Hey so this thread is if you are haveing crush problems. I can help you and may be others can give there advice.

Well I guess I need help. Here is my story. I like this guy that I whent out with, and three years ago he broke up with me, and my problem is I still realy realy like him. I told him I like him but it didn't chang things. I want him to ask me out not me ask him out. What do I do?

Hm... well, in my experience, it's always better to just start it slow. If he doesn't seem that interested in you just ease into it. Talk to him a little more, maybe a couple touches here or there, joke around, laugh and smile near him...

It takes time, yes, but it's worth it towards the end. Never act too rash, or too forwards, it usually turns a guy away from you, not helpful at all. But remember, he might not be into you. You can't control how a person feels. Yes, you can alter it, but there are time where the person is over you and you will never get them back. You have to always consider their feelings, not just your own.

That was my mistake once. I tried the same thing you are, and it only made things worse. I didn't think about him, I didn't try and see it from his point of view... I just threw myself at him. Bad idea.

So just be calm and look at it from both angles. Or at least try. Hopefully that helps C:
Good luck!

Thanks I hope it works too.

Originally Posted by Seblocry

. Never act too rash, or too forwards, it usually turns a guy away from you, not helpful at all. !

I would just like to say that in this case you shouldn´t be to rash or forwards but in allot of cases atleast in my opinion if you know a guy likes you back and he doesn´t do anything about it, it could be because hes shy, unsure of himself etc. and sometimes he wouldn´t mind a forward girl in this case (girls tending to be able to pick up if a person they like likes them, guys tend to be terable at this, in my experience). I say this as it is like that for me and it is how one of my best friends met his girlfriend of 1 year and a half (she iniciated it) :)

So basically I agree with seblocry by that you should take in slowly, test how things seem to be going and then if you want him to ask, if you realise he likes you, drop subtle but obvious to a guy hints. (if you know what i mean

This really goes in the 'Life issues' threads, so I am going to head it over there for ya:)

I have a boyfriend. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. We have lived together for two years. We have a dog his name is Gir he is a lab/hound mix. I love being with him. He makes me laugh, he is so smart, ambious, driven, strong, loving, supportive, musical, realist, logical thinkier, traveler, dreamer, and lover of culture and the world. We are yin and yang. I am the idealistic artist spritual and in my dream world and he is the grounded, realist, logical, writer. I love how we complete one another and have our own secret language.

Start as friends. Ask him to do things with you as a friend. For exapmple if he likes anime ask him to go to anime con. Once you build up a strong friendship you can try to ask him out again. Plus, you can be with him without being a couple. I have a boyfriend and out relationship is doing great, I've been with him for a few months now. But we started as really good friends. After a few weeks we broke up but a while later we got back together. Every love has a bump in the road. Just keep trying.;)

I seem to have trouble getting into a relationship with someone I like. People seem to like me but most of the time, I find them repulsive. And when I do get a crush on someone, it always a fail, for they are all gay. D: Even if I don't know they're gay, once I become close friends with them, they tell me they're gay. Its so heartbreaking to me.

I don't know why I fall for Gay men. D: Hopefully college will be better. But I absolutely hate being alone. But I'll deal.