By fix I mean adding you to hummy's ping list

I have no problem with that . I think that she won't add me ^^

Why not?

Hummy is super nice. If you wanted to be added im sure she would let you.

I know that its hard to find person as nice as hummy. Sometimes I am afraid of her kindness :)

Are you worried that she isn't as kind as she seems?

She is very nice and want help to everyone and that's why I am afraid of her kindness. She can get burned if she would do that in rl life.

A lot of people of her type get burned in real life. They're called people pleasers. Pleasing others makes them happy... but people who like being pleased typically take advantage of that.

Yeah. Its rather unfortunate. :/ shes a sweety though so hopefully it doesnt become the case.

That's part of why I don't accept her gifts, because I don't feel that it's right of me, because she goes extra above and beyond to get items I would want.. owo also why I don't tell her what I want...

But refusing to accept gift can hurt her to :/

She knows I'm awfully stubborn. She doesn't accept gifts either >.>
Only ever managed to get her to accept one item.

I had a gift from Hummy and I accepted the trade, but she didn't. Stayed in my trades for almost year and despite me PMing her to inquire about the trade, she never accepted so I ended up cancelling the trade.

And you're right, people pleasers tend to get hurt...I know, because I was one for a long time. Learned my lesson when people would constantly use me or take advantage of me.

This world is very hard for nice ppl :<

Speaking of not accepting things... I want to send her a box of goodies :(

Queen that must have been when her inbox hit 100%

Originally Posted by Neora

This world is very hard for nice ppl :<

It can definitely be rough.

Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

Speaking of not accepting things... I want to send her a box of goodies :(

Queen that must have been when her inbox hit 100%

I would like to believe that, but like I said, it was in the trades for almost a year and I reached out to her once a month...so no, I don't believe that excuse would work for me.

This reminds me... I have a ton of unaccepted trades...

Poet, people love ya and want to give you pretty pixels.

Very glad to be home and not dealing with people's idiotic bullshit.

Poet is a nice one! Thats why! :D

Queensies -hug-

Yeah but gifts cause me issues... that's why I'm so open about not gifting me

Originally Posted by Mnemosyne

Poet is a nice one! Thats why! :D

Queensies -hug-

I figured you chat so much in my threads, I'll add your thread to my rounds.

Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

Yeah but gifts cause me issues... that's why I'm so open about not gifting me

What issues? Free things are good...not all the time, but most of the time. I prefer to be the one giving free things.

It's a very long story... just psychologically my brain registers getting a gift as something like a punishment...

Ooooh thank you, Queensies :)

Thats not good poet. :/

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Neora, I cannot stop laughing everytime I see your avi. You remind me of a rainbow pony so hard.

Let's go to the rainbow!! I want spring so bad :<

Yeah. Spring is a nice season. I am tired of all this back and forth weather we've been having this winter. ><;