I'm tickled by this because the title says

"WHAT IF UR GF IS BI/ UR BF IS GAY "

. Why is there no option for your girlfriend being a lesbian or your boyfriend being bisexual? I just thought that was funny, lol.

I guess I would be a bit upset because...if I found them kissing someone else it would mean they were cheating on me

I find it pretty hot, actually...

i think it really doesnt matter about sexuality in this case im gay. but cheating thats another subject

In a sexual way, no.
And probably not in anyway if he would betray me by kissing someone else.


I would feel really lied to.
He lied by acting like he was really into me.
And lied to me/our relationship by romantically/sexually involving himself with someone else.
Sounds like an all around ass to me.

Now if we'd just been friends, it'd be a non-issue.
But lying is a no no in my book.

Originally Posted by The Enchanted Tiara

If my boyfriend was gay, I'd be angry that he misled me to believe that he was attracted to me in the first place because it would destroy my heart.

agreed.

If he was gay then he wouldn't be my boyfriend. Besides, I would be furious, but cool off eventually. We can be friends, but this will be my face... O.o''

LMFAO, well first of all I would dump his ass! And I probably wouldn't be his friend after that... seeing as how he was lying to me the whole time! XD That'd be hilarious though, so be careful who you choose!

Ok first of all I am bisexual, and I resent the implication that just because a person is bisexual they are going to cheat and or use that to get what they want.
Second of all, if a person is gay then the only reason they would be in a relationship with a person of the opposite sex is to hide it. I doubt even they have come to terms with it. So, I'm sure that they would talk to the person about it before they went out and did anything. That has been my experience with it so far. A person cannot help they way they feel. I wouldn't take it personal.

i dont really know what to do

I would slap his around, and give him heck. Not because he's kissing a boy, but because he's cheating on me. He knows the consciences of that (I'm have a big issue on being cheated on)

He's straight I know this, but he knows that I'm very much bisexual. So he doesn't have a problem with homosexuality.

If he's a BI, i'll end the relationship right away. I don't like the idea that my bf might like or might have a crush with another guy or worst is we might have the same type. Arrgghh I hate the idea! If he's a GAY, i'll slap his face then end the relationship right away. Then I'm going to go to my brother and cry and tell him the whole freaking story. I'll leave him to my bro.

I have a friend that is bisexual, and her boyfriend and girlfriend are both totally okay with the other one being there. I think it's very sick though. That's not fair to either of them because they are just LETTING her cheat on them. I believe there is only one love out there for someone, not two. And at the same time? Eh..

On a different note.
Everyone thought I was gay before I started dating my boyfriend. Luckily, he didn't know of these rumors when I asked him out though. I told him later of that I -sorta- had a crush on this girl, and he said that it was alright to think that way if I wanted, just as long as he's the only person I'm cuddling up to at night.

My girlfriend is a lesbian but then so am I lol But cheating is cheating it shouldn't matter what sex it was with it's still wrong

If my boyfriend were bi, I wouldn't care. If he were gay, I doubt we'd be dating. o_O

Making out with another person is cheating, no matter what gender they are. And I'd obviously be upset. It'd depend on the situation though, of course.

If my boyfriend kissed another guy I'd take pictures. Seriously. And tell him to do it more.

Maybe I'm just weird that way.

....half of the question is irrelevant. You do the same thing if your boy was kissing a girl. >_>

Real world gays and lesbians don't all happen like Brokeback Mountain. As a lesbian, I'm appalled by the movie simply because they're going behind their wives' backs. They should have just stayed single if they didn't want to be public with it. I can see why they weren't public but I am highly disappointed in their decision to cheat.

If something like this were to happen to you, please don't hate every homosexual you come across. I would NEVER mislead anyone as a cover-up. And once you're with someone you're not supposed to even be looking at other people, you shouldn't even cheat at all! =/

Well in my fair opinion, I don't really think it's a problem if my boyfriend really is gay or bisexual. Yes I do love him and I'd like to spend the rest of my life with him, but if for some reason he was to wake up and decided that he'd rather be with a man, well then I guess I don't see anything wrong with that. I want him to be happy and if going to someone else, even if they are the same sex, means making him happy, then I'm happy.

I guess that's why they always say if you really love someone you will let them go. Because it doesn't matter about what you want in the relationship. It matters what your partner wants, and if your partner can't be happy with you, then you might as well let them go be happy else where.

I hope this is the answer you were looking for, because I really don't know how else to answer it.

So im bi, and my boyfriend is straight, but it hasnt shown any kinda of change mentally or emotionally or even sexually between us. We know that im not going to leave him and its more of a lil joke between us. And oddly enough we can have a conversation debating which hirl is hotter o.0 its more fun than a problem, and i would never leave him for a woman and technically i cant cheat on him that way either because he'd just wanna join. To be honest its not a problem really :)

If they are bi, yeah I would still love them. If they are gay, why am I dating them if we are of opposite sexes? If I saw him/her kissing ANYONE then it's over because that's cheating. XP It doesn't matter what their sex is. My next relationship is probably going to be with a girl so the question for me is, "What if you find out your girlfriend is straight?" I would break up with her, but I don't know why she would date me if she wasn't attracted to women.

this has actually happened before.

we were freshmen in high school.
and he was completely flamboyant.
but would never admit that he was attracted to men.
yet my intuition told me he was.

at that point in my life, he was my best friend. and i wanted someone to make out with.
so we "dated."
it lasted only a few weeks.
but it was innocent fun.
and i helped him come out!

Well, my boyfriend and I are both gay, so that's the first problem out the way :lol:
If he kissed another guy? Hmm...
I'd either get angry at him etc. etc. but I wouldn't dump him
Or I'd watch and drool... and then get angry at him.
Huh, same thing either way :lol: But I don't think he's ever going to do that :) He loves me so much :heart:

My boyfriend is bi, but his whole "if it's with the same sex, it's not cheating" thing is bullshit.
Cheating is cheating, be it with a man, woman, donkey, whatever. I'd give him a hard kick if he cheated on me. >;D

My girlfriend is bisexual, but it doesn't make a difference about our relationship at all.
It doesn't and shouldn't matter.
If I caught her with someone else, no matter who (boy or girl) it would be over.
It's cheating either way and it's messed up either way.
Just because someone is bisexual doesn't mean they have to be with both sexes... I don't like people thinking that either... :/

i would leave him
i mean how can you compete with that?!

I'd probably be happy to be honest. Though I'd be mad that the person used me. o.o Because that person wasn't honest towards me in the first place and wasn't true to themselves. D: