And... T^T He's saying that it's over...

AWWWW OMG zephi are you alright????!?!?!?!

Well when you hear the words "Superbowl party" what do you think of? Football, beer, food? So he told me that I should go to the party last night, and I went, and I drank, and now he's mad that I was drinking. I told him a long time ago that I wouldn't drink without him because he worries what could happen and stuff, but him saying that I could go and the fact that I'm about to deploy kinda made me think that he was giving me the ok to drink. So when I tell him he's like, you broke your promise, you can't be trusted blah blah blah but I wouldn't have even gone if he didn't say that I should! He told me to go! And now he's mad at me and saying that he's not gonna be here when I get back and all this. He's so mean.

awww zephi thats horrible im sure he will get over it

Geez, Zephi! That's awful! And I mean, it's not like you don't drink. oO Is he always so controlling?

I don't know if he's gonna get over it. He won't even listen to me. He says that it's the shot that I took that he doesn't like, and ebcause of the shot I didn't drive home, which is the right thing to do, so I crashed on the toddler bed. He said that I should have known better and I was just thinking about myself and "It's clear where my priorities lie." T^T Dammit. I love him so much and he's so mean, so easily.

He's sorta controlling. I mean, I don't go out at all for this reason. But I thought it would be ok because he said to go

awwww poor zephi i is sorry and i dont know what to say... i have never had to deal with this... im only 13... sorry

I wish I were an advice columnist right now...

I wish I knew what to do also. I just don't. And I don't want to do anything. Nothing. Just sleep :(

aw...I don't know what to say. darn. poor Zephi though. that's no good.

well im sorry to run but i havnt done my history homework yet

I know. It's not. I don't think I deserve this treatment. He's acting like I had cheated on him or something, which I sure as heck didn't.

I wonder if there's a parenting aspect to the issue, Zephi, but since I don't really know your situation, and feel squicky about a husband controlling his wife from afar... And I'm not an advice columnist.

Anyway, I do hope it works out, one way or another.

Hi Kat, and bye Sara!

I don't like being told what to do but I had messed up pretty bad early into our relationship. When I was in korea and hewas in the states. And he's still never gotten over that I guess, so this kinda goes back to that. But it's been almost 2 years since then. I dunno....

*hugs* Well, it'll work out. One way or another.

I have to go eat dinner, but I'll be back later. Take care.

I don't think it will work itself out in a good way though.

Enjoy your meal.

Sorry for bothering you all :(

waa!!! be positive?

bye Cica

I cant T^T he's being so mean. Over nothing, in my opinion... :(

yeah...I don't know how to help that... :(

You could just shoot me :stare:

but that wouldn't make me happy!!!

Oh. I see. So now it's all about you huh? :P

well....um, yeah. >.>

So selfish. *sigh* Fine. Just for you. We won't do it that way.

lol! :hug: