I think I'm going to. Maybe cut and colour my hair. I'm still debating on how I want to cut it though.

Originally Posted by Mystic

I think I'm going to. Maybe cut and colour my hair. I'm still debating on how I want to cut it though.

I so need to do this before my sister's wedding, but ARGH I has no monies.

My mom doesn't want me to cut my hair because she wants it long and "girly" for my cousin's wedding in September but I can not stand how long it is right now.

Haha. Well, my boyfriend prefers my hair as long as possible, but I never cut mine shorter than my shoulder anyway. Except when I donated 16 inches.
But my roots are showing and while they aren't super obvious, I do prefer to be properly red headed.

Yay red! :D I love my red hair. Sadly my natural hair colour is almost black so I have to dye it pretty often. I keep my hair cut pretty short, kinda like a pixie cut. I really want to shave it again but I need to job hunt so I can't yet.

Yeah, my natural hair color is dishwater blonde. Which is a pretty annoyingly useless color, but it holds dye really well. Oh man, I could never shave my hair. I'm too gosh darn girly. Haha.

This is literally the shortest my hair has EVER been:

That's not too bad. Lighter hair would be awesome for dying. I think red would look cute on you too. :) I love the shaved hair because it's easy to care for a easier to spike up than how long my hair is now.

Awww, thanks. Yeah, I hate the color of my hair. It was platinum blonde when I was a baby, and then it was honey, and now....dishwater. Blaaah. I much prefer life as a redhead. :)

Yeah, I can see it being easy to care for. And not as hot. But I like being able to have curls or updos or pretty face framing styles. Of course, most the time my hair is in a bun, clip, or ponytail. Oh lordy.

The only thing with red hair is that I get more weird people hitting on me than if I have it another colour. XD

I'm not much into "girly" style hair for myself so that's another reason I like the shaved look. It confuses people though and I get questioned about my gender. XD

Haha, oh yeah. Waaaay more people hit on my with red hair than otherwise. It was kind of weird the first time I dyed it. I was like....16 maybe? And I was with my grandmother. And the minute I walked out of the mall, a huge group of thuggish Hispanic dudes were hitting on me, all way older than I was. It was creepy.

Yeah, genders can be hard to tell with neutral hairstyles and body shapes. I have ginormous boobs of doom so I never really have that problem. Heh.

I'm assuming it's a fetish or something else I don't know about. XD

I'm more gender neutral so it kind of makes me feel a bit better if people don't automatically assume I'm female.

wow, you all do so much with your hair... mine is always in a normal long brown ponytail

Yeah, red headedness is totally a fetish. Which is funny considering how many cultural backgrounds are very against redheads.

I find gender neutrality and transgendered people fascinating, to be honest. I have never, ever wanting to be anything but a girl. I'm not super girly (my nails are almost never pretty, because I consider them tools, I rarely wear dresses because I hate my thighs rubbing together), but I love to be a girl. And I'm definitely girly on occasion.

I can't imagine what it would be like to feel like you're biologically the wrong gender.

@Maiden: Haha, I loooove to mess with my hair. Makes me feel like a totally different person to be a redhead. I looove eet.

lol, I am debating getting low lights or something, but right now would settle for a hair cut... silly stuff is too long for this hot weather

Originally Posted by Mystic

I think I'm going to. Maybe cut and colour my hair. I'm still debating on how I want to cut it though.

Can't wait to see it. So what kind of sandwiches you making for Saturday?

Originally Posted by maidenroseheart

lol, I am debating getting low lights or something, but right now would settle for a hair cut... silly stuff is too long for this hot weather

I toootally understand that.

Steel: Yeah, the whole gender thing is kind of weird to me. I don't feel like a woman but I also don't 100% feel manly all the time. It confuses me still.

Kirin: I think something with avocados?

just something to change my look... I have had the same thing for 23 years

Well, good luck with figuring that one out. I am no help at all there. Heh. It's like trying to tutor basic math. I can tutor calculus all day long, but when you get me trying to explain how to multiply, I'm like....uuuuh....it just is? Heh.

lol, I can do basics... in fact all the hard stuff has to be broken down for me

Originally Posted by maidenroseheart

just something to change my look... I have had the same thing for 23 years

Hahaha. I change my hairstyle every year. And it's always a new shade of red when I dye.

Yeah, I can do basic math (although I'm the master of really stupid mistakes....miscounting and not paying attention when adding just kill me sometimes). But I can't TEACH basic math.

lol, teaching it takes patience... I did some tutoring back in high school... it went well... but I think I am not really a people person... it doesn't take much time around me to be bored sadly.

Oh I've been tutoring since eighth grade (that makes.....eleven years of tutoring....HOLY CRAP!).
But I'm better at tutoring high school level and higher subjects. For math I prefer algebra or higher. Sciences, I'll tutor lower levels, because it all builds on itself.

understandable. how about history?

You could not pay me enough to tutor history. No freaking way.
I do edit papers for $5 a page, though. That includes rewriting awkward sentences.