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View Poll Results: Which are you?
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Sadistic.
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Masochistic.
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Both, my friend! ;D
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Neither .__.
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Risque
fitter, happier
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02-05-2009, 02:00 AM
Ugh, I feel incredibly out of place from this topic due to my age.. but regardless, this has got to be one of the best GD topics I've seen in a while. :lol:
I'm not one for pain, but humiliation is definitely a go for me. Hehe.
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Moogle
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02-05-2009, 02:11 AM
Oops, should've read the meaning before I voted on the poll.
Ya see, my definition of sadism was wrong. I thought it was when you liked watching someone get hurt, such as YouTubeidiots and MTV's Scarred. I don't know what that makes me though.
And can I guess that pseudo-masochism is when you pretend you like pain? : o
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AND LOVE SAiiD NO
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02-05-2009, 02:11 AM
o0hhh interesting o.o
i guess you could say im a bit of both? im a closet freak.
but i do show it in the bedroom (:
i like pain, that could be hott.. but nothin so extreme.. like ive known others to go as far as.
and i like to be in control at times as well and flip it both ways. ;3
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Tsunii
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02-05-2009, 02:32 AM
I'm sadistic and mostly dominant, but if it's the right person then I can be a little submissive and masochistic too. I can't remember when I realized that I was sadistic, but I know when I figured out that I'm a litte masochistic was when I were together with my latest boyfriend and we tested to tie each other up and took turnes being the sadistic and such... I never liked to be exposed to pain, scpecilly not when it's extreme, exept for nibbles.
As for the telling others part, I never told my parents and never will since I can't see why I should tell them... but they probably figured out that I am anyway. I think most of my friends know wether I have told them or not and next time I get together with someone then he/she will have realized that long ago. :)
And for Tomten: You better go have sex so I don't have to get those creepy wibes from you evertime I meet you and I will never ever EVER become your uke! D:<
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d2hiriyuu
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02-05-2009, 02:36 AM
hm, I find this amusing that people don't like pain but like giving it, just because how does one give pain without understanding what the receiver is going to get. personally I will never take a knife to people, for i have done many things and have never managed to purposely make myself bleed without realizing I was beyond my own limitation of pain. And as such will not give it.
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Supreme Commander Gavrila
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02-05-2009, 03:37 AM
Oh! So many responses! This feeling of virtual accomplishment, does it never cease? ;w;
@Tsunii:
Aww, that's cute. >w<
People bringing out the inner masochist in you.
Lol, never thought that those two could be associated with one and other.
I'm probably very similar to you.
If I'm ever masochistic, it won't be to extreme physical paint. Dx
Something fairly light.
@Mellie AngelRose
Me: "Oh! How lonesome life is without a masochistic boytoy with whom I can spend my time doing unmentionable things. However, I shall not give up! On the contrary, I will continue my search for said boytoy!"
*In a magical puff of smoke, an attractive male appears (who happens to be dominant masochistic) appears. *
Him: "Like, hey."
xDD
I like that idea! Yes! I hope that's how I'll find my masochistic boy!
*my mental image of while reading the last sentences of your first paragraph*
@MaryKay:
S&M&S
Sadomasochuggle
How did I forget snuggletistic! Dx
It's such an important factor in the kinky life style! @[email protected]
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I love that term of yours.
"snuggletistic".
It's one that I shall never forget.
(especially considering that it's a fundamental in the sadomasochuggle life style).
iRandall:
Lol. Well, if you find either hurting someone or being hurt attractive, then you're indeed one of the two.
If not, perhaps your enjoyment of watching skateboarders hurt themselves on youtube will develop into it! >: D
(~j~o~i~n u~s~!~ :twisted: )
Pseudo-masochism: False masochism.
Well, wouldn't he be surprised. xDD
Last edited by Supreme Commander Gavrila; 02-05-2009 at 03:40 AM..
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Mellie_AngelRose
Dead Account Holder
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02-05-2009, 04:06 AM
@ Gavrila: That would be awesome if that happened, I imagine it with pink smoke. Oh my gosh If that actually happen I would be rolling on the ground laughing.
Happily I have already found my sadistic guy, Sadly we won't be seeing each other for awhile.
