now i just find your man so hilarious!!!
didnt know a man like him would exist!!
oh my...

I found out why he was so against it!
Ahh. His love used him sexually, and then kind of sodded off.
So he got used.
:/
Hm..
I feel bad. =[
But he likes me and I like him, and he kissed me yesterday.
So everything is pretty much okay now. ^-^

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Originally Posted by Amaya Dimir

Not to seem horribly off topic here, but I just thought I would let you know, that is if you didn't already know, there is a treatment for Vaginismus that is almost always effective.

Seriously?
o.o;
What is it? I'm really curious to know.

Well, that seems like an understandable reason for why he's not into being sexual. Maybe you can help him move away from his past so it doesn't haunt him and stop him from having a fun time in the future. Sex is a natural part of life. Even though it's probably very difficult for him to not think about being used, he shouldn't let a past sexual experience prevent him from enjoying sex. You're just gonna have to help him.

Maybe he's gay? XD And is sexually confused? That would be my guess. Or then he just for shyness/bad memories puts up his guard when someone says sex.

Edit: Oh, good that you two sorted it out?

"haha, i'm naked and turned on, you figure it out, brb x"

Sorry for saying this but this text makes it sound like you were doing it.

I don't think you should be making a big deal out of it, honestly. At your age, you shouldn't be thinking about it either. I'm assuming you're near his age, which is why I said that. Sex really isn't that important in a relationship and if he doesn't show interest, I wouldn't push it. Don't let something so miniscule as this bother you because I highly doubt the situation will change and it might just push him away. You can either build up the relationship to the point where he trusts you enough for him to tell you why or you can just accept that that's how he is. I think that's very mature of him, honestly.