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Old 01-29-2009, 10:32 PM

[Warning! This is not a roleplay, this is merely an introduction to this thread. >__< ]

You're walking down a long hall. On the walls there are various paintings of attractive gents and ladies. You take note of which ones you find more handsome than the other, when you come across a door. With effort, you open it and find yourself in a large room. There, you see a strange old lady standing, waiting for you, and two blank (and somewhat disturbing) bodies, one a male, one a female.

You walk up to her and she says,
"We, the gods of love, are fully aware of the years you've spent single and lonely. Therefore, after contemplation, we decided to allow you to chose either the male or the female so that we may fabricate your Dream Gent or Lady. You'll have to explain every detail to us. This includes his/her looks, how s/he acts, his/her quirks, his/her flaws, and anything else you can conjure up. Now tell me how you want your dream Gent or Lady?"

[ending this epic moment]


•••

So, if you found yourself in this situation, what would your dream gent/lady be like?
Explain his/her sexy-ways (or unsexy-ways, if that's what you like) to your hearts desire!
For those of us who have a boy/girlfriend, a spouse or a crush, try to forget these important people in your life and try to pretend you're a single and lonely person who has never met your partner/spouse/crush. xD

So, all of those weird things you find attractive that no one else appreciates, tell us!

Therefore concluding this introduction,
let us pry into the mind in order to fabricate the perfect person for you!


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Remember to comment on other peoples' posts.
Thank you. n__n





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Old 01-29-2009, 11:14 PM

OH, this is just too rich! Love your opener, darlin'-- makes the brain think, don'cha know.
My perfect dream lady, eh? Well, for starters, let's start with the look of'er.


She's tall, and strong-- good, broad shoulders, with hips to match. No dainty little creature for me, oh no; she's gotta be a solid thing, with healthy muscle. She has ruddy round cheeks, a killer smile full of white teeth, a flash of dark curls, and doe-brown eyes like puddles of silt. You know the type-- the classic photo, all sepia-tones, featuring a woman much too young and pretty to be the great-grandmother you know, now. 1930 had it right; the dames of that day stared back into photo lenses with a different kind of gorgeous.
Sure, she's got cold hands and feet-- why a woman's extremities are always so chill in the evening hours, I'll never know-- but everything else about her is warm, and soft.
Her hands smell like soil, after a long days' plant. Everything about her breathes earthy-green after it rains.
She's sharp like a tack, with a wily-quick tongue and a wicked sense of humor, to match. We laugh, a lot. Mostly at our own expense, when our half-baked schemes come out... well, half-baked... but it's good to have someone close, to help pick up the pieces and try again.
And yeah, sure-- she likes the goat more than she likes the look of me, now and then. Maybe she prefers the company of beasts with fur and claw, to human attentions-- but it's good to watch her where she feels at home. I'm right in there, too, of course. The stalls need mucking, the animals need tending, but she works shoulder-to-shoulder with me in the daytime, and sleeps with her chin in the small of my chest, at night.
I don't sleep well, with company. I spend a lot of time watching her, and wondering. Good lord, how can anyone look so peaceful, the way the world is, now?
If I ask in the mornin', she just smiles and pours the coffee.


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Old 01-29-2009, 11:37 PM

My dream guy...

Appearance

He'd be about 6'2", part Greek (with a bit of the accent), short dark hair, blue eyes, muscular (like Terry Gerin, 'cause he has perfect thighs and all), a slight scar on his face, maybe some other scars on his chest (like Terry Brunk, warning: there is blood), tattoos, and his lips.

Other

I like guys who talk... lazy? You know, kinda slow and sexy. Like Benicio Del Toro or Tim Rozon. I also like a guy who's a bit sarcastic and cocky. And, since it's a dream, he does mixed martial arts for a living.

That's about all I've got for now.

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Old 01-30-2009, 12:09 AM

The lady First to Never Know likes her men brawny, I see!
... allow me to peer into the female psyche, for a moment-- do women really ogle men's thighs? The idea terrifies me, somewhat. Picture, for a moment, a young man pawing at his own legs, eyebrows knit in the center. Should I be worrying about my knees too, or...?
Ha, well-- I daresay, I'm no hulking, slow-talking or even sarcastic gent, but I wish First the best of luck finding her high-striking testosterone machine!

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Old 01-30-2009, 12:26 AM

My dream man. I want him tall, madam. Long hair (color don't care). Paleish complection. Blue eyes. A qurky mind that knows more than it needs to. Oh, and will let me dress him up as any character i want. He doesn't have to be super thin or strong.

I'd love him to always want to wrap me up tight in his arms just to let me know i am loved now and no longer lonely.



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Old 01-30-2009, 12:54 AM

Arggggh.

