oooh either one would be fun! i love bettas! :love:

oh make sure your tank has a cover or they'll jump out! i learned the hard way. :(

did he survive, llonka?

Yus, it has a cover~ :yes:
I bought this nice looking fish tank the first time only to find out that they could see their reflection from inside of it. :gonk: So I had to get a new one or the poor thing would have died from getting worked up and stressed out.

what's his name, Iju?

oh no Iku! they are funny like that! :yes:

nope i lost a couple fishie babies that way. :(

aw, fishies didn'[t make it.
that's so sad.

@Hum: I think that one was Charlie. P: Or no, maybe Ben!
Dead now. xD

@Lon: Wha... ?
I'm not sure if you're saying they're funny and it's okay for them to do that, or "oh no" as in "uh oh." xDD

iku- seems like if they can see their reflection they will flair at it! so much that they do stress themselves out, so it's better to not let them flair too often. :sweat:

hummy- it's ok. i'd love to put one in my ten gallon someday, it'd be a betta dream house! :D

that it would.

haha maybe when we dont have anymore guppies, i'll get one and put him in there. :yes:

@Lon: Yeah. That's what I saying. xDD He was doing it like constantly. :gonk: But I got that fixed~ And still have both tanks!
Maybe I can get those tiny fish that aren't aggressive and stick them in that tank... :ninja:

which tiny fish that aren't aggressive? :lol:

i love neons.

Neon tetras! :D

we have some! they are pretty fun. i want some Mollies. :yes:

Aww yay~ I think I had one or two or something a few years ago. P:

haha i just like fishies!

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hmm what do you wear to a wedding that you don't want to go to, because they'll prolly get divorced in six months, if we even go? :lol:

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hmm i wonder if i can fit into some of my clothes i banished to basement because they didn't fit... *goes to look*

xDD I'd try and find some old nice clothes.

when's the wedding?

Tuesday. :XP it's hubby's mom. We don't even think she really wants to go through it. I keep thinking horrible thoughts like what if he's marry her to kill her and get the money she gets from the last husband who died. I'm pretty sure he's using her, because he got evicted from his trailer and then moved in with her. We didn't even know they were talking again until he showed up with her on Christmas. Heck last we knew she was with another guy and that was Thanksgiving. So like maybe three weeks after thanksgiving she got back with this A-hole who beat the crap out of her over the summer, and I guess he even broke her tailbone one time he was beating on her. This is why I DO NOT want to go, because I object and I think all of us kids should object, us, and hubby's both brothers, Aaron and Thomas. *takes a deep breath*

Oh gosh. D: Yeah I don't know how I would feel if my mom married some guy that was abusive...
I don't think I'd have it in me to go. I'd definitely be bugging her to leave that guy.

man, that sounds like an awful situation, llonka.
how is your husband taking it?

he thinks it is all bullshit and was hoping they would have a falling out. she's been "engaged" before, but didn't go through with it. at least that guy wasn't abusive. So should we skip it? :lol:

Oh and I know Aaron has already told them both how he feels, because Vic asked Aaron for his blessings and Aaron told him "hell no". :lol: It's just a big mess and I wish she'd get her head out of her but and realize what is going on, and she might but be to scared to kick him out and tell him she doesn't really want to get married. :gonk:

i think if you were invited you should go.
and if you love her,
talk to her about it.
maybe she is scared and if you all can help, then help her.

Personally, I'd skip it. If you don't approve of something, why should you put on a fake smile and waste your time?
Going would make it seem okay to me. Which it's obviously not.
I do agree that she needs to be spoken with about it. Marriage is serious business and they shouldn't do it if there's shiesty stuff going on, especially abuse. I mean, wtf...