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Old 02-28-2010, 11:58 PM

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Alright. The heck did I ever say that I cared if someone was holding hands, or kissing, or going on dates without escorts? I AM against premarital sex, BUT I NEVER SAID ANYTHING ABOUT THAT EITHER.

I'd personally be pissed if somebody followed me about on a date, yelled at me for holding hands with my boyfriend in public, or got angry at me for sharing a quick peck with my significant other.

I will thank you kindly to stop taking my statements out of context. ENOUGH with the red herrings.

I SIMPLY stated that I don't want to see the day when sex on park-benches is acceptable, and I'd rather not have to pry two people with their tongues half-way down each other's throats off of my locker just to get my books.

The ONLY thing you pegged me correctly for was being against premarital sex. Sex is something that teens and people in general are too pressured to do. Why on Earth should I want to have casual sex or allow myself to get attached to someone through the hormones that are released through the act of sex when I am not sure that I care for them? The repercussions are NOT worth it to me. I'd thank you not to attack that belief.
:shock: hol-y shit. That was.....unexpected. Speaking of saying things out of context.

I was simply saying that things that are acceptable now, such as holding hands, any type of kissing, and no escorts on dates, is something someone from Victorian England would find just as horrifying as you do sex on park benches. I never meant that you thought these things unacceptable.

I was not attacking anything or anyone's beliefs. This was simply musing. An "oh, isn't that interesting to think about" type thing.

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Old 03-01-2010, 01:19 AM

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:shock: hol-y shit. That was.....unexpected. Speaking of saying things out of context.

I was simply saying that things that are acceptable now, such as holding hands, any type of kissing, and no escorts on dates, is something someone from Victorian England would find just as horrifying as you do sex on park benches. I never meant that you thought these things unacceptable.

I was not attacking anything or anyone's beliefs. This was simply musing. An "oh, isn't that interesting to think about" type thing.
Okay. Sorry. I thought you were accusing me personally of these things. I apologize.

You quoted me and so thus I thought you were saying that I was that way, I wish you'd have clarified. :)

That's a really sore spot for me and I'll defend my position on it to the death (as you have seen, lol).

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Now. Looking back at what you said...yes, a Victorian would look at those things as I do "sex on park benches."

As I said before. The fact that we have abolished the Victorian belief system on sex and intimate relationships is a good thing. After all (as I've stated before) fornication of any kind was illegal until about 100-150 years ago.

Each generation does have their own set belief system. Having said that, the one we have now is not that bad.... I don't think that the idea that casual sex is good, but obviously: no belief system is perfect.

I only worry about what will be accepted in fifty years. Again, as I've stated previously, I want nothing to do with a society where sex on park benches is acceptable. :no:

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Old 03-01-2010, 01:45 AM

At my school, HUGGING is considered PDA now... I personally think it's kind of stupid. Friends hug friends all of the time. Well, where I am they do. And many boys and girls are FRIENDS. And like I said, where I am friends hug a lot. So, what. Now are we going to get in trouble for hugging our friends? It's so dumb. :(

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Old 03-01-2010, 02:17 AM

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Okay. Sorry. I thought you were accusing me personally of these things. I apologize.

You quoted me and so thus I thought you were saying that I was that way, I wish you'd have clarified. :)

That's a really sore spot for me and I'll defend my position on it to the death (as you have seen, lol).

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Now. Looking back at what you said...yes, a Victorian would look at those things as I do "sex on park benches."

As I said before. The fact that we have abolished the Victorian belief system on sex and intimate relationships is a good thing. After all (as I've stated before) fornication of any kind was illegal until about 100-150 years ago.

Each generation does have their own set belief system. Having said that, the one we have now is not that bad.... I don't think that the idea that casual sex is good, but obviously: no belief system is perfect.

I only worry about what will be accepted in fifty years. Again, as I've stated previously, I want nothing to do with a society where sex on park benches is acceptable. :no:
Sorry for the confusions!! I reread that post after i replied and now I see how you could get that impression. Mah B!

And by the time sex on park benches is cool, we'll all prolly be dead, so i doubt you'll have to worry about it ^_^

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At my school, HUGGING is considered PDA now... I personally think it's kind of stupid. Friends hug friends all of the time. Well, where I am they do. And many boys and girls are FRIENDS. And like I said, where I am friends hug a lot. So, what. Now are we going to get in trouble for hugging our friends? It's so dumb. :(
....Hugging.....PDA? That is some DUMB shit right there. I do not have a single friend that i don't hug. Some of my close friends i kiss on the cheek, and even a couple i've slept in the same bed with (platonicly!) So hugging?

Christ. public schools are really going to shit, aren't they?

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Old 03-01-2010, 04:19 AM

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Sorry for the confusions!! I reread that post after i replied and now I see how you could get that impression. Mah B!

And by the time sex on park benches is cool, we'll all prolly be dead, so i doubt you'll have to worry about it ^_^
S'all good. I'm just glad we cleared it up.

And, I sure hope so. ^_^

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....Hugging.....PDA? That is some DUMB shit right there. I do not have a single friend that i don't hug. Some of my close friends i kiss on the cheek, and even a couple i've slept in the same bed with (platonicly!) So hugging?

Christ. public schools are really going to shit, aren't they?
They went there a long time ago, my friend.

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Old 03-06-2010, 08:00 AM

I have a powerful, overwhelming hatred for public make-out sessions. Seriously.
But as for simple things like holding hands and hugs, I personally don't have any interest in seeing them, but I'm not about to tell people they can't do it. I don't think people should be required to act sterile around other people.

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Old 03-06-2010, 06:29 PM

I agree. I don't care if a couple exchanges a kiss or if they hold hands or the like. It bothers me when they start making out, excessive groping...etc...At that point its either get a room or act a bit more respectfully to the people around you. Yes, you can look away but sometimes it is unavoidable.

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Interesting note, though.... Through generations, society has been getting more and more tolerant of PDAs and sexual activities in general.... Just think of what people would thing 3 generations ago of what we believe is acceptable behavior now. Our generation sees itself as very liberal, as i'm sure all generations before us felt in their day. I wonder what, 3 generations in the future, will be considered okay then that would make our eyes bug out of our heads now...?
Yumiko: That is an interesting thought and it does make you wonder but I think it can go both ways too. At that point we'll be old women going on about '..In my day'.

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Old 04-30-2010, 02:26 AM

I am perfectly ok with kissing and hugging. Like you said, it's the touchy feely stuff that really makes someone uncomfortable. Heck, I kiss and hug my boyfriend all the time in public. We never get into anything more though. We're just not that kind of couple. Oi. This one time I was in a movie theatre with my boyfriend and a couple was practically doing the nasty right there in the movie theatre! I guess someone had told because a movie theatre person came in to check if everything was ok right in the middle of the movie. I can understand kissing in a movie (hey, everyone does it) but climbing ontop of eachother in a seat?! No no no -.-

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Old 04-30-2010, 06:58 AM

PDA hmm.. I'm fine with the hand holding, the snuggling, the hugging, the kissing, and even the occasional butt smack. Haha. But like Alix commented, not okay with the full on damn near close to sex in the movie theater crap. My background; nobody in my family is really touchy feely at all; never have been. It's kind of our heritage I guess, nobody's ever been over-the-top touchy. I'm honestly the first who actually enjoys the snuggling and hugging and PDA type things, even in private really. So in front of parents; I really watch it and I get uncomfortable easily; but infront of friends, I am more relaxed about it, and other times, hey, we all have had 1 or 2 make out sessions in a truck or something where people might see :P

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Old 04-30-2010, 04:43 PM

i always hold my boyfriends hand in public and give him kisses. or make him give me piggy back rides (is that considered PDA when your 21? I dunno really) but the most uncomfortable thing I've ever seen was when i was waiting the metro subway train to come to my stop when I was in France and I looked over and this couple was going at it. Like full on kissing and rubbing and I had to turn my back to them. that was just... awkward.

I say, save the heavy petting for the bedroom...

 



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