This is just to hard for me to actually decide on.
One time I like them blond, the next brunette.
I like them sometimes taller than me, other times the same size or a bit shorter.
Sometimes square jaw, sometimes a bit rounded. Blue eyes/Green eyes.

However, I can explain his attitude, quirks and flaws.

I want my guy to be quiet, attentive and soft-spoken.
I don't want him to be a flamin' queen. :talk2hand:
He has to enjoy music and food, I don't mind if he's vegetarian or not.
He has to be able to go out and have fun with friends, but also enjoy a night home just us two each doing our own things. No party animals.
He can drink, no smoking.

His quirks are shyness. We have to have inside jokes.

His flaws are that he is too submersed into what he loves, he can get hurt quickly or feel offended and he has to be persistent. No letting up on what he feels adamant about.

He has to feel like a real person. Too often I think if we were given a chance to create our own dream guy, he'd be a souless yes-sayer. Doing exactly what we wanted and being empty. I want a guy who's human, has a will and opinion of his own and contribute to conversations or plans, not just a "whatever you want."

I want to get into that occasional fight over something trivial that makes us realize how much we love each other after it's over. How much we can't live without each other.
And he's monogamous. I HATE "open relationships" and polygamy.

Yes, I know I'm a romanticist.

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Old 01-30-2009, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by QuietChampion View Post
The lady First to Never Know likes her men brawny, I see!
... allow me to peer into the female psyche, for a moment-- do women really ogle men's thighs? The idea terrifies me, somewhat. Picture, for a moment, a young man pawing at his own legs, eyebrows knit in the center. Should I be worrying about my knees too, or...?
Ha, well-- I daresay, I'm no hulking, slow-talking or even sarcastic gent, but I wish First the best of luck finding her high-striking testosterone machine!
I just think it looks weird when a guy has a broad upper body and skinny legs. It just doesn't look right. So, yes, I look at thighs. I don't know about other girls, though. Of course, that was the dream guy. Most of my taste in guys is considered weird. I've even been called demented because of it.

In reality, I tend to be more attracted to guys who look like the guy on the right and him. Obviously, I have a thing for wrestlers since most of my examples are them... And, Leland Chapman, Dog the Bounty Hunter's son? He's kind of a dream guy...

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Old 01-30-2009, 01:46 AM

Grr, I like this question, but it's so hard for me. There are so many things I like about guys. Hmm, I guess I'll just wing it.

Looks: Okay, let's see...We'll go top to bottom. He's taller than me, but not taller than 6'. He has, mmm, dark brown to black hair, but I'd settle for a blond. His hair is shaggy, either straight and passed his ears, or curly and rather short. His face has a somewhat pronounced jawline, no baby fat still in his face. But his features are still soft. His eyes might be any color, but it would be cool if he had green eyes or some other less seen color, that way I can have an excuse for staring into them. He has a small, dark goatee under his bottom lip, no mustache. His shoulders are broad, and he is strong enough to pick me up and swing me around in his arms. He is muscular, but not entirely brawny. Spattered here and there on his body, he has a few scars. His skin tone would be a tan olive. His nationality may be anything.

Acts: My man has a somewhat cocky attitude, showing off in whatever he can, but in a fun way. His sense of humor makes me smile at nearly every word he says. He's sarcastic, but only when appropriate. He doesn't ask for a kiss, he steals one. He is rough, and likes to sneak up and hug me from behind, or wrestle with me. He likes to do sweet little romantic things like randomly show up whereever I am and surprise me. But, he isn't whipped, and will still stand up for himself, even if it means going against something I say. He has a mind of his own and is smart enough to keep up an intelligent conversation.

Anything Else: He is musically inclined and can play drums and guitar, possibly even sing. Heck, maybe he sings bad and still sings just for the heck of it.


So, yeah, that's my guy for now.

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Old 01-30-2009, 01:49 AM

Hmmm.... Well.... The perfect person....

Appearance is one thing.... But i might as well get teh shallow crap out of the way...

I'd like her to have long, Curly hair.... Or at least moderately long... But not like Down to her buttocks long.... It would be a sexy black or dark brown.... If she dyes it that would be her own choice.

She would have a beautiful smile... Beautiful eyes as well, they can be any color. She wouldn't have a pizza face or something like that... Freckles are okay.... smooth skin that i can run my hands across...

I want her to have hands that fit mine perfectly... arms that are long enough to wrap around me.... and i don't want her to be really skinny like some would prefer.... I want her to be hug-able^^... Just enough so i can wrap my arms around her entirely.... I have long arms so that isn't a lot of expectations...
Glasses are sexy... lol... I know i wear them :P.... XD... but yeah... i would not mind if she wore glasses....

