Well I got married and 19 and had my oldest at 20, but I'm not saying that is the best thing to do. I have some regrets (not the kids or getting married) just not getting the eduaction I wanted and seeing abit more of the world before I settled down.
As for easier it's far easier to have a baby than adopt one believe me.
I happened to love being pregnant.
And truthfully I had really bad cramps and back pain every month.
I finally found out when they did fetal monitoring on me, that I had been having back labor once a month.

Early marriage isn't always bad dear. I 've been married to the same man for over 38 years now.

yeah, better engaged than married, but she got engaged to him at like 17.

I'm not really looking, or not looking, but me and guys don't really seem to mix right now.

If he's the one and he treats you with respect then I'm happy for anyone who found their special someone so early. But I think it's still best to wait for kids if you're going to have any, that's something that will really change your life!

Ouch, I've heard that back labor is worse than regular labor pains, that's so weird!

Eh, who needs guys? We're perfectly capable of being happy, healthy, active single women! I just... couldn't do it without my hubby. >.>

Edit: I'm going to bed now, good night!

night Nenna. I just kinda want to experience dating for once. I'm sick of being lonely!!

Well I got very lucky sorry dears I have to go this old lady had a hir appointment tomorrow gotta hide that gray so I don't looks as old as I am. Night

night Sai!

I need to sleep, but I'm having the awesomest kingdom hearts fangirl fight right now! Its practically turned into an rp in the middle of me and Wings hangout thread.

Originally Posted by Nanenna

I think when it comes to guys... don't look. Because when you look you always miss the good ones because looking makes you rush.

Okay, I know the conversation is over but I just have to say this. I love you for saying this Nenna. I've been trying to convince my sister of the same thing for years. She tends to define herself by dating though. I think the longest time she's been single since she graduated high school is a month or something. It drives me crazy when people think they constantly have to be dating someone or they can't be happy. I've been single for a couple years now and I'm perfectly happy with it (Although I may be starting a relationship up with someone soon). But you're absolutely right, you can't find someone if you're looking. It just doesn't work that way.

Okay, sorry, just had to get that off my chest.

hello Jo. I've been single....my entire life.....*somewhat patiently waits to fall in love*

oh, and I'm done with this semester! Now to pack and wait for my mom to come get me!!

Hello everybody!
I'm listening to some lovely Christmas music right now.
I just love Manheim Steamroller!

I thought it was time for another random page/poster award.
This one goes to Nanenna!

Congrats Nenna!!!
Hi GJ I lilke Mannehiem too, but for me it just doesn't seem like the holidays until I've seen Bing Crosby and Danny Kaye in White Christmas.

hello everyone I'm back home for the holidays!

that's good I'm glad you had a safe trip home Kat.

yep, it was really boring and my mom and aunt were having the DULLEST conversations about people I don't know.

well did you use the time wisely and write? hehe

I wrote about a paragraph, but something was just keeping me from writing so I ended up trying to sleep and failing.

Awww I got my hair colored today and my neck is killing me now

what color Sai? my new task is to convince my cat to get out from under the christmas tree and go back outside. how am I fairing you ask. Total FAIL!!!

Oh just about the color of the hair on my avie, I'm mostly just coverign the " snow on the roof" as my hubby calls it

Your avi has a lovely color of hair! ^^

Awww... poor Kat. I couldn't write in a car, I'd get car sick. Heck, there's only so long I can play a video game before I start to get car sick. If I'm not expected to drive or talk to the driver I like to watch the scenery and let my mind wander.

Oh wow, I didn't know we were still having the random page/post contest! O:

hehe, hi Ne-ne! my cat at least let me pet her but she won't come out and I'm going to get in trouble for leaving her inside over night. Its very funny to watch a cat watch a computer screen, especially if there's a virtual look alike on it that keeps meowing!

Thank you it's much better than my natural color ever was. It was more brunette than red although I had ALOT of red highlights. I have two cousins that were strawberry blondes ao the red hair gene was in there. I am glad I didn't have their hair color it was orangy red. I prefer the mahogany red like Maureen O' Hara's.

I never understood putting cats out at night, we always kept ours in at night so they'd be safe and let them out during the day.

My hair is a dark brunette, but it has some copper to it that gives it reddish highlights in certain lights. And strawberry blonde can turn unpleasant quickly, what happened if they stayed out in the sun too long?

our cats live outside basically and we make sure they're outside at night because we can't watch them. Stupid felines refuse any semblence of house training one of them enjoys marking every new item it sees

I have lame hair. Dark blond, no highlights really. not shinny, but fluffy and frizzy like cat fur.

Well I don't beleive in putting a cat out or letting a dog run loose. If you love your pets you take care of them, you take responsibility for them. Pets depend on you. There is no reason for letting an animal run loose. Cats can be totally content inside and truthfully so can small dogs, if you have a large dog you need to live in the country and keep them in a FENCED IN YARD! I have seen far too many animals injured from people carelessly letting their pets have some 'freedom' which they DON'T really need.

Sorry but that is onr of my rant subjects as a vet tech.

No, I understand, our dog wasn't allowed out of the backyard without a leash. He would try, though. He was a middle sized dog but we had enough room in the backyard to throw his ball and let him go running around plus we took him for walks for some extra exercise. And it's possible to train a cat to wear a leash if you do it when they're kittens.

But whenever we have cats they're mostly indoor cats who like to hang out in our yard. And they come in at night because it can be cold and dangerous outside! D: