You're confusing the meaning of "materialistic" but anyway:

Parents have a natural tendency to assume (as many others do too) that whatever makes them or would have made them happy will make their children happy as well. Your mother probably just wants you to be happy and in her mind having big boobs(and really, B isn't big anyway) has something to do with that.

The other day one of my relatives (who is a natural double D and is skinny, again by nature) looked at me sadly and said "God I wish I had small boobs like you." I have Cs but she actually seemed sad. It sounds funny but boobs that are too big can cause problems too. :P
I would never tell someone that they need plastic surgery - apart from accidents nobody needs plastic surgery and I'm a strong believer in being happy with your natural body BUT I would indeed wish for my daughter, if I ever have one, to have at the very least a B-cup. It's kind of like being blond I guess; NOT necessary in any way but simply fun. It's nice to be able to fill a dress. My sister has A-cups and she can't wear most of the clothes that I can even though she's thinner and has, supposedly, a better figure. Some curve on a woman = yummy.

I would stay the a cup, after all you can always pad them out, but if small boobs come back in style, and I have a feeling they will what with the trend towards more coverage in clothing, you will be set.

Of course it shall be stated that I have a large frame, but relativity small boobs for it. In other words next to an a size 6 I am large, but next to an other size 26 girl, I am quite small.

In the end though, do what will make you happy, not your mother, or for that matter anyone you are currently with.

In my family we joke that the itty bitty titty fairy missed me and hit my sister twice, to make up for it.

....imo that's ridiculous. My mom had to get a reduction and she still says they're too large. I'd kill to have A-cups, really. Large sizes can cause all sorts of problems. I mean, it's your choice. If I were you, I'd be happy with the A-cups (they're so much easier to manage, really). And plastic surgery is a really big thing. My mom has had plastic surgery three times and I pray to God she doesn't do it again. There's a lot of blood involved (you have to do a lot of checkups afterwards and you have to drain the blood every so many hours to make sure it doesn't clot) and if something were to go wrong, that would be awful.

If you decide to do it, make sure you have a really good doctor, and if you don't think you can rely on the people at home to take care of you afterward, you might want to consider getting it done by a doctor that works out of the hospital. However, you'll also have to consider the cost of a room in the hospital and that you'll have to pay a separate fee for the anesthesiologist. There's a lot to consider when it comes to plastic surgery, and I really don't think it's worth if it it's just implants. It's one thing if you're too big and getting back pain, and another thing if you're really small.

Also, mothers are supposed to be supportive of you, no matter how you are. It's supposed to be unconditional love, you know? So I think it's extremely rude of her to say something like that to you.

...sorry, as you can see, I have a really strong opinion on this subject. *slinks off*

Plastic surgery doesn't even mix with my family at all. They freak out if I tell them I want my ear pierced. :l It's really annoying actually...they want me to grow up and look decent. But one piercing won't ruin my whole image more than this horrible acne is :s

Ah eh.. I don't know what to say about your mom. XD;

So has anyone's parents, peers, whoever, suggested plastic surgery?

No, everyone who sees me thinks I'm cute.. >_> Face wise, anyway. Everyone knows I have small boobs.

Your reaction? And have you to someone else? How did they react? Etc, etc.

Reaction? Well since no one's said it I don't have one. If they did I'd just say "No thanks." and I wouldn't suggest it to anyone else. XD

my parents will never suggest this
for the simple fact i don't need them ^^
i like my boobies, they're big, so i don't have to do any surgery
but if i do needed it, let's say if i didn't had my wonderful boobs,
i wouldn't do it either
i think that human body was built like that
and it should remain the same

Originally Posted by kitkat

Noope I've never been suggested plastic surgery though people say I have big nose.. which I don't! '-'

Hah! I have a bigger nose if you checked my posts in the post your pics thread. Trust me. XD

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Heck, what kind of mom would tell you to get boob implants?? What's it worth when you get old and become a grandma??

A-cups are something to be proud of... Hey, at least you won't get back problems... And boobs are merely fat... D:

Hmm, I think if Billy Mayes was advertising breast implants I would get them. But I'm a guy so I would only get an A.

Wow, your mother's on crack. I'd have been tempted to slap her if she'd said that to me. I agree with the others who've said she's projecting her issues about her own small breasts onto you. She wants to share her feelings of inadequacy I expect : /

Sagitar, your sister will regret making fun of you when hers are down round her waist when she's 35. Larger boobs are only ok when they're still pert and perky, and the bigger they are, the faster they sag...