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Lily_bug
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01-28-2009, 07:09 PM
Well see I have feelings for two of my best guy ftriends, the problem is that both of them asked me out on the same day. It kinda freaked me out. I had just broken up with my boyfriend who didnt treat me right. I hadn't even had a clue that one of then (Guy A) even liked me, when ever me or one of my friends asked him he would say that it was this one girl that was in theater with me. The other guy(Guy B) i knew he liked me, his sister, who is a really good friend of mine, had been telling me this, and guy B and I had already dated, but he broke up with me so we could stay friends.
Well I guess what im asking is who should i give a chance? Guy A is my age
(almost 15) and i see him everyday, he jokes with me alot too. Guy B is three years older then me(almost 18) and after this year he is moving out of his moms house, so I wouldnt be able to see him. ( I see him on the bus and he doesnt have a car) Plus after he is done with high school he is going to join the military and I wouldnt be able to see or talk to him for a long time.
I want to stay friends with both but I'm not sure if its posible. Both of them are sweet and have a place in my heart, and i dont want to hurt eather of them.
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MaryKay
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01-28-2009, 07:45 PM
I'd go for guy A. First of all, he's your age, and not gonna dissapear soon. Plus, I would think it would be kinda wierd to date a friends brother. Plus, if it ended bad, it could end the friendship with both him and her. Also, since he already broke up with you once, I wouldn't go there again anyway.
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Guivre
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01-28-2009, 09:10 PM
Well, if you have already dated Guy B, and it didn't really work out, you should probably go with Guy A. But it's hard to say from this information.
As for dating a friend's brother, it's not really weird. My grandmother married the brother of one of her best friends. You have to meet people somehow.
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Flesshh
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01-28-2009, 10:31 PM
I'd go for A, myself.
I mean if you already dated the other guy(B) and he broke up with you so that your friendship didn't get wierd, than ask's you out its wierd.
You may not want to get involved with B again if he's older than you and he's going to be leaving, you could grow extreamely attached and be hurt really bad when he leaves.
But it all up to you. Fallow your heart ( even though it sounds super cheesy.)
Good luck.
Last edited by Flesshh; 01-28-2009 at 10:33 PM..
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Jenova4
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01-28-2009, 11:41 PM
Fallow? Flesshh - I think it's Follow. Just trying to help out. =3
I'd also date Guy A. Although I don't find age to be as much of an issue, I think you might have a better time with A. Life likes to surprise you :)
But, since you had already dated B and he was all like "Oh let's be friends" then just be friends. It's what he said he wanted in the first place, so don't fall for it again. At least, that's what I say.
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Liath
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01-29-2009, 01:54 AM
well, if guy B is moving out soon and you were still going out with him, chances are you wouldn't be able to see him as much. and how do you know he won't break up with you again for the same reason?
Not to mention, guy A is the same age as you and might not move away and/or go to college until you do anyway.
Either way, whoever yo decide to go out with, tell the other one that you've given serious thought to this and that you decided your friendship matters the most.
that's my suggestion, anyway.
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Lily_bug
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01-29-2009, 01:59 AM
Thank you all for your help and your thoughts.
Im going to try and see what happenes. :]
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