I've had sex. Though it was at 11 1/2. Not my fault, I was raped then. That went on till 15 almost 16. After me and my mom got out of my 'fathers' house(Yah, he's the sicko who did it) I finally opened up to my other family members about what he did. But after that, I met my fiancee in '06, and well, me and him got a son, so yah. yall do the math, lol.

Originally Posted by Royal Knight

I've had sex. Though it was at 11 1/2. Not my fault, I was raped then. That went on till 15 almost 16. After me and my mom got out of my 'fathers' house(Yah, he's the sicko who did it) I finally opened up to my other family members about what he did. But after that, I met my fiancee in '06, and well, me and him got a son, so yah. yall do the math, lol.

Glad you found your happiness in the end :hug: :heart:

Yeah. same here. I know some people will say that they'd love to go back in time to never let it happen. But if I had never met my 'father' I wouldn't have my fiancee who's doing dishes, and my 3 year old son.

Sex is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Before I had sex for the first time I was uptight and immature.
Now, I'm a lot more laid back and a freethinker.
I don't think it has this effect on everyone, but it does change you.

On the other hand I don't think I was quite ready for sex and the impact it had on my body.
I found out that I was allergic to spermicide.

I have had a lot of sex in my day. I lost my virginity when I was 15, and I'm 24 now. Wow I've been fucking for almost 10 years now. Mmm sex

Originally Posted by Dejection

I have had a lot of sex in my day. I lost my virginity when I was 15, and I'm 24 now. Wow I've been fucking for almost 10 years now. Mmm sex

Oh wow that made me giggle. I've been having sex for about 3 or 4 years now. I was 19 when I lost my v card.

Newp, don't really ever want to either. /: My mind doesn't work like your average 17-year-old, sex is still icky. :>

I'm still in my cooties phase. PASS. :D

nope, not even been on anything I would call a date. late twenties. I just don't care it's really not a priority to me. I'll find someone when I find them and if I want to do it , then fine. I don't really care much for the idea of having kids so I feel no rush to find someone. The way I see it I need to be friends with someone before I would even consider dating them let alone anything more. Maybe it makes me weird, but I find amongst friends that it seems to be a generation thing. There are a lot of people who just don't raise it as being that important.

No I haven't. My fiancee, who is away a lot, and I are waiting till we get married in July. :)

I haven't had it yet. But i'm not sure if I'm waiting. I just haven't been with anybody yet, because i'm not allowed, but when I go to university, i'm hoping to change that...about being in a relationship xDD
But if I wanted to lose it, I think i'd have to know them very well first :3

Wow, what an awkward poll O.o

I have and I have to say I like it a lot. Most of all now that I have someone I love deeply and trust, its never been better. I'm 24 and I lost my Vcard at 18 I wanted to wait till I was an "adult" and I only made the choice after some serious thought.

To all you youngins take your time and dont rush things. Its best to wait till your older and understand all the outcomes of your choice. Plus Protection duh! lol

Lost it to my first and only ex girlfriend. and it's fun, it is very enjoyable, but not something to be tossed around lightly, save it for someone you love/marriage. you'll be grateful you did rather than just through yourself away easily.

I'm twenty, but I had sex when I was nineteen. I decided to wait until after high school before having sex, and I must say that I'm glad I waited. I remember feeling extremely nervous. Personally, I don't think anybody should be having sex in high school. Oral sex doesn't bother me as much, but we should all wait until we're mature adults before making such an important decision. Your virginity is taken away only once, so make sure it's with somebody special.
I've had sex many times with my boyfriend, but it still hurts for me. [Not as badly as my first time, though.] When you guys do have sex, make sure to be fully lubricated. The penis will slide in easier, and tone down the pain. Make sure to also have a towel underneath the girl in case. Some girls don't bleed or experience a lot of pain, so kudos to them!

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Originally Posted by Hopelessly In Love 88

No I haven't. My fiancee, who is away a lot, and I are waiting till we get married in July. :)

That's so sweet! Congratulations!

@Hopelessly In Love 88: That's so sweet!! You rarely see that these days.

My boyfriend and I don't have time to "do it", so we haven't yet. I'd love to wait until I'm married, but a part of me really wants to get it over with, y'know? Three years is such a long time to be with someone.. I really think he's the one.

ahhhhhhhhhhhh!! its severely painful! but but! when i lose mine... well, its fine, but painful. and to my betsie... T_T

it's painful the first time, and only for a short while afterward. if it's still painful after that then either there's something wrong with your system or your guys not doing a good job.

I'm 21 and a virgin, the only sad part is when some people met me they say really mean things such as. Your sister need to go eat some ____. =3='''

But, i put their comments aside and patiently wait for someone that is worth the wait.

I'm not planning on getting married so I have my fun. I have all types of my fun. ;) But seriously saying, I think people shouldn't act all high and mighty if they're a virgin. Either way, virgin or not, we're all human and equal. :D

not at all
but i hope to and soon

hmmm lets see, the first time i did was when i was sixteen and it was with this awful awful guy! Now at the time i felt okay with giving him my virginity but---as soon as he got it he cheated on me and dropped me like a rock >.> so.....i sustained form that until i met a real man with a respectable set of morals. Now ill be 20 this year and i have been with my present honee for about 3 years. We're planning to get married also :) so i feel completely comfortable with him and comfortable about my choice. The biggest lesson i took from it was however was that you should really know the type of person it is that your considering "being" with, because theres a big portion of swingers out there and it can hurt you emotionally if you werent ready. So when your ready then i say go for it :)

I'm fourteen, and a proud virgin. Not so proud I've never admited my love for a boy, or kissed one, but whatever.

I actually plan on waiting, which is sometimes very difficult. I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, but it's alright. I do have raging hormones, but I use all of that energy into erotic writing! :D (Which is wonderful, by the way.) Some of my relationships haven't lasted long, so that's why I decided to wait.

I've had sex before.

I must say I regret giving it up so soon, but, it happened and I can't turn back time, and at least me and said guy are still on speaking terms. I would probably be a lot more broken up about it if we weren't. :lol:

I do consider it something special to a point like I'd only have sex with someone I really like, never someone I barely know (and being a model, that offer comes up a LOT), but sex is fun and as long as you're using protection I don't see why not.