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Old 09-20-2009, 03:09 AM

Ok so theres this guy that I like and he is a really great guy and he took me out on a date and we went to the arcade and it was all great... Yay.

Then theres this other guy who I knew and liked like two years ago and he wants to take me to a movie this weekend.

They are both really really great guys and they both live far away and I will seldom see either of them. It's crazy. And I don't know what to do.

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Old 09-20-2009, 04:21 AM

Well, if you're willing to have a long-distance relationship, then try it. :]

I can't tell you which one you should try it out with, only you can figure it out. :]

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Old 09-20-2009, 07:11 PM

First, long distance relationships are tough. I just ended one because I never saw my guy and it was driving me crazy. So make sure you really like one of these guys before you commit to a relationship with him.

Second, you're going to have to decide which of them you like more. I can't tell you which one that is, I don't know them, so that's something you have to figure out for yourself.

No matter what you go with, I wish you the best of luck!

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Old 09-20-2009, 11:26 PM

For me, it would really depend on how far away is "really far away". Because if its a hassle to go out that far to see either of them on a regular basis, you should probably find out which of the two you like better and put your efforts towards them. And that would most likely be best even if they lived closer. You don't want either of the boys thinking you're just two-timing them.

If you really like them both, then you'll give them that respect.

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Old 09-21-2009, 04:10 PM

i suggest moving if possible, and im sorry to say this but if your going to date one of them, your gunna have to leave on of them. thats a terrible posistion. im sorry :(

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Old 09-22-2009, 05:48 AM

yeah, having a few thrilling flings here and there doesn't sound too bad. But you have to be really careful with that. If you play with fire, you'll get burned. You shouldn't think about starting a relationship with a guy you like as easily as that. You should start a relationship with someone you care about as he cares about you. Well, I'm not trying to sound like an old lady but you should really think about what you want. Yes, asking for other people's advice might sound useful but, in the end, it's you who will have to make the decision. And there's only you, to blame for whatever consequences that decision might result to. I wish you goodluck on that.
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Old 09-22-2009, 05:31 PM

Go on a date with both and see what happens.

It isn't like you're tied down to one or the other.

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Old 09-22-2009, 10:10 PM

Well, from my experiences, long distance relationships are hard on both sides, very hard, and the only time I'd ever consider one again is if it were for a very short amount of time. If you can ever avoid it, avoid it, but as both options are "really far away" then there's not much you can do about that. As to which guy, you have to ask yourself, do you still care for the one, after all this time, or is it just because you used to that you're considering it?

Relationship advice can be a hard topic because mostly, it like flying through a cloud. One direction can bring you to safety, or run you into a storm. But picking a good direction while inside a cloud can be harder than the storm itself. So the best advice I can give you right now, is just don't think too much about it. Test the waters on both ends first. You've had a first date with only one of them so far, so try the other maybe.

I'm probably rambling so I'll stop now.

Good luck!

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Old 09-23-2009, 08:14 PM

I agree with doom. The only way to determine what to do is to see who your more interested in, which means spending some time with each of them, as for the long distance, sometimes its hard to deal with, I hope at least one of them drives!

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Old 09-24-2009, 08:33 PM

You have to remember, Dating is Dating. Not really a relationship. Go out with both of then, but be sure to tell them you are seeing other people, and you are having a hard time. Springing things on guys like that will probably make them mad at first, but if he is mature and are willing to listen to you, the you have your match. Update us on how things go. I kinda want to know xD

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Old 09-30-2009, 02:20 AM

Don't be greedy, choose one and don't just ditch one guy bc the other liked you 2 years ago, that's just sad. or whatever, Pick ONE that you like best.

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Old 10-01-2009, 07:26 AM

Go out as friends and see how it goes. Just make sure the guy knows that.

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Old 10-01-2009, 08:59 AM

Just a small thing. I think you shouldn't like a guy just because he likes you. I know you liked the second guy before, but did you ever think about him until he came into your life again?

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Old 10-07-2009, 10:32 PM

You don't need to pick anybody yet, it's just dating. May I ask how old you are?

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Old 10-09-2009, 09:25 PM

you're not actually going out with either of them right? so no big deal just hang out with them. maybe get to know them better. then if you want, you can choose one to go out with, but long distance relationships can be really tough so be careful.

 


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