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Old 12-12-2009, 10:26 PM

Alright its like this. I had a boyfriend about 4 months ago, and a month later when we were still dating a guy told me he loved me and well, I didn't know what to do, and made foolish mistakes, thinking that I liked the guy instead of my bf. During this, my boyfriend was on summer vacation, and near (about a week or two) the time he came back, I knew I liked him and not the guy, but I decided to break up with both. Except then when I checked my email my boyfriend had broken up with me.
And now, he's super pissed at me which I found out later was because he thought I cheated on him with the other guy. The real story was, WE WERE JUST REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, and trust me, when the guy said he loved me it kinda ruined our friendship (doesn't really talk to me) and my ex bf is still pissed, after 4 months.

I've tried to talk to him, but he just doesn't want it. And its like, he's naive to the fact that he hurt me himself, by dumping me by email. I'm not asking you what I could do, but I could definetely use some advice, but have you been in something like this? What are the best ways to really release anger? Help me out here, please.

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Old 12-12-2009, 11:43 PM

It helps me, personally, to rant a whole lot, but you have to do it to people who will be understanding and not try to fix your problem. It's just to get it off your chest.

Also, sometimes doing something artistic helps me as well. Drawing or composing a song or writing a poem that expresses my feelings.

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Old 12-13-2009, 02:26 PM

I always try to share it with someone else.
I try to talk to someone about it. I got only 1 person for that.
When I'm angry or sad, I can tell everything then I feel... lighter.

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Old 12-13-2009, 08:37 PM

Unfortunately I tell my friends anyway, and though it helps me release, its kind of like I'm so used to telling my friends it doesn't help anymore. Same with poems, i write poems every week, and art and writing a story is something I find difficult to do without finding it stupid.

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Old 12-14-2009, 04:56 AM

Whenever I feel angry at a relationship or something, I usually write out a letter addressed to the person, then burn it up, toss it, and close that chapter of my life.

It doesn't seem like he has the mental capacity to realize and apologize for his actions, especially 4 months after the fact.

I'd personally ditch him and look for someone who is willing to hear me out over misconceptions.

 



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