Well, first of all, just the fact that they're kissing another person would make me break up with them. For the Bi thing, it really doesn't matter, as long as she's not cheating on me behind my back.
But for the boyfriend- gay one, I'd dump him.. ;P
I mean, if he doesn't like your gender, why date him? o>o

I just wanna get this outta the way. This topic makes me laugh, i'm not quite sure why. Anyway, I am as straight as straight can be. However, I do not have any problem with gays/lesbians nor have I ever had any problem with them, to me they are just people who just so happen to physically and emotional like the same sex as them. My girlfriend is "Bi-sexual" but she always corrects me, saying she is "pan-sexual" which, if I'm remembering correctly means she likes personalities...o.O. Before we dated, we would always point out which girl had the better body, or how she managed to get her butt in those jeans. I thought it was hysterical.

A lot of her friends are bi, and several gay guys. Whom, if they didn't tell you, you seriously wouldn't know they were gay. I was surprised when she told me they were. Anyway, when we hang out with them the topic always comes around to my girlfriends large chest. Now I find this completely hysterical, and at times cannot stop laughing. However, some of her (girl) friends will put their hands on her chest, depending on the girl, I'm perfectly ok with this. Because I know for sure that if she wasn't ok with it, or she knew I wasn't ok with it, she wouldn't allow them to do it. I think its quite funny, cause they try to cover one, and with both their hands they can't hold the one boob. We even took a picture of one of her friends head next to her chest, and they are pretty close to the same size. O.O

Anyway, that's my...well more than 2 cents. :P

I could handle him being bi as long as he still wanted me but being gay or kissing someone else no matter what gender is a deal breaker. (not because I'm against gays(I'm not against it), because he obviously doesn't want my gender).

Originally Posted by Kultura

My boyfriend is bi, but his whole "if it's with the same sex, it's not cheating" thing is bullshit.
Cheating is cheating, be it with a man, woman, donkey, whatever. I'd give him a hard kick if he cheated on me. >;D

Please tell me that he is joking when he tries to make such assertions with you. As that sounds as legitimate as the claims I have heard about it not qualifying as cheating if it happens in another country or in international waters. So I totally hope you would give him the hard kick if he ever seriously did that!

My boyfriend is not gay, but I have pondered over this situation and talked to him about it once before.
I always tell my boyfriend that I would rather have him cheat on me with a guy then with a girl... because then atleast I would have a gay bestfriend. HAHA! He always replies with an "EW NO!" because he is infact NOT gay. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years so I highly doubt he is gay but if for some reason he turned, yes, I would be upset at first because I lost my love... but it would be something I would be able to get over so much easier because, like I said, I would have a gay bestfriend (: HAHA!

If my husband turned out to be gay, I don't know what I'd do. I'd probably go insane. I can't even fathom the thought.

...Well, I'm pansexual and dating a guy? 8D
And he doesn't think much of it, he knew I was into all genders in the world before he even started liking me.

Well... I HOPE my grilfriend is gay or at least Bi... Or things could get REALLY awkward...

It's considered cheating if they are kissing someone else no matter the gender.
I would call it off with my boyfriend and no longer speak to them. I dislike unfaithful people.

I think it's totally fine (unless your stating him/her) but it is fine. It's the way they want to live and there own descision. It doesn't matter who the heck you fall in love with... it could be boy boy or girl girl or girl boy. It may sound strange to you, it sure was for me at first, becuase it's no what we picture in our heads. Don't be mean to them or call them a fag, you should be happy for them because the found someone to love.

The only reason I'd have to get angry about that is the fact that they're snogging some other person when they should be snogging me. Cheating is cheating, No matter how it happens. D;
if My boyfriend/Girlfriend were Bi, I'd be okay with it. Considoring I'm still not sure what I am at the moment, It would be mean to treat them any differently.
But... I don't think I'd be going out with a Gay Guy?
Considoring I am a girl and all...

If your a girl dating a guy who thinks he's gay I should hope he has the decency to tell you. Being gay is not something you can help and I hate when people think it is. Also you are not gay if you are attracted to the opposite sex. Period.

I have had girlfriends be bisexual and yes, I did still treat them as I would any gay girl I dated. I would not say I ever loved any of my partners, except my husband. I hate when people claim they "love" their boyfriend/girlfriend when they haven't been together that long. I think too many people throw the term "love" around when most the time it's just infatuation or lust.

My husband and I are both bisexual. I do have girlfriends on the side but he always knows about it. She also always knows that I am married and that he means more to me than anyone else. He is welcome to have girlfriends/boyfriends as he wants but he chooses not to. As long as I know about it, it's not cheating. The minute either of us lies is when it would be over.

So short answer, I did not love any of my partners except my husband so I wouldn't care.

If my Gf was bi my feelings wouldn't change at all she is still the same person, if I found her kissing the same sex while dating me though, I would still say It's cheating and would probably bitch her out, for cheating, and be like W,T, EFF MANG

Well all I can say is I hope that myt boyfriend would be straight, if he was gay I would be angry with him for pretending to love me, when he was probably envisioning Quinn Allman or something while kissing me. Obviously I would be pretty upset too, have some dark thoughts about myself too, like what if I "turned" him gay.

All in all though I can safely say I will try not to entice a gay man into my heart.

Bi I have no problem with though, as long as there are some general attraction to me and that he does love me I don't care if he had a boyfriend before. As long as his love for me is real and vice versa there won't be a problem, in my mind anyway.

I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend is a lesbian. I don't really have to worry about her cheating on my with the opposite gender. But cheating's cheating, doesn't matter what gender it is. If she cheated on me, it'd be over. And I know if I cheated on her, she'd feel the same. Not that I ever would, I don't want anyone but her.

/end romantic cheesy stuff