Thank you very much ^^

It was speghetti noodles except I eat my noodles with butter and cooked them with rosemary, basil and oregano. And then some garlic salt.
They were tasty.

Ah for pseudo-dates. I suppose better than no dates.

And I love Sea-food!

I'm much more interested in junk food. ;o

Welcome Ajax!

I used to hate all seafood but shrimp... and now I love seafood. :heart: Funny that way.
Don't really like junk food much. Most make my body recoil in one way or another after eating. So love cookies though. Cookies are my downfall. *pokes belly*

Well... sudo dates are all I can handle still. *sheepish* Getting back into the dating thing is a huge leap for me. so kinda throwing a date together all 'friend-like' and stuff really makes it easier somehow.

What's funny is it was more date-like than the last time we did something together 'cause this time we didn't take my son. :oops: I think I blushed nearly the whole time though. Funny how it felt like learning how to date all over again.

I'm probably going to try and post a roleplay reply somewhere and then crash for the night. Seriously not sure I'll be able to stay up much longer. *hugs all*

How long has it been since you last dated?

I get what you mean by how odd it is to suddenly date again. I really haven't seen anyone in the past 5 years. I was with someone but not really for that time, and recently got a bunch of interested from some people on an internet site I go on. I'm not sure how this one relationship is going right now. It's so far just friends who do stuff. I will see how it goes.

I'm nervous, scarred and almost tempted to cut it off and end it now. But hopefully it gets better.

How old is your son?
I don't think i ever met my mom's boyfriends till later in the relationship. One didn't want to really be involved, which I understood. That was high school time. Though he was in my life more than my mom was with his boys. And I also went to school with them. I would laugh to myself about the situation when I was in class with them.

Let's see... the last time I dated was probably before 1 October 2001 when my late hubby and I agreed to go steady. Our son is 4, will be 5 at the end of April. I use him as a gauge on anyone I hang out with. When he was three months old at a pool party with old friends from high school he would cry bloody murder when my ex tried to hit on me, then calm when he became friend-like again. I trust my son on these things. :heart: If anything does get serious I am looking for a new father for him as much as someone for me.

Understandable.

That reminds me of a friend of mine's son.
He understood the difference when he was 2 and 3 between women and gay man. And he got soo defensive when guys hit on his mom. One of the times a guy was hitting on her, he went up, grabbed her chest, looked at the guy and said "Mine" he was only about 2. Mom just sat there rather embrassed.

Me and my mom had a different sort of relationship. I don't think she was ever looking to replace my father, who was still in my life. His wife isn't even a step mom to me. When i first met her, it was "She is not your mother, she will never be your mother nor will she ever replace your mother" and it's the way it's since been.

It was a tough choice :9 Not really~ You can guess with my name why I picked Red Rose ♥ and Magus on the team? That is just extra bonus~

edit* I have no idea why I posted this late Lol : D -so out of it-

I haven't been on a date since early '06. :0
I didn't date much in the first place though. xD

Well it won't be such a big heartbreak than would it Rad? O__O; (Not sure~)

Ah.. the life of a single... At least I have friends ;A;~♥

It's okay, the dating scene wasn't my thing really. =o

Ah, until you find someone you can imagine the scene, it becomes your thing... and I failed to sound cool with that D:

Augh! I got caught up with college (and slacking off) that I forgot to work on my V-Day pictures! Once again I shall be late this year!

I remember that I once rather liked dating. Getting back into the swing of it is hard though. Not being able to go dancing whenever I want is tough, though thankfully I never really want to now so I guess it works.

I don't really want to replace my son's father... but it's not like he's alive and can still be here physically for our son who needs a good, male, role model preferably in family. He needs some sort of father figure, that's not just a picture in a photo album or wall hanging or even a spirit at the corner of his bed. That's what my late hubby wanted for us... I've just been slow being able to make any steps to doing anything about it.

Anyway... up WAY later than I should be for how tired I am. *hugs all* g'night!

G'night Trelweny.

Night Trelweny!

And I get what you mean that. It is something different when the father is prementantly out of the picture and only exist in memory's and pictures versus where the father is still alive and still involved.

Good luck with the guy!

I'm never sure what the dating scene is. And everyone has different ideas about what is dating and what is not, and who has what hang ups. I've been involved for a long time with one guy but we never offically dated. I did see other people while was with him and so did he. With both it caused intense jealousy. Also didn't help living in a small town. A bigger city makes it a lot easier. Also being away from him makes it easier too.

College does change things.

Yay I got new Centaur Man art. =D

It's been a while since I got some. :0
Now I just need to get around more Gaia artists and ask for some arts. xD
Lots of items to be used as currency. =o

*rolls around*

Yeah college changes things. Before in high school I could afford the time for a boyfriend because classes were so easy. But now in college... I tried to handle my relationship through some of the year but when it ended horribly, it affected my class grades and am facing academic probation. Losing that relationship told me that I can't afford to be in a relationship during college. ^_^ This way I can also avoid heartbreak. So yup~ college changes things.

*poke head in* anyone around?

yup yup *waves*

hey, whats going on? just chating about relationships? or the lack there of?

I guess so xD; I'm just posting some random info once in a while when it's on a topic I'm familiar with.

ahh ok. i like to do that also.

i was actually thinking of starting a thread about break up lines. you see, i have had to deal with what i have heard at least, the worst break up line. and i have a friend who got broken up with in a text message. yeah... so i though it might help people you know. who are going through a bad break up. what do you think?

Hallo.

Heh, it's my Meneversary tomorrow (KM is 1!) so if the event had started I was going to have a thread where I was going to pretend the event was to celebrate me instead of V-Day. XD

lol thats kinda awesome Kat. well happy menewsary. for tomorrow. lol

Thanks. ^^

I'm not necessarily anti-Valentines, I've just never celebrated it. My parents don't make a big deal over it either.