Originally Posted by Screams-Of-Death

If I tell, it might make him start traumatizing me again, though, or when he does traumatize me again, traumatize me in a more crueler way he would traumatize me if I did not tell an authority what he has done.

Then live in fear. Let him traumatize you. Well, that is already what you are doing instead of making a stand against it.

Originally Posted by Bartuc

Then live in fear. Let him traumatize you. Well, that is already what you are doing instead of making a stand against it.

What do you mean by "let him traumatize you"? Plus, I would end up feeling far much more miserable if he traumatizes me again. He might take his anger I make him feel if I tell on him by traumatizing someone else, or me and someone else.

What do you mean by "let him traumatize you"? Plus, I would end up feeling far much more miserable if he traumatizes me again. He might take his anger I make him feel if I tell on him by traumatizing someone else, or me and someone else.

You've been mistreated in the past and may be mistreated in the future, but you're more willing to lay down and let it happen rather than fight back and try to escape?
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I don't know what to say. If you were one of my friends I would have slapped you very, very hard. What you're doing is so much more stupid than if you actually went out and did anything to try and rid yourself of this scumbag in total. I've been stalked, sexually harassed, etc. multiple times, and I couldn't dream of having let it slide for the fear that it may possibly endanger someone else.

You're being stupid, and you can either get off your butt and stop being stupid or go ahead and risk your life. If you don't end it this will never stop. What if you want to settle down with a family? Have children? Or even just move out of the area? You think he's going to let you?

If you don't fight it, you're never, ever, ever, ever going to escape. There are times when all of us have to depend on only ourselves, and they're the hardest times of all, but you have to get out now or your entire life will be haunted by this.

Honestly? I would encourage you to shoot the man more than I would for you to let him hurt you. The last thing I want is someone as kind and selfless (albeit frustrating due to your inability to get the nerve to seek help) as you to get killed because of someone like him.

Originally Posted by Bleak Banter

You've been mistreated in the past and may be mistreated in the future, but you're more willing to lay down and let it happen rather than fight back and try to escape?
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I don't know what to say. If you were one of my friends I would have slapped you very, very hard. What you're doing is so much more stupid than if you actually went out and did anything to try and rid yourself of this scumbag in total. I've been stalked, sexually harassed, etc. multiple times, and I couldn't dream of having let it slide for the fear that it may possibly endanger someone else.

You're being stupid, and you can either get off your butt and stop being stupid or go ahead and risk your life. If you don't end it this will never stop. What if you want to settle down with a family? Have children? Or even just move out of the area? You think he's going to let you?

If you don't fight it, you're never, ever, ever, ever going to escape. There are times when all of us have to depend on only ourselves, and they're the hardest times of all, but you have to get out now or your entire life will be haunted by this.

Honestly? I would encourage you to shoot the man more than I would for you to let him hurt you. The last thing I want is someone as kind and selfless (albeit frustrating due to your inability to get the nerve to seek help) as you to get killed because of someone like him.

I don't know what to do though, I am so confused about what I should do, and about what I shouldn't do.

I agree with Bleak. What bleak is saying is what you need to do to get out. There is no other way around it. Unless you just lay there and take it. Let him torture/harass you.

Tell the principle. Tell the counselors. Tell the police. Hell, tell your TEACHERS. You need to step up and take an action towards it. Or sit down and let him walk all over you while you wallow in fear. There is NO OTHER OPTION.

yes, exactly! you do realise, if you dont tell somebody, if you let him traumatize you, you do realise, hes going to keep on doing it?!

go and tell somebody, anybody, who can help you out! who can tell the authorities! hell, at the very least tell your god-damn parents! they deserve to know this, and if they dont believe you, that is horrible! who would lie about that? who in the world wouldnt believe their own daughter about this? i dont think anyone wouldnt believe you, so you should tell somebody...

Originally Posted by TheNavyBlueMoon

yes, exactly! you do realise, if you dont tell somebody, if you let him traumatize you, you do realise, hes going to keep on doing it?!

go and tell somebody, anybody, who can help you out! who can tell the authorities! hell, at the very least tell your god-damn parents! they deserve to know this, and if they dont believe you, that is horrible! who would lie about that? who in the world wouldnt believe their own daughter about this? i dont think anyone wouldnt believe you, so you should tell somebody...

Telling on him, might provoke him to traumatize me again or to traumatize someone else, and to traumatize me worse than he would have If I did not tell. And if that happens I am better off not telling until I have proof.

Wow people, so pushy ._. be nicer to her. Or at least tell her that in a nicer grammar manner ._.

So....since you want proof...how's that going?....

Originally Posted by LaVida

Wow people, so pushy ._. be nicer to her. Or at least tell her that in a nicer grammar manner ._.

So....since you want proof...how's that going?....

I do not have proof yet.

I am locking this thread. This thread is going round and round in circles. The author has been given advice from everyone. There is nothing more that can be said without creating a vicious cycle of repeated posts. As this thread is now on page 8 and is going round and round. There is no point in keeping it open any longer.

If you wish to discuss this. You are more than welcome to PM me.