Sooo I was on a date with this younger guy cuz I was like "Hey I've never dated anyone younger before, it might be amusing!" Anyways he's 18... so I'm 2 yrs his senior. We went to a rave for our date... Probably not the best place. And than the entire time he was rolling and totally ignoring me... And than he has the gal to ask "Hey do you mind if I make out with other people?" Why would he ask to come on a date with me only to ignore me and flirt with other people??? I'm so confused...

Anyways I want advice.
Should I break it off with him? He's really not my type...

Yeah break it off. No point in having a relationship with someone if they want to make out and fuck everyone else too.

...yeah..I agree that you should break it off. he's only 18.. and that means your only 20. you'll probably meet other more mature interesting guys.

I don't actually think his age has much to do with his maturity level; be careful not to limit your options in the future because this jerk just happens to be both young and stupid.

Any how, I'm pretty sure you really didn't have to ask this question.
You know the answer in you heart.
You've made it clear that he isn't right for you.
Let the idiot go.

@Bartuc: Yeah, thats what I was thinking too... Thanks for the help! Cute avie, by the way...

@Fuyumi: Thanks for the advice. I'm thinking really hard about it cuz I kinda like him a little bit... but he's too immature and too needy for me...

@Ambi: You're right. I shouldn't limit myself only to older men... but I've never met an intelligent, mature younger man before... I know that deep down I've already decided to break it off with him but doing that seems so hard because I hate to hurt people... but you're right, I need to make it clear to him and break it off. Thank you!

if he's not your type, tell him it's not working out. what a jerk, to go out with you when he was doing the same thing he would do anyway if you weren't there.
Don't let that ruin your impression of dating younger guys though. My first boyfriend was 3 years younger than me, younger than my little sister even. and i felt like he was really mature for his age. Some people are nice, and others are dumb. it doesn't have much to do with age.

well - asking to make out with other people while rolling seems like a fairly normal thing to do while in that condition (I know when I used to roll I loved everyone and wanted to touch and kiss lots of people that I would not be as inclined to bother with had I of been sober) - now if he's like that when he's not rolling . .that's a very different story.

I don't think age really has much to do with this- more drugs :/

I'd have to say, leave the dude. I mean, he's not your type, he probably couldn't ever make you happy in the long run. He doesn't sound very useful either...wandering about like that with other people. Doesn't sound like any good can result from a relationship with him.

@Liath: True that.

@siaasgn: I think you're right... He did apologize to me today for being an ass...
And I know he suffers from drug addiction, but it gets on my nerves... ><
Probably only cuz I don't have addiction and I always thought drugs were only good for recreation, not daily usage. Strangely enough, when on E I'm not touchy feely (I am normally) but for some weird reason I'm really allusive...

@louie: True...

Originally Posted by Bartuc

Yeah break it off. No point in having a relationship with someone if they want to make out and fuck everyone else too.

Agreed. That's just stupid. It's like getting new shoes but they want to be on someone elses feet. WHAT A MEAN PAIR OF SHOES.

if he wants to fuck with u like that then forget it, he blew it. find someone else who gives you respect b4 its to late

Yea let him go. He sounds like a jerk. That actually made me laugh out loud a little bit,.."Can I make out with other people?" Who the hell says that? Especially when your on a date. Maybe it's a rave-thing?

break it off, he's not worth it at all, any guy who would say that isn't looking for a strong relationship and if you dated him it wouldn't even last 2days.

Nowhere do I ever recall reading that age equals maturity.

Break it off, but don't clump all young men together, some of us find it offense to be grouped with people such as that.

Since Troth has not been back in ere for 2 weeks I'm going to assume this is resolved and lock it up.

If Troth wants this reopened just PM me or another mod and we'll open it back up for you.