All right I have one more question... One of my characters has some green in her hair and I plan to keep it that (plus the fact that I don't have photoshop.) My original plan is to make her connected to the element of air via a bird that is her symbol. She'd be more connected to air than to earth, but I want to get your opinion first.

Ooh, new idea. What if mixed elementals were allowed?

Like your characters mother could have been an air elemental, where he father was earth. So she's bound to both elements, but her heart leans towards the freedom of the air/sky, and she lives somewhat vicariously through her bird?

Heart;;
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Go right ahead.


Pho;;
To prevent overly powerful chars, not saying you guys are like that; when i normally do a rp and a child has two different parents with different elements. That child gets one and blessed with the other element.

ex: Say Ebony - Her mother a water master and father air. She is a water master but was blessed by air, cant control it but she won't die by falling or drowning..
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Get what mean?

But most elemental masters tend to hook up with others of the same element.

Oh that makes sense. Like if she were to fall off a cliff, then air would keep her from smashing into the ground, right?

That's true I suppose, but you can't help who you fall in love with. Like my hubby and I xD He should be a dwarf and I should be an Elf XD That's exactly how our personalities are lol. Or him a werewolf and I a vampire lmao.

lol..
I know..
But people tend to fall in love with those they hang around with more then on a spur. Now, I'm not saying it doesn't happen.
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my ex-not-so-ex and I are complete opposites.
>.<'
but i love him.


But yeah.
If a water master falls off a cliff and is blessed by air, then they won't fall to their doom and die, it would be a hard landing but not hard enough for death.
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Water - No drowning, drought or too much rain.
Earth - Good crops, great cooks won't die because of being smothered/rock falls/mud slides (though that once includes water)
Air- They won't fall to their doom, natural flyers
Fire - They can't burn to death, always warm etc...

Woo ^^ For my hubby and I, we were friends for a long time, but we had a mutual attraction from the start. But the only reason why I didn't ask him out, was because my best friend at the time was deeply crushing on him. So I ignored the feelings for like, 4 years. Then one day, he just gave me a hug that was just moments longer than all of his other hugs, and two weeks later, I got up the courage to tell him I liked him, and he didn't say anything at first, but sent me an email the next day saying that he liked me too, but he was just too surprised that someone like me would have a crush on him. We decided to try a week long trial run kind of thing...two days later he kissed me XD And now, almost 3 years later, we have a beautiful 7 month old daughter :) Who is the best baby on the planet. But I'm only a little bit biased on that XD ;)

Awww...
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I love kids, though I am thankful I hit the 21 mark without one. But when I see these 14-15 year olds come threw my store with two kids I just flinch.
I couldn't imagine raising a kid while I was still in school..
-sigh-
But now I want a baby..
I also want a lot of things out of life, and won't be able to support a child financially so yeah...

But anyways..
We are complete opposites and he has a horrid temper, and over controlling, yada yada ya...
lol.
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Lol well my hubby and I did it the more socially appropriate way XD Married THEN a baby xD

Yeah, I don't think I could have done it when I was 14 or 15...but I wasn't "active" back then, so I didn't have any real worry about that lol. It's amazing in how short a time your idea of kids can change. I remember being wholeheartedly AGAINST having any kids of my own. I hated kids. Especially the terror devil children I babysat, and I didn't want one of my own xD

But now having my little girl, it's hard imaging life without her there.


--ANYway...--

Is that why he's the ex-not-so-ex boyfriend? You really could do better than that it sounds like, and you deserve much better than that. I'm sure he's got his good points though...otherwise I'm sure you wouldn't still be with him XD

I wasn't 'active' back then either, honestly I wasn't till a month before my 18th birthday. I just wonder why would you at that age, I thought it was stupid even then. I grew up in a open house so anything I did I didn't get in too much trouble, but I didn't abuse it.
Ya know?

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I do love him with my heart, but that could also be because he was my first for everything a couple could do. And now I'm getting over worked trying to make money and what not, but it feels like he isn't trying to help or meet my emotional needs.
-is sadly a emotional person-
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While he is more detached from his emotions.

We don't fight let alone argue. No cuddling. no nothing...
>.<
I feel more like his best friend when we were dateing.
And now that I took him up on his offer for a break, we are starting to act more like a couple again.
But I think I hit him with reality cause I was asked out on a date Sunday and he so totally went into jealousy mode. Cleaned the house, cooked my favorite dish and watched one of m favorite movies! Which NEVER happens unless I some how trick him.
>.<
But I shouldn't have to trick him into getting some of the things I want. He should try to please me once in a blue moon at least..
-sigh-

Wow, sadly, I can relate to everything you're going through. My hubby is a bit like that, he's got a fiery anger, but it usually shows through when he's throwing knives at a wall he built behind our house.

And you shouldn't need to trick him...Although maybe you could use that excuse on him more often. >.>


I'm not sure what an open house is...could you elaborate?

And for us, she was a surprise. We had only been married for a little while, and I was on the pill when we got pregnant. So, while she wasn't unwelcome, since we both wanted kids later on...it was a shock.

Are there any other details that you could tell me about the elements that I would need to know. I want to go in a bit prepared so I don't do something incredibly stupid. Such as if a water person is near water can they do anything with it? Same for with fire.

Well, yeah, that's the point of being an elemental. People blessed with an element, can "bend" that element.

EX: A water elemental is around even something as simple as a glass of water, they can take that water and make it do anything. Make shapes in the air, or put out a fire. Most people have varying degrees of elemental prowess, but I don't know if you guys are playing that way or not xD

Well we hooked back up to my understanding..
Finally had a argument to where it wasn't one sided and everything just went out.
We both said we felt like we were playing each others parents.
XPXD
lol

Babies are so cute.
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Heart;;

Umm...

Water as a example again.
lol

It is more like logical and common sense then anything..

um...

Like, ok. A earth master isn't going to be in a overly populated and polluted town. Water masters tend to live by vast open waters or fast flowing streams.

Most Masters don't stray far from their element.
They do need their element some what near them, but for the most part they can do anything. Seeing as it is four natural elements and they are everywhere, though fire is a bit tricky for me.

If you notice water and earth tend to relate and fire and air.
-looks for a link about the elements-

Science point of view;;

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Water;;

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Air;;

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Exactly. XD

So we are giving it one more shot.
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Hopefully we get some answers..

-wants a baby-
@[email protected]

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Well I wish you all the luck in the world, but I'd like to see you blissfully happy. And I'm sure he's a great guy and all, but he just doesn't sound like he deserves you. Pardon me for saying. >.<

But, babies are great! At least, mines perfect. XD

Lol..

People have their ups and downs..
Our issues were mainly because I didn't really speak about what I hated and disliked and all that jazz..
u.u
I just hold it all in because I think it is all silly stuff and what not.
-shrug-
I donno..
-sigh-

Maybe I should talk to him about having a baby?
-thinks-
But we don't really have the money to take care of a child.
>.<'''
-dies-

I would suggest, knowing what I do about being a mom and married, that you tell him everything that you've holed up. Because everything that bugs you now, will be magnified hundred fold. If you think I'm joking, I'm really not. The stress of having a baby is huge, even if you have babysat kids before, it's entirely different.

You will never be able to clock out like you do with a job. The babe will be there 24/7, and you can't turn off your mothering. It's very stressful, even with my baby who slept through the night at two months, hardly noticed teething, and is an all around great girl. I am truly truly blessed to have such a great baby, but my cousin didn't far so well. Her son is 2, nearing 3, and is just now sleeping the whole night through. He is very stubborn, and destructive, and is the typical terror of a two year old. But he has been this way since he was born.

I'm not trying to tell you not to have kids, or to scare you into not having them. I'm just telling you the reality of parenthood. I wish people would have warned me back when I was pregnant about how tired I would be all the time, and how sore I would be. I had visions of me walking out of the hospital, back in my old clothes a few days later, and everything being bliss. Well, I was back in my old clothes three months later, which is fantastic. But, I did not walk out of the hospital. I had a "normal" delivery, and I was so sore and in so much pain for most of the first six weeks.

If there is ANYTHING that bugs you about him (not picking up clothes, things he says, the WAY he says things) you should straighten them out now, before you have any kids. I would just hate to see you end up like my cousin *the one with the son*. She's single now because her boyfriend and her fought so terribly, that once it came to physical blows and she ended up in the hospital. Keep in mind, this was when she was little over 4 months pregnant. She almost lost the baby. Now, he's finally out of prison (he has been in there for a year and a half for telling the police officer who arrested him for being drunk in public that he would kill him and his whole family. He was HEAVILY intoxicated), and shes considering going back to him, only because he is her sons father.

And if you think that a baby will keep your guy around, I'm sorry, but it won't. I've had that happen in my own family as well.

I know I haven't known you for very long, and I don't know your situation or your guy, but I like you a lot, and am very protective of those I deem worthy of my trust. I think you have too much talent and I would hate to see your dreams shattered because you had a baby with the man you love, and he leaves you when the drama of parenthood get tough. And I would also hate to see your baby live in that broken family, even though I have a feeling you would be a terrific mother to any future kids you will have.

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I appreciate your trust and protection. And your poor cousin.

We truly have a odd and healthy-not-so-healthy relationship. I don't want a kid to keep him around, I want a baby because i just have the erg to hold something small in my arms and to protect it with my life, care for it and all those things. I'm a very nurturing person and will listen to someone else problems over telling mine. Unless it is over the computer, and then my fingers just go crazy. lol.

I've pretty much had a child already, the only thing is was that i wasn't the one who gave birth. I took care of my sister sister once my mother was able to go back to work. I raised her taught her everything I could being the young older sister. with the losses there is so many gains.

I'm not going to purposely have a child till I know it is time, I just get so envious to see these really young mothers and they are just plain mean to their children. I've always been the motherly type, and I understand how hard it is to take care of babies but i feel rewarded when they smile at me. It is so hard to explain..
lol..

I'm pretty much the stereotypical cancer, minus the cooking skills.
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Love the new avie by the way!

I know what you mean. It doesn't seem fair that the people who so desperately want children of their own can't have them, while fourteen year olds that know nothing and treat their children horribly have several. I'm not trying to belittle those kids who have kids, but it's really hard to see it happen.

And I understand, I'm a sterotypical Picses. To the T xD

And it such a reward when they smile. I know exactly what you mean. And when they giggle...doesn't it just make your heart melt? Speaking of giggling babies...There goes mine! XD

I know..
I feel bad for the children in a way because they will more then likly take after their parents. After all those young years are the molding years of their lives, after that they learn from their own experiences.

They do, I just get all giddy inside and all. I know how to be firm and simple but still caring. Hell, I cry if I feel I snapped at my little sister.

I donno, I just want one. Someone who will depend on me. I mean my boyfriend tries to to a extent, but not like a child. It is just different, but when he is sick I treat him like a child. lol. I just want what I give him in return.

I'm a typical Cancer and he is a typical Capricorn if that explains anything..
lol.

And this does sum up our relationship..

Cancer & Capricorn

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lol

Tell me how these characters are. I want to know what you think before I finalize it.

Journal

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I like them..

Though, is Simon a fire master - assuming. Because my boyfriends fire mage (Fire Master) is names Pysmon too..
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Just thought it was funny, you can keep the name if you life.
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I need to finish up on my water char, I think I'ma name him Roue.
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LMFAO.

Sorry, but the name Roue is the same name as my rooster XD I thought that was hilarious. Great minds think alike? xD

Love the new avi btw. You need a crown or something xD

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Thats what I said about Hearts Simon, Fire master. Cause my boyfriends is named the same just spelled Psymon.

I watched Chocolate with Johnny Depp and his char's name was Roue.
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-likes french and Irish names-
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Thankies..

I don't have anything else..
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Just wish I had the gold I do on gaia.
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lol