Well... As for everything else

I want her to unlock my crazy side... The side that is aching to be unlocked.... She could be shy.... But around me i would want her to be comfortable.... No drinking or smoking... If she was a gamer that would be really awesome... ^^

She could be a party person.... a people person.... But I would love it if she enjoyed time alone with just us every once and a while... She would appreciate the little romantic things i would have to say and not just say they were corny unless i obviously meant it to be corny. A person that will glomp if if they hadn't seen me for a week.... and glomp me anyway if they felt like it..... I would like her to be very huggy... i need a place to rest my arms^^... and as for kisses... Well...... she would love every one... no matter how short or long.

I wouldn't want her to be a troublemaker... But maybe a small side of her that had micheif. She would appreciate all types of literature from dark to happy... She could say 'aww' to something cute yet not be all freaked out at a movie like Saw. There would have to be a lot of laughing and jokes between us two.... and if she was in a bad mood about something she would tell me about it and appreciate me trying to help.... But of course want to be independent on certain things.... And not just bash me for thinking that she was helpless....

And i suppose... that would be it^^

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Old 01-30-2009, 06:12 AM

Wow. All of your dream gents and ladies sound wonderful.

@Tut'ankhamun:
You sound like you have similar tastes to mine.
I was reading it and thinking to myself
"... I want .... Dx "
Would you mind if I drew him? xDD
I'd probably need you to explain what he wears and whatnot.

@QuietChampion:
Wow! Your dream lady sounds stunning!
It makes me want to meet her. She definitely sounds more enjoyable
than the dream blond-haired-and-blue-eyed girl that I always hear are "men's taste".
You have very unique (and wonderful) tastes.
Did anything inspire your unique tastes?
The old fashioned pictures, some lovely novels perhaps?

...
I suppose before replying to other peoples' posts I'll have to reveal my Dream Gent to you all.

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Gavrilla's Dream Gent
[Your posts were such great examples that I feel obliged to go "all out"!
Prepare yourself! By the time you are finished reading this, I hope you'll be able to picture him.]

Appearance
Well, firstly my gent has oddly coloured hair; purple, red-ish pink, blue, fushia, what ever colour he prefers. His hair is punk-spiked on every occasion where he suspects others will see him, but when people arrived unexpectedly (and he's probably somewhat grouchy as a result of it), he has shoulder length hair that's somewhat girly. He originally had brown hair, so his eyebrows are that colour.

He has no baby fat, very chiseled, and somewhat angular facial features. His eyes are brown and he has ridiculously long eyelashes. Ridiculously long! Sometimes during the winter he has sideburns down past ear length (like this ... mind you, I have no idea who's in that picture. ^^;; ).
He has a tan and a somewhat toned body. And he is extremely expressive, you can see every emotion on his face. You can watch him function as he's pondering, then suddenly gets excited because he got an idea.

Clothing
He wears Victorian garments, like myself, and therefore is always overdressed. He often has to style his hair around a top hat. When he doesn't feel like wearing the full gentleman's suit, he'll still wear something somewhat formal, with suspenders or a tie perhaps. He only wears casual clothing when he doesn't think he's going to be seen. He often brings brings a cane with him or props a pipe in his mouth (despite the fact that he doesn't smoke).

Acts
He's very smart, and extremely self-assured. There's no insecurity in this boy at all, if anything he may be a little too arrogant. He's one of those men who walk into a room, doesn't need to talk to anyone, but is completely comfortable because he knows who he is, and his worth. He gets grouchy with people he doesn't respect or tires him, but he values people that he considers equals. When he likes his company, he's talkative as hell (very expressive, and gets easily excited over silly things). When he's with people he doesn't like he's normally grouchy, therefore quiet (and never sarcastic). He's not the sort of man to give me a sweet kiss, instead he surprises me with an unexpected and perhaps unwanted kiss, enjoying my reactions (as I enjoy his). He's masochistic from who-knows-what experiences from his childhood, therefore we'll have a great love life (in combination with my sadism).

Flaws
As I've mentioned before, he's a bit arrogant and grouchy. But other than that, he has issues telling people how much he appreciates, values, or loves them. He may cherish how small of a figure I have, but never tell me. He communicates that he values me by doing favors for me, going out of his comfort zone, and every once in a while he'll awkwardly admit that he values me. Which I'll remember and cherish.

Relationship
We'll have a more friendship-based relationship. Preferably having no romance whatsoever. We're both mischievous, therefore our love-life will be interesting. He'd never even consider cheating on me and (and assuming that we're married) divorce. Even if the marriage is struggling and we hate each other, he'd be willing to work on it with me, thus never even considering divorce as an option.

Wow. He sounds amazing ....
I really wish that I was actually walking down that hallway, into that room now. .__.

