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Old 03-28-2009, 07:34 AM

I like my dad more because we're close and he understands me and what I'm going through. He gives me more freedom, unlike my mom. However, it is most unfortunate that my parents are divorced... I don't get to see him too much... V.V

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Old 03-28-2009, 08:28 AM

my dad is way better than my mom
so i like mroe my dad

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Old 03-28-2009, 05:13 PM

MOM!! coz she's freakin just like me.,haha!!

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Old 03-28-2009, 05:31 PM

Its impossible for me to say. My Mum and me get along rarely but live in the same house. My Dad has his own Family elsewhere so i dont see him much. He also seems to let me down a lot when he says he wants to see me and it usually ends up with me in some sort of informal meeting at a bar with him and his work people.

Hard to decide which is worse really :/

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Old 03-28-2009, 05:40 PM

My mother.. she's very nice, and a little bit wacky. She's a lot like me.. we enjoy the same movies, books, music, etc. So I guess it's more like I'm a lot like her... But my dad has almost no sense of humor, is easily offended and pretends to like sports and beer in front of people so they think he's some sort of man.. it's ridiculous.

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Old 03-29-2009, 06:09 PM

I get along with my mom way more. She knows how to give me space and shares more interests with me. I can joke with her and tell her things that I feel uncomfortable telling other people. She basically understands that I budget my time how I see fit, respects my wacky organizational methods, and gives me space when I need it.

I lost alot of respect for my dad when he cheated on my mom and then divorced her. :/ And he's not done a very good job earning it back. I love him as a father... but not as a person. I always feel like I'm walking on egg shells around him, like if I breathe wrong, he'll snap and I'll end up hiding in my room until it blows over. He promised us he'd take anger management classes, but... he never has. This combined with the fact he's condecesning and always making me feel worthless and stupid doesn't make it easy to get close to him.

So yeah. Definitely closer to my mom.

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Old 03-29-2009, 07:04 PM

I favor my mum more. Just for the fact that she is more laid back than my dad and not so strict. I have more of my dad's characteristics though. Guess it's one of the reasons why we don't get along that well.._.

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Old 03-31-2009, 12:41 AM

I feel bad but I have to say Mom. She works and she also does house work too and she is so much more nicer. I didn't even bother telling my dad I lost my Ipod but I told my mom and she let me get another one to replace the one I had so My dad wouldn't know...

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Old 04-01-2009, 12:47 AM

My mother was neglectful and emotionally abusive. Not all people take it seriously, but those who have been abused this way know how much it can mess you up. Sometimes even more than physical abuse in the long run. Of course I'm not saying that physical abuse isn't just as bad. She did some permanent damage to me and my little brother. I say permanent for me because there will always be a voice in the back of my mind telling me how worthless I am. Permanent for my brother because he has a few mental disabilities, including autism and a severe case of paranoid schizophrenia. She didn't cause these (of course) but she made him a lot worse than he would have been if he were nurtured and loved at a young age. Now he's a wreck, and there is little chance he will ever recover. On top of all of that, she won't let me see him. He's in a hospital and I can't see him without her permission. I live with my grandparents now, but she still calls me just to scream at me and tell me how worthless I am. I could easily get a restraining order with the recordings of some of those conversations. But that would cut me off from my brother, and I don't want that either.

My father is irresponsible. He has no job and will probably never get his drivers license. Why? because he owes child support. He owes a lot of child support. And because we live in NY, the state took away his license. NY state law. You owe child support, you don't get your license. Retarded law, I know. Lets hear it for counter productivity! :D So anyway, he's been a really bad drug addict all of his life. That's the main reason we're not living with him. I told him once, flat out, "you should care more about your kids than you care about cocaine." I think that was a low blow, but I don't feel bad about it. He's getting help now. He's doing the narcotics anonymous thing. He can't even drink coffee because of the caffeine in it. it will show up on the drug tests they give him constantly. He complains about it but I said "good, I'm sick of having a drug addict father."

So whats the difference between my mother and my father? My mother is vindictive. Everything she does, she does to hurt others. And she's done a hell of a lot of damage. My father? My years of living with him were the happiest part of my childhood. Both me and my brother felt like we were loved, and like we were worth something. It's a bad situation all around. My mother is evil. My father is an idiot. But overall I would have to say my father is definitely my favorite. No matter what happens I know that he will still love me. Every once in a while I'll stay up until about 2 in the morning talking to him. Talking about music or motorcycles or pit bulls (he shares my love for pit bulls).

Wow, I just spilled my guts. Oh well. Whatever.

so there you go. I favor my dad.

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#35
Old 04-01-2009, 01:28 AM

My dad is abusive, my mom is overprotective and emotional messed up because of the abuse so... My step-dad.. ^^

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Old 04-05-2009, 04:18 AM

My father is annoying, and abusive.
My mum also annoying, but I can tolerate her more than my Father.

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Old 04-05-2009, 08:23 PM

lol both of them are weird

ahh i guess i love them equally?

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Old 04-05-2009, 10:14 PM

I'm closer to my mom. I'm kinda like a clone of her.

Plus my dad is not supportive of everything I do :cry::stare:

He's always been emotionally abusive to both of us, but we are over it.

Hopefully we are leaving soon . . . n~n

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Old 04-05-2009, 11:39 PM

I love them both equally. c:

Even though my childhood with my mom wasn't exactly fabulous, I forgive her and we get along great now. She's easy to talk to and I go to her for a lot of advice.

My dad is seriously badass. He's all about making people laugh and being a dork. I don't know anyone that doesn't like my dad.

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Old 04-05-2009, 11:43 PM

My dad died when I was 3-years-old, and I don't really remember him much at all. So, I guess my mom wins by default. We're close, though. We haven't always been, especially during these common teen years where you think you know so much more than your parent. I realize how dumb I was now. My mom and I actually share a lot of the same tastes in shows, movies, music, that sort of thing. I feel weird if I go a day without talking to her or seeing her.

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Old 04-05-2009, 11:44 PM

Before their divorce I liked my father much more than my mother. After however, and since I've grown up a little, I see how much of a fool my father was. He was an alcoholic and like me has a temperament that makes him cling to anything that interests him and just sucks the life out of it. My mother, while she was and still remains the disciplinarian in my life, had a much harder time when I was younger and i see that now. I respect and honor her for the things she gave up to make me happy, and I'm tearing up right now just thinking about it. lol. My father is an idiot, and I'm still very angry with him for leaving us, even though we've taken strides in forgiving each other. My mother and I still have a hard time understanding each other, but I love her more than life itself. You trash talk my father I'll laugh and more than likely agree with you. You trash talk my mother however and you'd better be ready for slow, horrible and utterly painful death. My mum and I are like twins, and I'll never leave her side.

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Old 04-06-2009, 12:54 AM

Hmm, between my mom and dad, it's not that hard of a choice. My mom's psychotic, and while I lived with her, I was mentally and emotionally abused, not only by her, but by her boyfriends. As well, she tried to make me live the life that she wanted, and not let me figure out what I wanted to do. It doesn't help that I've not spoken with her since moving out after graduating high school, nearly six years ago.

My dad, well, I'm close to my dad, but not quite as close as when I was much younger. He's disappointed me a lot in my adult life, but there are times when I can still talk to him, even if not about more of the deep topics.

For the deeper topics, I turn to my step-mom, who is a great friend to me, as well as more like a mother to me for the better part of my life than my own bio-mother ever was. She's helped me to become a better person, and become more sure of myself as well, and no matter what I do, she's always here for me. Even if she doesn't like the choices I make, she'll let me know why, and what she'll do, but she won't make me do what she wants. She lets me make my own mistakes, though, at times I wish she wouldn't, because I can come to greatly regret making some of those mistakes.

So, out of the three, I definitely like my step-mom the most. <3

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#43
Old 04-06-2009, 01:41 AM

My parents are crazy right now.
Being 19 and still living at home will give you that impression about them.

I don't suppose I have a favourite. Both have faults and great attributes, and they're good for very different reasons. For that, I can't pick one over the other.

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Old 04-06-2009, 02:25 AM

My mother is the bitch from the west. She's verbally abuseive at times, throws things, has mood swings and fits, never admits she's wrong, treats strangers on the street better than her family, and has no matters at all.
But she's -my- mother. She's been there all my life, even when it was just her and me on her factory salary in a cheap, one floor, three room apartment. She's defended me from teachers who've bruised or harrassed me, taught me all the important things about life I need to know, and protected me.
She may have her bad moments, but that's okay, because she's still done more for me than anyone else in this world.
That's more than I can say from my father, whose very -name- is a mystery because my mother was raped and her steady boyfriend at the time wasn't willing to take a test when she found out she was pregnant.

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Old 04-06-2009, 12:04 PM



:angel:

My dad by a long shot. He the guy who taught me to walk, manner, and how to love. He may or have may not have done some bad things in his life, but the thing is I love him to much to ever stop loving him.



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My mother you ask? Well shes not nice really, yes she can buy me all the clothes in the world but I just dont like her enough to hug her, like I hug my dad.

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Old 04-16-2009, 09:12 PM

I'm closer to my mom but they're both really cool!

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Old 04-16-2009, 09:17 PM

My dad.
My mom and I don't seem eye to eye a lot.

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Old 04-16-2009, 09:36 PM

Definitely closer to my Mom than my Dad.
He and I have never really gotten along all that well, and him being an alcoholic definitely didn't help the situation.
Still love him, but he and I will never be 'buddy buddy'.

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Old 04-16-2009, 09:39 PM

My mother is amazing, hard to deal with sometimes, but still she is an angel. My dad is... dead beat really. My "adoptive" dad is the greatest though! X3

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Old 04-16-2009, 09:56 PM

My mom has the best sense of humor. And she laughs at herself alot. I think I love her more. XD

 


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