I know it sounds crazy, but i really want to know ur comments bout the situation...
do u still love her/him?
what if one day, u saw her/him kissing the same sex/gender?
What are u going to dO?

Yeah, cuz instinctual monkey acts should TOTALLY have baring on a sentient connection -rolls eyes-

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In all seriousness, I've never seen how sex and physical actions are relevant to a mental connection between two people.

Of course, I'll be angry if I caught them in the act. However, I will also be some person who will hear his reason, the reason"why he have done that". At least I could know, what if I reacted violently but in fact their is nothing to worry about. We should be more open minded and hear some of his justification.

If my boyfriend was gay, I'd be angry that he misled me to believe that he was attracted to me in the first place because it would destroy my heart.

well both me and my boyfriend are bi... No idea what lead us to a straight relationship, but we're happy.

And well in our group of friends we play a lot of truth or dare, meaning girls end up kissing nearly everybody, and sometimes us girls have our boys kiss boys moments. So just kissing may not bother me, as long as I know, he's coming home with me.

Now if I caught him doing the deed with anyone (male or female) I'd be pissed. Simply because hey he cheated on me. I don't care the gender, he cheated. There is never a good excuse for that.

He cheated. There is not excuse for cheating.

My boyfriend IS bi!
If i caught him with either a GIRL or a BOY I would react the same, that is cheating.

If my boyfriend was GAY he wouldn't be my boyfriend now would he?

I'll just play it cool..
as if i did'nt saw them then i would not communicate with him anymore and the next thing that he will see i would be with another but real man for sure why waste on someone who doesnt deserve you!
cheaters are would always be cheaters

I would be angry, and I would dump him or her..because that person was not me.

My relationship with someone is just that, a relationship. It doesn't matter who else they are attracted to. Just because I do not have a penis does not mean they can cheat on me.

If mine were, he wouldn't even be with me. He's not the type of person to waste his time with people.

I'm pretty sure my ex-boyfriend is gay, which sucked because when he dumped me all he said was "I'm confused" and hardly told me anything else
and not to mention I had a crush on the guy for about 2 years prior to actually being able to dating him
If I saw him kissing another guy it'd be really strange
but I don't think it'd affect me too much

.....not gonna lie..... I would laugh soooo hard, and probably tease him for the rest of his life about taking it in the pooper.
Of course I'd be upset, but I think it would be highly amusing (as long as I wasn't married to him for many years).

sexuality is not a big issue for me..
but cheating.. that's a no-no!

My girlfriend is bisexual. I always knew, and it never quite got me worried, I guess I'd even LOVE to see her making out with a person of her same gender. I asked her as a birthday gift, but we didn't find the counterpart *giggles*

We are in an open relationship so the cheating part couldn't even happen.
But if we weren't, I'd be rather annoyed. Not 'cause she's bisexual, this isn't a fault or anything, but due to the fact she broke a promise, a pact, and lost a bit of my trust.

The reason can be she got bored to date a man only, but hey, it doesn't hurt to TALK about it before...
If it's a sort of joke, I wouldn't get upset anyway.

Maybe I'm tranquil about this kind of things 'cause I'm bisexual too.

i would probably cry that's kind of horrible.... just one day. " oh by the way honey i'm gay so... yeah bye!"
that would be the second time QQ

Question the first, as I am a guy myself neither scenario would have any real significance. If it is with a bf, it would be somewhat silly if I thought they were heterosexual. With the bi GF, then I am not quite sure how this would differ to being in a relationship with a heterosexual gf. So no, neither situation would change anything in the relationship.

Questions the second and third. I would be quite upset, as others have mentioned this is cheating. How I would react would depend largely on the relationship. Lolz if it was not a strong relationship at all, they are totally getting dropped.

If my mister was gay, I would want to know why he dated me for 3 years, and maybe how he hid it so well. I would still love him, but that is kind of a break-up scenario don't you think? As for him kissing the same sex, well...I first be really baffled, because he is like any stereotypical heterosexual male (homophobic) so I would most likely assume he be getting an un-godly amount of money on this dare, or just feel lied to that he acted like a straight man for so long with me. Now since he is a hetero, if I caught him kissing a girl, I would be livid instead of having feelings of sadness that I was lied to in the last scenario. And depending who he was kissing would depend if I was just mad at him or both him and the other party.

I am bisexual myself. If my GF or BF - I currently don't have one - would be bisexual, that would not be a problem. If my GF would be a lesbian, that would not be a problem. If my BF would realize they were gay during our relationship, I could live with it, even if it probably would mean the end of our relationship - why keep fooling yourselves, after all? If he would have known beforehand he was completely gay, I would not be happy, because he would have been lying to me.

If I found my GF or BF - that is, if I would have one - suddenly kissing with someone, whether of the same gender or not, I would not be happy, but if, say, one of their friends was drunk and suddenly started kissing them in front of me, I would know it's not my BF/GF's fault, even though I would not like it if they actually kissed back. If they were the one to start the kiss and do not have a DAMN good explanation why, it would probably be over. If they kissed someone else when I was not there but told me MYSELF and were honest in their regret, they would get a second chance. If I had to hear from someone else, well, it's over.

It also depends on the kind of relationship I have with someone, though. I tend to be fairly openminded, and find myself more often than not in more or less open relationships. If that's the case, well, I still want them to tell me instead of hearing it from someone else, but yeah. it would be a quite different scenario. xD

Well... truthfully... =) I don't care... simple as that... as I have 2 people who I am very close to and love, (with both of their permission of course) I find it reasonable to allow them to be with another person as well if they wish (which, they don't so no worries either way, though it's always an option for them, no matter what gender they pick)

Two of my at-the-time girlfriends are strictly gay, and another actually was bi (or so I was told). If my girlfriend at current turned out to be bi, I would be a bit confused. If I saw her kissing a guy, it was probably for a cosplay photo. If it wasn't, well... talks would need to be had.

Orientation shouldn't have anything to do with your love for someone (though if they're not into your gender and you're dating, well, that's never going to work out), but seeing them cheat on you with anyone, regardless of gender, is not okay. >__>

First I would be pissed that he's cheating, then shocked that the guy I've been dating was gay or bi. Of course, once I recollect my thoughts I would text him a (lying)message to would say that I dumped him for another guy.

well, i used to date a girl who was bi-sexual.

we kinda hit it off, considering we had the same taste in women. :D

Originally Posted by The Enchanted Tiara

If my boyfriend was gay, I'd be angry that he misled me to believe that he was attracted to me in the first place because it would destroy my heart.

hehe lolx... it destroys my heart too... :(( ithought he was attracted in the first place too, but he told me, he just want to be like me, i have a long hair and pretty faces so, that's the reason why he likes me :(( it destroyed my entire heart :(:(:(:(

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Originally Posted by Kaze-bear

Well... truthfully... =) I don't care... simple as that... as I have 2 people who I am very close to and love, (with both of their permission of course) I find it reasonable to allow them to be with another person as well if they wish (which, they don't so no worries either way, though it's always an option for them, no matter what gender they pick)

nice... tnx :) it really helps .

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Originally Posted by Silenia

I am bisexual myself. If my GF or BF - I currently don't have one - would be bisexual, that would not be a problem. If my GF would be a lesbian, that would not be a problem. If my BF would realize they were gay during our relationship, I could live with it, even if it probably would mean the end of our relationship - why keep fooling yourselves, after all? If he would have known beforehand he was completely gay, I would not be happy, because he would have been lying to me.

If I found my GF or BF - that is, if I would have one - suddenly kissing with someone, whether of the same gender or not, I would not be happy, but if, say, one of their friends was drunk and suddenly started kissing them in front of me, I would know it's not my BF/GF's fault, even though I would not like it if they actually kissed back. If they were the one to start the kiss and do not have a DAMN good explanation why, it would probably be over. If they kissed someone else when I was not there but told me MYSELF and were honest in their regret, they would get a second chance. If I had to hear from someone else, well, it's over.

It also depends on the kind of relationship I have with someone, though. I tend to be fairly openminded, and find myself more often than not in more or less open relationships. If that's the case, well, I still want them to tell me instead of hearing it from someone else, but yeah. it would be a quite different scenario. xD

yEaHh, i guess ur right, i appreciate ur comment

it really helps for me to accept the awful situatioN...

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Originally Posted by akhmonster

i would probably cry that's kind of horrible.... just one day. " oh by the way honey i'm gay so... yeah bye!"
that would be the second time QQ

yEaHh same here...

i cried the day when he told me he was a gay... :((

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Originally Posted by chong69

well, i used to date a girl who was bi-sexual.

we kinda hit it off, considering we had the same taste in women. :D

lolx :O

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Originally Posted by Mimiroppu

Two of my at-the-time girlfriends are strictly gay, and another actually was bi (or so I was told). If my girlfriend at current turned out to be bi, I would be a bit confused. If I saw her kissing a guy, it was probably for a cosplay photo. If it wasn't, well... talks would need to be had.

Orientation shouldn't have anything to do with your love for someone (though if they're not into your gender and you're dating, well, that's never going to work out), but seeing them cheat on you with anyone, regardless of gender, is not okay. >__>

<__< okEY but i guess its working :P

I don't think I would mind. heck if we broke up and we're still friends we could talk about how hot some guys/girls are. XD If my boyfriend/girlfriend was kissing their own gender I personally wouldn't mind too much, sure its the end of my relationship but if it makes them happy then its fine with me. XD