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Old 01-30-2009, 06:20 AM

@Gavrila: I am always shocked by people who fantasize about dating someone with communication issues! :O Like, I don't think it's bad or anything but I cannot imagine why you would intentionally seek conflict in your relationship. Personally, my dream boyfriend/girlfriend would be the type to just blurt out what's on their mind, especially when it comes to that sort of thing! >w< Spontaneous compliments~~

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Old 01-30-2009, 06:52 AM

Some Random Randomness: That sounds like one heck of a relationship. I can understand your comment about the "yes sayer" thing, too-- conflict is healthy!

First to Never Know: Let's just say, I never want to meet any of your dream men in an alleyway after midnight. I suppose that's the draw, though? I hear women enjoy feeling "safe". Big men provide that in spades, no doubt.

Tut'ankhamun: Hey! I resemble that description! Strongly! ... although, I've been tending more to the slim/athletic side, since I picked up the whole vegetarianism thing.
O,o Up until your "anything else" section, I was good. Then it aaaaaaall fell apart. I swear to god, I'm tone-deaf, love.
Your dream man sounds Russian, to me. Hunt there!


Supreme Commander Gavrila: I think the heyday of the California girl is past, madame.
Then again, I find women of all shape and size quite fascinating. I have had boyfriends and girlfriends aplenty, in my time, but the ladies...
Hm, well-- ya'll are just more fun to touch, I think.
What lead to my taste in women? Well, I... I guess that goes back to a rite of passage, for young men. Not quite as pure or clean as one might hope, I suppose.
The first... "flesh" I stumbled across, in my youth, was a retro collection of pin-ups ranging from the 20's, on to the fourties. It was probably my step-mum's, as she did a lot of lady's tailoring. It was nothing more scandalous than the lingerie section of a sears catalogue, but... oh, there was an exotic and strange air, to these women long since past.
Ah, boyhood. Good times. I grew up in a house full of blonde-haired blue-eyed girls, so the visual never became "desirable", for me. More so, I spent a great deal of my highschool career putting other young men through locker doors, for ogling my half-sisters. Heh.
As for the personality of my dream girl?
Ah, well. She's modeled somewhat off of a particular young lady, I confess. She's... quite a heart-stopper. I just wish I ever found an opportunity to approach her as more than an acquaintance, but I never seem to see her when I'm not covered in manure and straw. She's a very busy sort, not much time for... yeah. Anyway-- hey! Who knows? I might suck it up and take her out, some day.
Your dream man sounds... well, that's one heck of a strong visual. I've never met anyone like him, but I wish I had!

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Old 01-30-2009, 07:15 AM

Well, this is one topic that takes a lot of thought. (And a lot of silent apology to my girlfriend. xD)

My dream girl would be anything but perfect.
In a lot of ways, she'd be just like my girlfriend, and in a lot of ways, she wouldn't.

Appearance
Well, she's be a bit shorter than me, so about 5'3"? She'd also be built well. Not stick thin or fashionably lean. A strong figure. She'd have average shaped shoulders, and a simple figure. Her hair? However she wanted it. But short. She'd wear it in all sorts of funky style, ranging from spiking certain sections out, to wearing it clipped up with chopsticks in it. She'd wear little make up. She'd have no need for it. Her eyes would radiate emotion in their granite tones. Laughter, sadness, anger. She'd have a strong chin, and paint-stained, artist's hands.

Style
Her clothing would range from casual, to nothing short of outrageous. Again, with her ever swinging moods, she'd range from loli-girl to old victorian suits. I'd tell her she looked beautiful in pinstripes and she'd wear them more often. She'd be into the finer things of life, like the first sip out of a can of Coca Cola or the first indent in a clean piece of clay. She'd have a thing for leather. I do, myself, and I believe she'd look lovely in it.

Personality
As you could imagine, she's an artist, and a passionate one at that. She's a jack of all trades with the voice of an angel. We'd spend hours painting, sculpting, writing, and singing together. She'd also be into anime and we'd spend hours laughing about our favorite series. She'd have powerful emotions. A flaming temper when angry. A heart-breaking wail when sad. And the laugh that could bring a smile to any human's face, no matter how dire their situation. She'd also be the voice of reason, and though she'd scold me for being an idiot or not listening the first time, she would be soft, knowing that I am emotional as well. She would sing for me when I was sad, and we'd provide each other with shoulders to cry on.

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Old 01-30-2009, 07:38 AM

He adores me, and can make me laugh even when I want to cry.

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Old 01-30-2009, 08:02 AM

I've met my dream gent.
Now I just have to reel him in, again. :P

Appearance
About 5'9" or 5'10", ridiculously crazy mess of curly blonde hair, piercing green eyes, some facial hair. A bit on the thin side of an average build... muscular enough to have toned abs I can run my hands over and arms just the right size for wrapping me up in hugs, but at the same time, not too buff for comfortably cuddling with.

Clothing
Like me, he dresses up for no reason at all on occasion (though I more often than him). Otherwise, his style is very casual, t-shirt, jeans, and hoodie type of thing. & Glasses. :)

Acts
Extremely intelligent and confident to a point of cockiness. Sarcastic and blunt as all hell, and most of the time you can't tell if he is joking with you or actually being mean, though it is usually the former. Constantly smokes. He spontaneously does strange strange things that make no sense and enjoys sharing useless but intensely interesting pieces of knowledge. "Eccentric" is a good descriptor.

Flaws
He acts very bipolar, and his excessive cockiness and sarcasm could be considered a flaw at times. He lacks a predilection for explanations, thus often leaving people confused about how he feels.

Relationship
Cute little acts are his thing, from cuddling up against me when we're sitting around to taking me on random adventures.

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Old 01-30-2009, 02:08 PM

Dream Gent...hm...Let's see.

Not too tall. 5'8" or so would be optimal. Slender, but not too skinny. Slender hands with long fingers of a pianist. Long blond or red hair, thick and soft. Eyes gray or green. Small goatee. Soft features. Maybe a piercing here and there on his face (nose, labret, brow). Preferably listening to and dressing goth/metal, like me.

Likes to cuddle, being scratched on the neck/arms/back/under the chin and his hair played with. Is warm, understanding and protective, but not possessive. Loyal and faithful. Has a sense of humor. Maybe a bit cynical every now and then. Witty, a good conversation partner. Responsible, but not boring. Doesn't make me do what I don't want to do. Likes to dance and going to parties. Preferably doesn't smoke.

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Old 01-30-2009, 04:19 PM

hehe... Himitsu

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Old 01-30-2009, 06:13 PM

@Febreze:
Lol. Well, I personally find that a man's vulnerabilities is what makes him most attractive. :/
(if you've visited the "Why must I fall for such cuteness" thread by Rachelle, I made a post giving an example of my fondness for vulnerabilities).
Therefore, having a man who has difficulties communicating is something that's somewhat attractive to me.
Also, there's what's called "Love Languages" which is how a person communicates love.
There's the spoken word, quality time, giving, acts of service, and physical touch.
I'd rather he didn't have "spoken word" (having to communicate his appreciation for me), but instead one of the other choices (preferably not "giving" either).
...
But the main reason why I put that characteristic in my dream gent is because when growing up it was butchered into my mind
that men aren't supposed to communicate those things.
So whenever I see a man who always says "I love you" it's extremely unattractive and kind of embarrassing to me. ^^;;
Personally I hate the word "love" and I'm only willing to say "I value you" and "I appreciate you" because it feels more real to me.
However, when a guy almost never communicates it to me, (which keeps him attractive in that sense) then awkwardly, once in a blue moon, admits that he value, appreciates, or loves me, it shows vulnerability, which I find attractive.

Therefore the lack of communication there, is perfect for me. n__n

@QuietChampion:
I hope you gain the courage to have a better relationship with her then ask her out!
She sounds wonderful, and it was beautiful how you explained you dream girl,
if she's modeled after that girl you admire, I hope you aim towards getting her someday.

I can imagine how the blonde-hair and blue-eyes got tiring.
I come from a small french town, therefore I avoid dating the french men in any way shape or form.
There have been people that have tried to convince my sister and I that we should marry a Frenchman, to which we always say "no!".
We have a french family, we don't need more! Dx

I can definitely relate to the beauty of the olden-days,
my dream gent's personality is designed a bit like the men from the 19th century.
The olden times have such fascinating people.
Sherlock Holmes definitely amazed me, to which I realized that I wanted a guy
who's extremely smart, self-assured, grumpy at times, but never sarcastic.
I suppose my Gent and Sherlock have a lot in common. ^^;;
He's slightly modeled after some characters like Pierre Gringoire from the Hunchback of Notre Dame, as well,
who gets easily excited over silly things (then again, Sherlock does too.)
I guess overall my guy's inspired by Sherlock, only my gent's a little happier
(and preferably not asexual.)

@Ezekielle:
I like how your dream lady has a temper, she sounds quite passionate too.
Very realistic, actually.
With passion, comes the passion of emotions.
I'm curious, you said that you have a few aspects of your girlfriend in this character,
do you mind telling a bit about how your girlfriend inspired her?
'w'


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Old 01-31-2009, 02:40 AM

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Wow. All of your dream gents and ladies sound wonderful.

@Tut'ankhamun:
You sound like you have similar tastes to mine.
I was reading it and thinking to myself
"... I want .... Dx "
Would you mind if I drew him? xDD
I'd probably need you to explain what he wears and whatnot.

@QuietChampion:
Wow! Your dream lady sounds stunning!
It makes me want to meet her. She definitely sounds more enjoyable
than the dream blond-haired-and-blue-eyed girl that I always hear are "men's taste".
You have very unique (and wonderful) tastes.
Did anything inspire your unique tastes?
The old fashioned pictures, some lovely novels perhaps?

...
I suppose before replying to other peoples' posts I'll have to reveal my Dream Gent to you all.

•••

Gavrilla's Dream Gent
[Your posts were such great examples that I feel obliged to go "all out"!
Prepare yourself! By the time you are finished reading this, I hope you'll be able to picture him.]

Appearance
Well, firstly my gent has oddly coloured hair; purple, red-ish pink, blue, fushia, what ever colour he prefers. His hair is punk-spiked on every occasion where he suspects others will see him, but when people arrived unexpectedly (and he's probably somewhat grouchy as a result of it), he has shoulder length hair that's somewhat girly. He originally had brown hair, so his eyebrows are that colour.

He has no baby fat, very chiseled, and somewhat angular facial features. His eyes are brown and he has ridiculously long eyelashes. Ridiculously long! Sometimes during the winter he has sideburns down past ear length (like this ... mind you, I have no idea who's in that picture. ^^;; ).
He has a tan and a somewhat toned body. And he is extremely expressive, you can see every emotion on his face. You can watch him function as he's pondering, then suddenly gets excited because he got an idea.

Clothing
He wears Victorian garments, like myself, and therefore is always overdressed. He often has to style his hair around a top hat. When he doesn't feel like wearing the full gentleman's suit, he'll still wear something somewhat formal, with suspenders or a tie perhaps. He only wears casual clothing when he doesn't think he's going to be seen. He often brings brings a cane with him or props a pipe in his mouth (despite the fact that he doesn't smoke).

Acts
He's very smart, and extremely self-assured. There's no insecurity in this boy at all, if anything he may be a little too arrogant. He's one of those men who walk into a room, doesn't need to talk to anyone, but is completely comfortable because he knows who he is, and his worth. He gets grouchy with people he doesn't respect or tires him, but he values people that he considers equals. When he likes his company, he's talkative as hell (very expressive, and gets easily excited over silly things). When he's with people he doesn't like he's normally grouchy, therefore quiet (and never sarcastic). He's not the sort of man to give me a sweet kiss, instead he surprises me with an unexpected and perhaps unwanted kiss, enjoying my reactions (as I enjoy his). He's masochistic from who-knows-what experiences from his childhood, therefore we'll have a great love life (in combination with my sadism).

Flaws
As I've mentioned before, he's a bit arrogant and grouchy. But other than that, he has issues telling people how much he appreciates, values, or loves them. He may cherish how small of a figure I have, but never tell me. He communicates that he values me by doing favors for me, going out of his comfort zone, and every once in a while he'll awkwardly admit that he values me. Which I'll remember and cherish.

Relationship
We'll have a more friendship-based relationship. Preferably having no romance whatsoever. We're both mischievous, therefore our love-life will be interesting. He'd never even consider cheating on me and (and assuming that we're married) divorce. Even if the marriage is struggling and we hate each other, he'd be willing to work on it with me, thus never even considering divorce as an option.

Wow. He sounds amazing ....
I really wish that I was actually walking down that hallway, into that room now. .__.
Gavrilla, of course you can draw him. And thank you.

Um, I guess he would wear band tees and somewhat baggy jeans (but not falling off his butt.) He would wear converses and a little bit of jewelry (may be a simple necklace and a few bracelets.)

I agree with you on the sideburns, though. I can think of several guys who have sideburns who I think are quite hot.


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Some Random Randomness: That sounds like one heck of a relationship. I can understand your comment about the "yes sayer" thing, too-- conflict is healthy!

First to Never Know: Let's just say, I never want to meet any of your dream men in an alleyway after midnight. I suppose that's the draw, though? I hear women enjoy feeling "safe". Big men provide that in spades, no doubt.

Tut'ankhamun: Hey! I resemble that description! Strongly! ... although, I've been tending more to the slim/athletic side, since I picked up the whole vegetarianism thing.
O,o Up until your "anything else" section, I was good. Then it aaaaaaall fell apart. I swear to god, I'm tone-deaf, love.
Your dream man sounds Russian, to me. Hunt there!


