I never listen to who is singing... I typically either wasn't a fan or already had their song bookmarked...

i'm watching the news with seth myers.

I'm watching videos of Slenderman and Amnesia... they sound boring... and barely scary at all...

I am thinking I'm going to have to break up with my boyfriend. But on a brighter note three more pages.

oh, no.

I just can't deal with it any more.

i'm so sorry, Kirin.

It's his own damn fault. Last he brought up us spending a night or two together. I'm personally not comfortable with that. At all, and he has the fucking gall to tell me I'm not respecting him? Then tonight I didn't see him get on and he got all pissy that I didn't message me right away, and I told him I was sorry that I didn't see him get on and he ignores me. I told him that was fine but that was issue and he was all like oh this is my fault and I pointed his choosing to ignore me was his fault.

i miss people all the time.

i never mean to,
it happens though.

I'm done with this. I just can't deal with it and I shouldn't have to deal with it. Do you think I'm in the right to break it off with him?

Concerto: Would love for you to chat here sometime.

@ Hummy - You're a lot more calm about it though...

@ Kirin - You could do way better than that... he seems to have some abandonment issues of some sort... >.>"

He does, and I get it. But I'm not putting up with this.

Shouldn't have to... I mean I'm clingy too... especially after what my ex-wife put me through but I wont freak out if someone doesn't reply for a while. Granted I did when she went to stay at another man's apartment... but there were reasons for that...

Clingy has it's limits.

Now if I see somebody on who hasn't said hi to me. I say hey, or something along those lines. Though I don't think that was his biggest issue. I think his biggest issue was me not comfortable with staying a night with him yet. Though what really got to me was that he had the gall to say I wasn't respecting him.

Hello Kirin, Hummy & Poet. Nice to see you again Poet.
How is that not respecting him? To me it sounds like he isn't respecting you because you told him your not comfortable with that yet & then he got mad/pissy. His ego is probably wounded, but if you really like him give him a few days to get over the ego/pride thing. Is this the first time he has acted like that?

This isn't the first incident. He's very insecure and clingy and it drives me crazy. I am feeling God telling me it's time to move on.

*hugs Kirin* Yeah, he's not respecting you and sounds like he's trying to guilt trip you into getting what he wants. I had an ex that tried that crap...he'd say things like if I didn't sleep with him I didn't love him or care about him and shit like that. Pisses me off when people think they can get what they want by acting like a spoiled brat. You can do better than that and you deserve someone who is going to respect you and not throw a fit because they don't get their way.

I was summoned I was summoned. Oh nice thread kirin

@ Kirin - I wonder if his intents were bad >.>" cause most guys when it comes to "staying overnight" it never seems like sleeping is all they want to do...

Imagine yourself married to him in 5-10 years. Would you be happy? If no, move on. If maybe, give him a little bit of time until a yes or a no appears.

@ Mystic - sadly it never stops... my ex-wife tried to guilt trip me into sleeping with her more >.>" was very rude... she ended up divorcing me a few weeks later

Originally Posted by Mystic

*hugs Kirin* Yeah, he's not respecting you and sounds like he's trying to guilt trip you into getting what he wants. I had an ex that tried that crap...he'd say things like if I didn't sleep with him I didn't love him or care about him and shit like that. Pisses me off when people think they can get what they want by acting like a spoiled brat. You can do better than that and you deserve someone who is going to respect you and not throw a fit because they don't get their way.

Yeah.

Originally Posted by Codette

I was summoned I was summoned. Oh nice thread kirin

Thanks, and welcome.

Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

@ Kirin - I wonder if his intents were bad >.>" cause most guys when it comes to "staying overnight" it never seems like sleeping is all they want to do...

Imagine yourself married to him in 5-10 years. Would you be happy? If no, move on. If maybe, give him a little bit of time until a yes or a no appears.

@ Mystic - sadly it never stops... my ex-wife tried to guilt trip me into sleeping with her more >.>" was very rude... she ended up divorcing me a few weeks later

Yeah, me too. He'll get pissed if he doesn't get to spend a whole day with me and then not see me at all, which makes no sense to me.

Ugh... how would you live together? If you or him went to work all hell would break loose o.o

His logic is twisted.

His logic's logic is twisted...

Yeah, I'm just slightly worried as he does suffer from depression.

It's not your job to hold him constantly... he's not a baby... I suffer from horrible depression all the time...