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Old 01-16-2012, 06:55 PM

*sighs* My chubby boy is sick, so I'm checking up on him every once in a while.

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Old 01-16-2012, 06:56 PM

Awww, hope he gets well soon Dana. ):

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:04 PM

Thanks, Jess. I just wish I lived near him so I could take care of him.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:09 PM

Hehe, that's so sweet. <3

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:14 PM

It's what I do. I like taking care of others. I'd make him chicken noodle soup and snuggle with him.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:17 PM

I like to think I'm there for others when they need me. But yesterday proved I'm not.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:19 PM

What do you mean Serena?

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:22 PM

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It's what I do. I like taking care of others. I'd make him chicken noodle soup and snuggle with him.
Pish, i'd avoid him, make sure I don't catch anything. xP

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I like to think I'm there for others when they need me. But yesterday proved I'm not.
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What happened?

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:22 PM

Pffft, I'll remember that Jess.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:23 PM

My boyfriend is in the middle of studying for the LSAT (Law school admissions test) and he's in this rut because he doesn't have a good gpa and his score on the one he took 2yrs ago wasn't good and he's coming to the terms that he doesn't have a chance with his current gpa (the one he graduated with) he has to get a 165 or higher. He took part of the practice test yesterday and with the score he got on that, he wouldn't have a chance. I just sat there and was still caught up in my crap and I didn't hug him or say anything and he was quiet to me the rest of the night. I had done it before when he was talking to me about it the first time earlier this month and I was caught up in freaking out because I couldn't find my clothes for my interview (didn't get the job anyway)
I just feel like I fail as a girlfriend.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:24 PM

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My boyfriend is in the middle of studying for the LSAT (Law school admissions test) and he's in this rut because he doesn't have a good gpa and his score on the one he took 2yrs ago wasn't good and he's coming to the terms that he doesn't have a chance with his current gpa (the one he graduated with) he has to get a 165 or higher. He took part of the practice test yesterday and with the score he got on that, he wouldn't have a chance. I just sat there and was still caught up in my crap and I didn't hug him or say anything and he was quiet to me the rest of the night. I had done it before when he was talking to me about it the first time earlier this month and I was caught up in freaking out because I couldn't find my clothes for my interview (didn't get the job anyway)
I just feel like I fail as a girlfriend.
You shouldnt feel like a failure. =/

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:24 PM

He said last night he was disappointed in me and his test. But it was mainly focused on me.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:25 PM

That's kind of selfish of him. Your a human being just like him, sounds like you both have been in a rut lately.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:26 PM

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Pffft, I'll remember that Jess.
Teehee. ;D

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My boyfriend is in the middle of studying for the LSAT (Law school admissions test) and he's in this rut because he doesn't have a good gpa and his score on the one he took 2yrs ago wasn't good and he's coming to the terms that he doesn't have a chance with his current gpa (the one he graduated with) he has to get a 165 or higher. He took part of the practice test yesterday and with the score he got on that, he wouldn't have a chance. I just sat there and was still caught up in my crap and I didn't hug him or say anything and he was quiet to me the rest of the night. I had done it before when he was talking to me about it the first time earlier this month and I was caught up in freaking out because I couldn't find my clothes for my interview (didn't get the job anyway)
I just feel like I fail as a girlfriend.
That's not a failure.
Maybe you should have taken a little more time to give him attention, but you had stuff on your mind too. I'm sure he understands this. [:

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:28 PM

Yeah. Now is not the time for me to have issues at home too.. But I do. -.-
I hope he does understand that I have a lot I was dealing with considering my mom is extremely selfish and I feel like crap at home because of that, she has her ex asshole boyfriend over a lot for too freaking long and he's a jerk and is extremely rude. My dad is caught up in his life with spending time with his girlfriend, I see very little of my own dad. I feel like I don't matter sometimes. I know I should have spent more time on my boyfriend and his stuff, I really do try. I just had a moment last night. But he saw how hurt I was knowing I messed up again.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:30 PM

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Yeah. Now is not the time for me to have issues at home too.. But I do. -.-
I hope he does understand that I have a lot I was dealing with considering my mom is extremely selfish and I feel like crap at home because of that, she has her ex asshole boyfriend over a lot for too freaking long and he's a jerk and is extremely rude. My dad is caught up in his life with spending time with his girlfriend, I see very little of my own dad. I feel like I don't matter sometimes. I know I should have spent more time on my boyfriend and his stuff, I really do try. I just had a moment last night. But he saw how hurt I was knowing I messed up again.
I think what's needed is a bit more from him giving you attention and the time to make sure you know that you do matter and that he appreciates your support and having you around. . .but that's just my opinion

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:32 PM

He'll argue that he does that already. It's a lot about me. I've just had a lot of stuff happen recently.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:34 PM

Being in a rut suuucks. But the only person that can get you out of it is you. So he needs to help himself, not rely on you helping him out. You have your own problems xD

Everybodies like that sometimes anyway. I was with my ex, but he was like it with me just as much, putting my ideas down rather than encouraging them xD

Also sorry guys i got distracted, Download festival had a bands Announcement xD

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:36 PM

Lol no problem Lavi, welcome back (:

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:38 PM

I would like to get myself out of this rut, but I live with the reason I'm in one. I just have to deal with it and ignore them both when the asshole ex of my mom's is over. That and remember she will get the karma coming at her.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:39 PM

I live with one too ish, but sounds like not as bad.

Im sorting myself out boyfriend free and getting into some volunteering or nature walks so im not around it as much as possible.

Looks like im gonna be working on nature reserves 3 times a week to start with, least thats 3 afternoons without em haha

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:41 PM

Cool. I'm still looking for a job. Nothing is really calling me back, which got me on Friday. I just had a bad weekend.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:44 PM

Jobs are the worst for putting you in a rut. You get ignored, rejected, failed interviews for months, i have too, ive almost given up, but rather than giving up im gonna volunteer because i think its the employment gap thats causing me problems, i haven't worked since January 2011, so im gonna volunteer in cafe's or charity shops or just do nature reserve work while im not doing anything else, hopefully it'll pay off eventually, or at least give me a reference or two =3

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:44 PM

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I would like to get myself out of this rut, but I live with the reason I'm in one. I just have to deal with it and ignore them both when the asshole ex of my mom's is over. That and remember she will get the karma coming at her.
Aw that sucks ):

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I live with one too ish, but sounds like not as bad.

Im sorting myself out boyfriend free and getting into some volunteering or nature walks so im not around it as much as possible.

Looks like im gonna be working on nature reserves 3 times a week to start with, least thats 3 afternoons without em haha
Oh nice, bartending job didnt get back to you?

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:45 PM

It was a canteen job magi, and no, i did as well as i could at the interview, had a sales/figures conversation with the research i did, and still didnt get the job.

What do you need to get a job in a canteen these days? A degree by the sound of it! grrr

 


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