I went through a breakup about a week ago and a couple of nights ago, a close guy friend did something that should have hurt me far more than it did. I took a med for my anxiety and the first day on this med, I need to be supervised for the first 24 hours. I told the close guy friend aboutit and he said I could come to his house and I trusted him bc I've always stayed over there and nothing ever happened. Well, the medicine kicked my ass and caused me to pass out basically. He woke me up, my pants were down and I know "something happened" if you get what I mean. I was shocked. But only for a bit. I didn't feel angry or hurt or anything. It's like it should've hurt me. That he would do that. My bestfriend also accused me of sleeping with her husband (which I never have). Did that hurt me?-No. She may never talk to me again. Does that hurt me?-Nope. I think I may have been hurt one too many times. It's like I'm jaded or something. Anyone understand? Has it happened to anyone else? Idk what's up with me...:|

Hmmm I don't know. I've been in situations before where people screwed me over so many times that I just stopped caring. Period. Maybe that's how you are feeling right now?

To me, your "friend" isn't really a friend if he raped you in your sleep.

o_o Hun, while you may not be bothered by it now.. Just please promise me you'll never hang around that guy EVER again. He's a complete sleezeball and deserves nothing short of castration if he really did rape you. It's not safe to be around someone like that, no matter how you feel about what happened.

And really, start looking in a psychologist or therapist. No one should feel that numb to ANYTHING. It's simply not healthy!

First, contact the police. What that boy did was wrong in so many ways. While you may still be unsure of your emotions right now, he needs to pay for what he did. Contact the authorities, file a report, and please make sure that he is brought to court. There is never any excuse for rape or sexual advances on an unconscious woman. If he did it to you, there is a huge chance that he will attempt it on someone else! Please think of this as protecting another girl in the future.

Next, I would talk to your doctor. Perhaps this lack of motions is a side effect of medication, or the beginning of depression, or any number of things. Your doctor will be able to help you by either advising you medically or recommending a psychologist/therapist to you. Meeting with these people can do wonders! Just talk to them, explain what happened, explain how you feel and how you want to feel, and they will help you work through your problems in a healthy way.

Call the police. What he did was wrong. I can't believe someone did that to do you. That's messed up. I hope you feel better.

Thanks everyone. It didn't even occur to me to contact the police. Not sure why now that I think about it. I know he isn't a real friend. But thanks for the advice and support.

Yes. Definitly contact authorities, someone like him should Never be allowed freedom.
And with your female friend? Well Im not entirely sure how to go about it. I mean you could give her time and she may wise up on her own. Or maybe calmly reassure her that Nothing happened between you two. Or one day just sit her down and both you and her husband assure her that nothing happened.

As far as the numbness? I didnt think that was a bad thing. Everyday people try to start drama with me or try to fight with me for the stupidest reason and Ive just been screwed with and f****d over 5 too many times that I really dont care when people try to do stuff like that to me anymore. I see it as beneficial. But of course get it checked if it is starting to affect your life in a negative way.