insulting you? how so?

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

insulting you? how so?

Even though, I beg him not to go into details, about how someone says they want to sex me, he continues to. And I can't always tell if when he says "do you have a dick?" if it is supposed to be an insult, it doesn't sound like it would mean anything nice, though. And i think that the idiom "suck my dick" (yeah, that's what he said to me) is supposed to be an insult. He was also telling me to shut up, when he heard me crying, even though it's his fault cause, I would not get so paranoid about what some other kids were doing to scare me if he never harmed me the ways he has done in the past.

1) the "do you have a dick?" part would USUALLY mean that the way he thinks you act makes you look like a guy or something, or that you're not very feminine.

2) the "suck my dick" part IS usually used as an insult, and if it isn't.....yea....it's probably just an insult one way or another.

3) the part where he tell you to shut up when he sees you crying is a VERY normal thing (believe it or not) because MOST people get annoyed when they hear ANYONE cry...so...yea...don't cry around him, or else you'll piss him off.

Originally Posted by LaVida

1) the "do you have a dick?" part would USUALLY mean that the way he thinks you act makes you look like a guy or something, or that you're not very feminine.

2) the "suck my dick" part IS usually used as an insult, and if it isn't.....yea....it's probably just an insult one way or another.

3) the part where he tell you to shut up when he sees you crying is a VERY normal thing (believe it or not) because MOST people get annoyed when they hear ANYONE cry...so...yea...don't cry around him, or else you'll piss him off.

Oh, so that's what he might have been implying. Oh, and hopefully I'll know better than to sit at the back of the bus, cause the back of the bus, is where some of the kids who love upsetting me sit. Sometimes he is on my bus, and even when he is seats away from me I can hear him, cause he talks so loud.

oh i see. man, you should really get some evidence against this jerk so he'll be forced to back off! nobody should be treated this way...do the tape recording thing. record his voice saying bad things to you, you'll have proof and you can get his ass in jail.

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

oh i see. man, you should really get some evidence against this jerk so he'll be forced to back off! nobody should be treated this way...do the tape recording thing. record his voice saying bad things to you, you'll have proof and you can get his ass in jail.

There are reasons to why I avoid showing the tapes to authorities of him saying stuff that is wrong, but not illegal. And, I do not have proof of what he did yet.

i read your update on the first post, and went to that link. it stated they used to call this psychopathic personality. are you saying he's a psychopath in a literal sense? *shudder* that is just...blech!
well now it sort of makes sense that hes not even guilty...it does not excuse what hes done at all, but it makes more sense.
anyhow...
if you feel you need evidence, keep on trying the recording thing until you get hardcore evidence. but, i dont think anybody will think youre lying when you say he has sexually abused you. seriously, who would make that up?

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

i read your update on the first post, and went to that link. it stated they used to call this psychopathic personality. are you saying he's a psychopath in a literal sense? *shudder* that is just...blech!
well now it sort of makes sense that hes not even guilty...it does not excuse what hes done at all, but it makes more sense.
anyhow...
if you feel you need evidence, keep on trying the recording thing until you get hardcore evidence. but, i dont think anybody will think youre lying when you say he has sexually abused you. seriously, who would make that up?

I have told someone about him rapeing me and then she told some other people the people that know I said that are not the authority, and one of the people I know texts using the letters "lol" about the situation, and says she does not believe me. I think her other ex-friend says she does not believe me about him rapeing me is for the purpose of the enjoyment she gets from being a bitch. I think some people find it difficult to believe cause he did some of it to me in elementary school, and the media makes it seem like stuff like that occurs rarely in elementary school, I have known him for ages. And, yes, I mean it in literal sense when I type in that he is sociopathic. If he is not sociopathic he must have a conduct disorder, I think he is a sociopath, though.

The only way to stay out of his murdering hand is to tell the police. There is no other way, They will believe you. They have too. It is the police for crying out loud! Dx Though I do hope he doesn't bother you anymore. x3 I mean, once you tell the police he is gone for good. I mean, like gone for good-good. xD

Originally Posted by lightkanna

The only way to stay out of his murdering hand is to tell the police. There is no other way, They will believe you. They have too. It is the police for crying out loud! Dx Though I do hope he doesn't bother you anymore. x3 I mean, once you tell the police he is gone for good. I mean, like gone for good-good. xD

If_I_do_end_up_reporting what he did to me, though. I want to at least report everything he has done to me, because even though he has done horrible things to me, I still want him to get his disorder (or maybe disorders) treated, and once he get's treatment maybe he won't be so dangerous. The problem is though long term blackingout about traumas is not good. And I have blackedout so first If i actually do end up reporting the abuse I would like to tell a proffessional within the medical field about the situation, cause the person with a job within the medical field would most likely know how possible it is, cause the blackouts are a symptom of PTSD and MIGHT be a symptom of bipolar disorder. The cops might not know that and then they won't do anything about him. I am willing to get a test done by a psychogalvanometer to prove that he has caused some of my mental conditions and worsened my mental conditions, if my parets do not believe me though, or think I am incorrect they won't even bother. ((I_know_from_experience_cause_sometimes_my_parent s_believe_me)) And, to even be able to go to the therapist at my school, I need my parents signature, I know that's how it_is_for_the_mental_health_proffessional.

they dont know how to treat his disorder, though...the problem is, they aperantly dont want to be fixed (yes i read the whole sociopath article) cuz they dont think they are doing anything so wrong. they are dead wrong, but its true. but trying to get him fixed is a good idea...and tell somebody! tell the authorities, get his ass in jail! (or at the very least, a restraining order)

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

they dont know how to treat his disorder, though...the problem is, they aperantly dont want to be fixed (yes i read the whole sociopath article) cuz they dont think they are doing anything so wrong. they are dead wrong, but its true. but trying to get him fixed is a good idea...and tell somebody! tell the authorities, get his ass in jail! (or at the very least, a restraining order)

There IS treatment for his disorder. And if my mom would get a scanning of my brain done, then maybe on the scan the blackouts would show up, and maybe the scan would have the ability to reveal what caused and worsened my disorders. Because brain scans CAN do that, they MIGHT not always be accurate though. Oh, and I need to remember the traumas cause if I don't finally face the memories I'll need to face it in a much more difficult way, blackingout IS mentally unhealthy, and sometimes dissociative identity disorders, and illnesses that include symptoms of that would have never of been caused if the memory was NOT blackedout for too long.

then whats the treatment for his disorder? all i saw was therapy or something, and they just lie their way through it.

maybe you could convince her for the brain scan then? be persistent.

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

then whats the treatment for his disorder? all i saw was therapy or something, and they just lie their way through it.

maybe you could convince her for the brain scan then? be persistent.

Well, I know that there are meds for it.
And it is HIS decision weather he lies or not. Hopefully he would be truthful, though. There might also be other treatments for it.

Well sweety if what your saying is true then go to the police.
Have you been tested for any of these conditions? If you haven't been tested then you don't know if thats what is really happening to you.
Anyway, if this man is what you say he is tell the police, but if your maybe embellishing the story a little thats an awful thing to say.
I hope that it gets sorted out soon.

Why are people saying to go to the police without proper evidence? ._. Sure, some police officers would believe you and everything, but even THEY can't do anything without evidence. Good thing is, if he really is a psychopath, then I doubt you'll be able to put him in jail. The best they would do is put him in a medical institution. About the lieing part... he can't properly lie unless if he's SUPER smart....even regular people that get stuck in medical facilities can't get out because the 'doctors' won't let them. The doctors will think the patients are lieing even when they aren't and if the patient has "Anger Issues" ummmmm...let's just say they'd better feel comfy in their cell. If he ever gets into one of those medical facility thingies....heh.....he's more or less screwed....

btw, if YOU can get into a medical facility, then you would be COMPLETELY protected (it works both ways). But, just as a warning, once you get in...it's VERY difficult to get out....

Originally Posted by LaVida

Why are people saying to go to the police without proper evidence? ._. Sure, some police officers would believe you and everything, but even THEY can't do anything without evidence. Good thing is, if he really is a psychopath, then I doubt you'll be able to put him in jail. The best they would do is put him in a medical institution. About the lieing part... he can't properly lie unless if he's SUPER smart....even regular people that get stuck in medical facilities can't get out because the 'doctors' won't let them. The doctors will think the patients are lieing even when they aren't and if the patient has "Anger Issues" ummmmm...let's just say they'd better feel comfy in their cell. If he ever gets into one of those medical facility thingies....heh.....he's more or less screwed....

btw, if YOU can get into a medical facility, then you would be COMPLETELY protected (it works both ways). But, just as a warning, once you get in...it's VERY difficult to get out....

Well, it is good if they'll be able to realize when he lies, and knows to keep in mind what he is saying has a chance of being a lie.

Originally Posted by Screams-Of-Death

Well, I know that there are meds for it.
And it is HIS decision weather he lies or not. Hopefully he would be truthful, though. There might also be other treatments for it.

yes, but think about it. what are the chances of him telling the truth? chances are he'd lie just to get the hell out of there. cuz it sounded like they dont see anything wrong, so they dont want to be fixed. but they know they wont get let out until a magor "break through", so... as for medication, does it actually work? cuz i dunno...

Even if he says that he's cured and everything, if he has "anger problems" (any normal person will get pissed at the doctors soooo badly XD) then he wouldn't be able to get out very easy.... a psychopath MUST get pissed eventually at the doctors, right? and then his stay would more or less become 'life-long'.

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

yes, but think about it. what are the chances of him telling the truth? chances are he'd lie just to get the hell out of there. cuz it sounded like they dont see anything wrong, so they dont want to be fixed. but they know they wont get let out until a magor "break through", so... as for medication, does it actually work? cuz i dunno...

Well, he has said that there IS something wrong with him.


@ LaVida, if he get's mad at the doctors he'll probably beat them.

@ Shazza, I have never gone to an actual proffessional to get tested for the conditions I said I thought I had within this thread.

he admitted it? well, thats more than i expected. did you ask him or something?

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

he admitted it? well, thats more than i expected. did you ask him or something?

No, I did not ask about his mental state.

then how did you get to that topic? surely thats not something he would just bring up on his own..?

oh my, you didn't know that that's what the guards in the medical institutions are for? there's also these little drug needles too....

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

then how did you get to that topic? surely thats not something he would just bring up on his own..?

He made some remark regarding his mental illness, that day he kept disrupting the class he said he could not help it due to mental illness. And a time during art class this "It's raining tonight so i'm nice and calm and won't use drugs and go crazy on you tomorrow", and that was such a long time ago i don't remember how that was brought up. I don't even remember if that was his exact words.