Supreme Commander Gavrila: I think the heyday of the California girl is past, madame.
Then again, I find women of all shape and size quite fascinating. I have had boyfriends and girlfriends aplenty, in my time, but the ladies...
Hm, well-- ya'll are just more fun to touch, I think.
What lead to my taste in women? Well, I... I guess that goes back to a rite of passage, for young men. Not quite as pure or clean as one might hope, I suppose.
The first... "flesh" I stumbled across, in my youth, was a retro collection of pin-ups ranging from the 20's, on to the fourties. It was probably my step-mum's, as she did a lot of lady's tailoring. It was nothing more scandalous than the lingerie section of a sears catalogue, but... oh, there was an exotic and strange air, to these women long since past.
Ah, boyhood. Good times. I grew up in a house full of blonde-haired blue-eyed girls, so the visual never became "desirable", for me. More so, I spent a great deal of my highschool career putting other young men through locker doors, for ogling my half-sisters. Heh.
As for the personality of my dream girl?
Ah, well. She's modeled somewhat off of a particular young lady, I confess. She's... quite a heart-stopper. I just wish I ever found an opportunity to approach her as more than an acquaintance, but I never seem to see her when I'm not covered in manure and straw. She's a very busy sort, not much time for... yeah. Anyway-- hey! Who knows? I might suck it up and take her out, some day.
Your dream man sounds... well, that's one heck of a strong visual. I've never met anyone like him, but I wish I had!
Well, Champ, he doesn't have to be musically inclined. It's just something I find attractive. It's one of the things that are less on my requirement side.

Well, it's funny you should say Russian...My best friend is completely in love with the Russians. She totally wants to marry a Russian. I'm fine with Russians. I think it's amazing how low they can sing (Russia is known for how low it's basses can go in singing), but I'm not going to jump at the first Russian I see (unless he's really hot. Wait, n, I take taht back. I have low self-esteem, so I'd probably just worship from afar.)

Unfortunately, I'm quite far frmo yours. The only thing I have right is the personality, the drak hair (but it's dyed that way, I'm a natural blonde), the round cheeks, and not being dainty.

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Old 01-31-2009, 05:27 AM

Supreme Commander Gavrila:
I like my women fiery. >D
Well, my girlfriend's kind of rough around the edges. She's the type to be loving and caring one minute and cold and lonely the next. When she's feeling sad or frustrated, she pushes people away. Perhaps that's why the freedom of my dream girl's emotions was so well detailed. I always find myself pushing and pushing, walking her home and making sure she's okay when she seems off because she's been known for self-mutilation before. (Which I abhor and try and convince her not to do. It's been working pretty well.) However, she is artistic in the sense that she's very musical. She loves to sing and I adore singing with her. She's also pretty tough. When she's angry, or I've forgotten something, important or not, she scolds hard, but will always kiss me on the forehead afterwards, smile, and tell me not to feel bad.
I love her so much. <3

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Old 01-31-2009, 06:31 AM

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Supreme Commander Gavrila:
I like my women fiery. >D
Well, my girlfriend's kind of rough around the edges. She's the type to be loving and caring one minute and cold and lonely the next. When she's feeling sad or frustrated, she pushes people away. Perhaps that's why the freedom of my dream girl's emotions was so well detailed. I always find myself pushing and pushing, walking her home and making sure she's okay when she seems off because she's been known for self-mutilation before. (Which I abhor and try and convince her not to do. It's been working pretty well.) However, she is artistic in the sense that she's very musical. She loves to sing and I adore singing with her. She's also pretty tough. When she's angry, or I've forgotten something, important or not, she scolds hard, but will always kiss me on the forehead afterwards, smile, and tell me not to feel bad.
I love her so much. <3
It sounds like you really appreciate her.
You seem like a man who likes to chase after his woman, instead of having her handed right over to you without a bit of work.

It's very interesting how people appreciate such unique things, eh?
I like guys who won't tell me that he loves me all the time,
you like your girls fiery,
QuietChampion likes a girl who's elegantly old-fashioned,
Tut likes a man who's much more realistic in comparison to mine xD
etc....
I'm sure if we compiled everything others' find attractive
we'd learn a frightful amount about them. :/

@Katurine:
Aww. Your guy sounds like the romantic type.
Is that right?
If he is romantic, what sort of things would he say/or do on occasion?

@Caroline:
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I swear I know your dream man.
Actually ... quite a few of them.
There's a lot of them in the artistic community. n__n

@Flower of the Battlefield:
Your girl sounds very acquirable.
I know quite a few friends that might go under that category.
I most definitely go under the "unlocking the crazy side of someone, in a subtle fashion" category.
I know that there's plenty of girls out there that are like that as well.
You should definitely look for a girl with some of those qualities,
I think you'll find her. :3




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Old 01-31-2009, 06:34 AM

Oh geez. My dream partner?

