I saw him texting someone the other day that seemed like it was a girl, and he wouldn't open his phone up when she texted and I was next to him. :/ That makes me nervous when that happens. I dont trust what girls are saying to him.

It's a hard thing to get use to and to deal with, so I understand. It is weird, and I can understand. Have you discussed it with him and let him know it makes you uncomfortable?

Originally Posted by Liztress

Ah, yeah... I feel exactly the same way. I know I'm not much of a catch and that there are better looking gals out there that he could get with. I have gotten better about it a little but I still get nervous if I find out that he's talked to someone. ;_; What if she says the things to him that I should be saying? And what if the things I'm saying aren't good enough? *dies* If I put too much focus on this topic, I start getting panicky. :lol:

I really do hate people like that. :( They only care about themselves.

I believe that if one does it once, it will only happen if they haven't learned or just don't care about the other person. From a personal stance, I think the first time it happens (and I don't mean per relationship but rather overall) then sure, you can claim it's a mistake. But if you do it again, then you didn't learn nothing. :( We're humans and bound to make mistakes. But that is no excuse to do it over and over again.

Liztress:
Exactly! I mean, he says a lot of kind compliments to me and what not, and says he finds me very attractive, but I know i'm not all that good looking. I'm confident enough in my body, but I just hate my face, and an super self-conscious about it. And I know there are some way more beautiful girls around her that could offer him more in certain ways that I am not willing to yet. Also, I dont compliment him much (I have issues with complimenting people too often, because I think it makes some people too conceited and cocky), and he notices that. He asks for compliments sometimes, or he'll ask if certain things about him are bothering me, or if he's not attractive enough and what not. He's rather self-conscious, too. But other girls seem way too willing to just throw compliments at guys to butter them up, which makes them want to talk to them more so they can feel better about themselves.

Yeah, unless they really dont care. My boyfriend told me right away when we first started seeing each other that he cheated on his ex. Said they were seeing each other, and he cheated and they took a break from each other and then she said she forgave him and they got back together, but she never trusted him again. I wouldn't be able to either. But he said that he felt horrible after it happened and was disgusted with himself and what not. Admitted it was an asshole-ish thing to do, and that he never wants that to happen again. It makes me nervous that it happened once, but I think it means a lot that he just came right out and told me that it happened. It would have been horrible to hear it from someone else with him not having told me about it. But I trust that he wont do it willingly. But I dont trust that it wont happen if he gets drunk. I dont trust anybody if they're drunk. So, I cannot stand it when he's been drinking. D:<

Su~~you have a beautiful face and more so, a beautiful soul.
which makes you even prettier on the outside.

Originally Posted by hummy

boo, work.
come home and play!

I wish i could play all the time and the bills will get paid haha.

Originally Posted by Vickyll3

*waves at hummy*
Hello

Roachi, I forgot to tell you I love your avi!

Thank you <33

Originally Posted by Suona

Trust is big for me, too. I don't like when I dont know what is going on. If he's doing something and I dont know where he is or whats going on, then I get super paranoid. Even when we were just seeing each other and not dating, he told me that one night after I went home from hanging out, his ex called him up because she wanted to stop by to have sex with him. -__- He declined and told her to leave him the hell alone and not to ever go to his house. And she gets drunk and texts him randomly all the time. But I dont know if other girls text him. I saw him texting someone the other day that seemed like it was a girl, and he wouldn't open his phone up when she texted and I was next to him. :/ That makes me nervous when that happens. I dont trust what girls are saying to him.

It's a hard thing to get use to and to deal with, so I understand. It is weird, and I can understand. Have you discussed it with him and let him know it makes you uncomfortable?

Yeah i hate that too. It's the secretive thing that irks me. I know they do it because they don't wanna upset us. But it's better having it out in the open. So we know there's no dodgy business goin on that we're unaware of. Ahh now that behavior is super dodgy. Did you hit him up about it?? If he really wanted to get rid of her, he would not text her back and if that failed he would change his number. It's as simple as that. I had a ex who just wouldn't leave me alone. Changed my phone number and my email addys. Just had enough of it. If a person is truly over someone and truly done with them. They would do what it takes to get them out of their life. That's my feeling anyway.

Yeah he knows. And he's getting a lot better actually ^^

Hawaii ;______;

Dang I wish I had a friend that was rich enough to take me to Hawaii xD!!!