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Tsunii
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02-06-2009, 01:50 AM
@Gavrila:
Which of them didn't you think could be associated with each other? Sadistic and dominant?
Yeah. ^^
Since I don't like extreme pain I try to not give my "victims" that either, exept for those who accually tell me to do it. But they never ask for that again for some strange reason. I wonder why.... >.>
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Supreme Commander Gavrila
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02-06-2009, 02:11 AM
@MellieRose:
xDD
Well, if a guy magically appears in a puff of pink smoke, I guess I'll know why.
@Tsunii:
Masochistic and Cute. xD
...
actually, those two are very suiting with eachother :/
at least coming from a sadist's point of view.
Yeah, I wouldn't really want to give them anything too extreme either, just enough to make them flinch.
I'd only do more if they ask for it.
Seeings, that I'm so like you, they'll probably never ask again. xD
@hiriyuu:
I guess that does make a lot fo sense, the entire, if you wouldn't want it, don't give it to another-concept.
I guess I'll just have to judge by asking what he's okay with and what he isn't, once I find myself someone. :/
@Risque:
You have a thing for humiliation?
Interesting!
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Sorry, I've just never conversed with someone who is attracted to humiliation
therefore I'm a bit curious about it. xD
What makes humiliation so attractive for you?
Their emotions, the concept, the control? Do you know yet?
If you don't mind my asking. ^^;;;
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Tsunii
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02-06-2009, 02:29 AM
@Gavrila:
Hm.. Now when you point it out, it's quite an obvious combination...
I guess my friends would be happier if I was cute and masochistic instead of being cute and sadistic most of the time.
Aw, to bad.. Can be quite fun sometimes to expose someone for extreme pain, as long as it's on their terms.
Ever heard the joke about the sadist and the masochist?
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Mellie_AngelRose
Dead Account Holder
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02-06-2009, 03:48 AM
Cute and fun. Makes the games better.
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Lathrine
theatre major from nurse school
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02-06-2009, 04:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Uzura
@Lathrine: That was your inner sadist taking over >3
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Lol, guess so! XD Bad inner sadist! Back in the box! Go! Box! Now! D<
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Originally Posted by Mellie_AngelRose
@Lathrine: What are you if you aren't sadist?
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Then I do not know. XD;
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d2hiriyuu
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02-06-2009, 05:49 AM
hm, two sense to this topic, although SM is existent in a relationship, how much are/ is one look for/ has of it. For the masochists, whipped till you bleed? or something much lighter. For the sadist, how much control do you want? get down to the other on how they dress, exactly what they wear, whether they are allowed to leave your sight or not? curiosity as to what people want is "ideal " relationship with this.
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Michy Lea
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02-06-2009, 05:51 AM
I'm not into S&M. I couldn't hurt/humiliate someone, and I don't enjoy it either.
However, I don't know how to explain it... I do get all warm and tingly when I see a guy I'm attracted to all bloody. Like, I watch a lot of fighting, and I love when the fights get bloody. I don't enjoy the guy being hurt, and I'm not a fan of blood, but there's just something about a guy bleeding that I like. And I love men with scars. It kind of makes them seem a little rugged, maybe a bit dangerous, and I like that in a guy.
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Tomten
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02-06-2009, 12:04 PM
@ Tsunii: don't like to give extreme pain? you know it hurts like 2 weeks after you bite right(my poor arms xD )? or maybe it just that you like hurting me that much? -.-
and if you stop hitting me that much, you might not feel those so called "vibes" or I don't know
I'm a sad little creature aren't I?
@ d2hiriyuu
well my masochistic part says tells me that a little blood is not that bad, but I would rather avoid getting whipped that hard, don't want any scars xD and my sadistic part that though not that strong as my masochistic one don't rly care about clothing and other dominating things, though I think it should be the masochistic that are in a bit more control so things don't get out off hand, but sure would be fun dominating people so they cant leave your sight and such. =P
@ First to Never Know:
do I sense a small sadist in you? Join the dark side, we got chains!
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Keary Lumiere
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02-06-2009, 12:35 PM
To start this off. I lean more towards masochism than sadism, but my little evil side is still there waiting to cause pain XD lol
When I was in middle school I found the glory that was YAOI though through Gravitation and of course I was curious about this whole "remix" thing I kept hearing about... well for those who have seen it you can understand why that was the first stone down my dark demented path :XP
When I started rping back then I found myself naturally taking the "seme" role in most of my role plays because I was getting sick of how passive and giddy people were back then. I thought I was an "uke" but I learned quickly that I was certainly not =3 My favorite characters to play were the master types with some sort of mental illness along with a shot of bipolar to make things interesting ^^ Those psychos who go, "*SMACK* What'd you say B*tch?! ..... oh... you poor little thing, your cheek's all red. Let me kiss it to make it feel better."
It wasn't until recently that I've taken a more passive role, the reason being my boyfriend. :insane:
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Originally Posted by d2hiriyuu
hm, two sense to this topic, although SM is existent in a relationship, how much are/ is one look for/ has of it. For the masochists, whipped till you bleed? or something much lighter. For the sadist, how much control do you want? get down to the other on how they dress, exactly what they wear, whether they are allowed to leave your sight or not? curiosity as to what people want is "ideal " relationship with this.
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well the "ideal" relationship is different from person to person obviously. I've been slapped plenty of times, gagged, scratched, bitten, tied up to the point where I have bruises on my wrists, yanked around by my dog collar (yes I wear a dog collar everywhere and day) or by my hair, slammed into things like doors and bed, tied up by my own clothing that's been sliced off by a knife, I get pushed around a lot in general really lol. I could go on, but I'm pretty sure you kinda get the point ^^;; In all honesty I could stand for more if it were dealt out to me, tho it is sad that as a sadist I want to cause pain tho I can't. As for the control that he has over me. He does dog me into wearing certain things when we go out, where we go and when, what we do, a lot of things really. When he asks for something I get it or do it, like cleaning and whatnot. He takes care of me, gives me the attention and care that I want as well as the discipline lol.
:drool: <-- This is what we look like after sex
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d2hiriyuu
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02-06-2009, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Keary Lumiere
To start this off. I lean more towards masochism than sadism, but my little evil side is still there waiting to cause pain XD lol
When I was in middle school I found the glory that was YAOI though through Gravitation and of course I was curious about this whole "remix" thing I kept hearing about... well for those who have seen it you can understand why that was the first stone down my dark demented path :XP
When I started rping back then I found myself naturally taking the "seme" role in most of my role plays because I was getting sick of how passive and giddy people were back then. I thought I was an "uke" but I learned quickly that I was certainly not =3 My favorite characters to play were the master types with some sort of mental illness along with a shot of bipolar to make things interesting ^^ Those psychos who go, "*SMACK* What'd you say B*tch?! ..... oh... you poor little thing, your cheek's all red. Let me kiss it to make it feel better."
It wasn't until recently that I've taken a more passive role, the reason being my boyfriend. :insane:
well the "ideal" relationship is different from person to person obviously. I've been slapped plenty of times, gagged, scratched, bitten, tied up to the point where I have bruises on my wrists, yanked around by my dog collar (yes I wear a dog collar everywhere and day) or by my hair, slammed into things like doors and bed, tied up by my own clothing that's been sliced off by a knife, I get pushed around a lot in general really lol. I could go on, but I'm pretty sure you kinda get the point ^^;; In all honesty I could stand for more if it were dealt out to me, tho it is sad that as a sadist I want to cause pain tho I can't. As for the control that he has over me. He does dog me into wearing certain things when we go out, where we go and when, what we do, a lot of things really. When he asks for something I get it or do it, like cleaning and whatnot. He takes care of me, gives me the attention and care that I want as well as the discipline lol.
:drool: <-- This is what we look like after sex
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yeah yaoi, though something i take a passive role in now, harder to find romance novels amusing when in a relationship for me. And as for the rest/ ideal relationship, I must admit a I wanted more kind of thing, more description, more amusing. I personally get scratched, bitten, tied to bruises on wrists, cut off circulation to my hands accidentally many times, dog collar is common, though do that with or without a partner. tied by leather cords and chains. And a couple other things. never bled/ was sliced. I occasionally get light whipping, though it is quite light to what i can take. Wish i could have some more but is fine otherwise. As for clothes thing, it was/is something i wish I had done, not always, but my partner and I do go out on a rare occasion but wearing what I own, and what I look good in is not the same. I am cheap when it comes to clothes. Also I dress very low key to what I could, and do to that wish to have it controlled for me. As for asking to do something or get something, there is many times he asks, and more times I will do soemthing without asking. (i.e. getting tea.)
As for the rest, amusing, I do like your description.
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Michy Lea
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02-06-2009, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Tomten
@ Tsunii: don't like to give extreme pain? you know it hurts like 2 weeks after you bite right(my poor arms xD )? or maybe it just that you like hurting me that much? -.-
and if you stop hitting me that much, you might not feel those so called "vibes" or I don't know
I'm a sad little creature aren't I?
@ d2hiriyuu
well my masochistic part says tells me that a little blood is not that bad, but I would rather avoid getting whipped that hard, don't want any scars xD and my sadistic part that though not that strong as my masochistic one don't rly care about clothing and other dominating things, though I think it should be the masochistic that are in a bit more control so things don't get out off hand, but sure would be fun dominating people so they cant leave your sight and such. =P
@ First to Never Know:
do I sense a small sadist in you? Join the dark side, we got chains!
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xD A few of my friends have called me a sadist, but I don't enjoy inflicting the pain. I just enjoy the after effects.
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d2hiriyuu
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02-06-2009, 06:11 PM
hmm, that would be a minor problem, wanting after effects but not wanting to cause them.... hmm interesting concept. then again I would like having an open wound, but would never cause one.
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Mellie_AngelRose
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02-07-2009, 03:42 AM
I would never ever allow blood. I can't stand the sight of it. That is a hard no for me. I would never go there.
@Lathrine: Ohh ok.
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Michy Lea
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02-07-2009, 03:50 AM
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Originally Posted by d2hiriyuu
hmm, that would be a minor problem, wanting after effects but not wanting to cause them.... hmm interesting concept. then again I would like having an open wound, but would never cause one.
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Yeah. It's quite the dilemma. I guess I should just try to find me a pro fighter who slightly sucks at his job.
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d2hiriyuu
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02-08-2009, 08:45 PM
hm,. that wouldn't be a bad idea.
today my boyfriend half whipped me, it was for soemthing, though like normal it isn't really as punishment. then again yesterday I was sick and took over his bed alot...
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Tomten
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02-12-2009, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by d2hiriyuu
hm,. that wouldn't be a bad idea.
today my boyfriend half whipped me, it was for soemthing, though like normal it isn't really as punishment. then again yesterday I was sick and took over his bed alot...
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You need to read "The Bro-code"
can't ppl make this thread alive again? :angel:
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Caroline
stay gold
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02-12-2009, 09:01 PM
Gavrilla ||
Hehe I haven't found someone like that yettt...
You're right, it would be important for me to have both because I need to act out my dominant side every once in a while, but being dominated would be sooo much more exhilarating.
I hope you find what you're looking for too! We are picky. D:
d2hiriyuu ||
There is an important difference between pain and harm. Masochistic and submissive people enjoy pain to an extent, while sadistic and dominant people do not necessarily, and no one enjoys being harmed! Think of it like chili peppers -- a little bit of spice in your food can give it an extra delicious kick, but if you eat an entire hot chili, you probably won't enjoy it! Being a good dominant involves knowing your sub's limit.
Tomten ||
Wish granted... I love this thread XDD
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larry the snail
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02-12-2009, 09:34 PM
I used to RP stuff like that. x.X
I usually picked the submissive character, buttttt one day I decided to switch.
And I found it just as enjoyable.
I don't really like pain- given or taken. I don't like being controlled, either. xD I don't know why I even RPed or paid attention to it. I suppose I liked the idea of having too people somehow unconventionally stuck in a relationship.
If my partner was into that stuff (I actually had two boyfriends who were- both relationships ended horribly), I'd play along with it for awhile. If it got too... intense I'd stop it.
I think it was all just a phase for me. Now I like the idea of having an equal relationship in every sense. (:
...I still like reading s&m stories though. e.e
I like ones with chains. Or ropes. Or handcuffs.
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