Physical:
He'd be a man, mainly for the sake of convenience. I'm attracted to men and women equally...but with all the social and legal issues surrounding sexual orientation, if I could choose, I'd prefer to be in a heterosexual relationship.
However, he would be, in appearance, pretty much gender-neutral. Very androgynous - soft features, small build, all that. Not very muscular, but not a total wimp either, and skinny...but only to a healthy extent. I don't like zombies, kthx. He would also be close to my height, maybe a little taller - not too much, though, as I'm actually quite easily intimidated by people significantly taller than me.

He would have dark brown eyes naturally, though I would have no objections if he played with color contacts once in a while. I have no real preferences with hair, though - basically he can change that whenever he wants, as long as there's no facial hair involved. Also, I have a thing for hands - strong, hard-working hands, with long, slender fingers, that look distinctly aged...but not old. The hands of an artist, a pianist, a guitarist...refined hands.

...also, a plus would be for him to be left-handed, both because it's a sign of creativity...and because then we'd be able to use items designed for left-handed people and not have to keep them separate to keep them from getting mixed up. :sweat:
Style:
Anything goes, as long as he doesn't stick with just one thing. Basically, he's not afraid to go casual one day, business suit the next, something totally outrageous the next...and isn't afraid to let me do the same.
...hell, I'd probably like it if he'd wear a skirt once in a while. XD
Personality:
He'd be an artist, and a dedicated one at that. Specifically, a musician. Someone who wants to pursue his art as a career, but doesn't take it as something purely commercial, but a full circle - something he lives for and makes a living by. Did I mention he'd have to be dedicated? The ideal would be someone who can play multiple instruments...ESPECIALLY piano, and I wouldn't object to guitar either, and drums would be a plus, among others...

He'd have to be patient and competitive, and into many of the same things that I am - so our relationship would also push us both to improve ourselves at what we do; so that we could be proud of each other, but also still not want to lose the never-ending game. XD

He'd have to have a variable "perceived age." In reality he'd be a little bit older than me, but he'd be the kind of person who could be showing the wisdom of a 50-year old one minute, the playfulness of a 5-year old the next.

Despite the fact that he'd be older than me, he wouldn't treat me like a child just because I have some childlike qualities.

One thing I'm firm in is that I do NOT want to have kids. He'd have to be willing to accept the fact that if we're ever having kids, they'll be adopted.

He'd have to be, or have been a "closet weirdass" like me. One of "those people" who talks to the dead, or seeks out people he knew in a past life...but doesn't lead on to the fact that he does it, or at least hid it for a good long time.

That's not to say he can't have his quirks that he shows. Maybe someone to join me in claiming to be vampires?

He'd have to be fearless, willing to try anything once.

He would like to cook, and he'd be good at it.

He would dislike the sun...I don't personally care about the reason. Whether it's the above mentioned vampire claim and not wanting to blow it, or just plain not wanting a tan; all that I care is that he'll limit his sun exposure...and as a result, not take me out into the sun unless it's REALLY worth the burning. He'd be someone who prefers the night.

He'd be someone who cares about understanding the person he's with.

He wouldn't believe in marriage, and basically the only reason we'd ever do it is for hospital visitation rights and other such crap.
Like me, he wouldn't be too fond of hospitals.

And he'd be someone who isn't possessive - someone who doesn't want to force anyone to devote themselves totally to him, probably even to the extent that he'd be wary of a long-term relationship...somehow that's the only kind of person I can devote myself totally to.
Other:
He would be someone with a rather rocky past...who lets it improve him, rather than brooding over it like an angsty teenager. Whether he had difficulties in the same ways as me or not, it would aid in understanding each other.
...I have some rather unique standards there. Oddly enough, looking back up at them, I actually can think of someone who fits them. Ooh, boy...:oops:

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Old 01-31-2009, 08:22 AM

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@Caroline:
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I swear I know your dream man.
Actually ... quite a few of them.
There's a lot of them in the artistic community. n__n
Ahaha yes, this man is indeed an artist of sorts; he plays and teaches piano. Artists tend to be very passionate and a bit reckless, and I like that. :>

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Old 01-31-2009, 08:31 AM

Well, a correction to be made would be a girl who chases after her woman. xD; My avatar is misleading. >_>;

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Old 01-31-2009, 11:12 AM

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Aww. Your guy sounds like the romantic type.
Is that right?
If he is romantic, what sort of things would he say/or do on occasion?
In fact, you're right! :D
Well...I'd like him to say/do those small but sweet things. Like randomly give me a flower for no occasion. Or drink wine with me at night in a prettily lit place. Kiss my forehead - I really love that. Get my favorite band to sing me a serenade under my window. XD I know those guys personally and they're really cool, so maybe they'd actually agree. XD
But I wouldn't want him to write me love poems and notes. That's just so cheezy. At some points I'm a traditionalist and pretty much a romantic, but I just don't like the love poems/notes idea.

 



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