Sorry, that you are unhappy Cyndel.

Hey, Elenore. ^^; Nothing any of you really care to hear about I'm sure. My boyfriend is throwing a ranting tangent on Facebook because we don't spend enough time together (he works a lot and now I'm doing odd jobs for my grandpa for spare change). Anyway, he's trying to decide if he wants to break up with me, so I'm just waiting for him to make up his mind.
Though now I will be waiting until he gets off of work. *Shrugs*

Haha thanks, BSW. ^^; Think I'll do just that. *snuggles into sofa*

It's okay, Aemilia. I'm just not in the mood for relationship bullcrap this week. >.> Not in the mood for anything this week if you know what I mean. *cough*

thats messed up cyndel. he should just talk to you about it. not break up with you. and not on facebook. thats ass!

I agree with BSW. :( Besides, it's not like you can control how much he works. That falls on him.

D: No, I know that at least venting, even if it's to a stranger, can help.

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i guess, but he should be discussing with his partner, not venting to a strangers. never get strangers involved in your relationship unless you have already discussed the issue with your partner! makes things more complicated

@ Cyndel Just relax this week as much as you can. Listen to relaxing music, sleep, or drink some tea.

oh tea sounds great. ill go make some!

I don't really offer advice, but I personally find it helpful to sort out my feelings and the situation if I talk about it (or in this case typed out) to someone.

-shrug-

I think venting to someone else can be relaxing and helpful. But that really depends on the person who does the venting.

i find in relationships, when you talk to someone outside the relationship about the relationship, it makes the relationship that much more complicated because now someone else is involved.

Yeah, sometimes people just need to get their feelings out of them and in the open. I find it helps be calm my self a little too. P:

yeah i guess so.. i feel that way about friendships and roomates. but not relationships... i dont know... i treat them different then everything else...

but then again..my relationship with my boyfriend is extremely different from most peoples relationships i feel... so yeah...

I think it's fine if you leave out the names and personal details out. You should also only vent on a site he does not ever go on.

Yeah, I admit I complain about little things my boyfriend does now and then, but on a whole I never have had any relationship issues with him yet (and I'm thankful...I have had my fair share of rocky ones).

But I have never really had major issues with my current (and we have been together 2.5 years now). :>

i have had major issues with my current boyfriend. we almost broke up once in a fit is despair and hatred... it was not a good day.. but it has made us stronger.

Well, I'm not trying to really vent. That's just what went down before I got in here. He went to work. Just waiting for him to get back so we can finish hashing it out.

And in his defense, he did offer to call, I told him I didn't feel like talking on the phone (mom mom was home, didn't feel like trying to talk without being overheard). So hence, we were talking it over on facebook. Haha as BSW said, it IS messed up. I mean the whole relationship is messed up (my fault), but I warned him about how I am and how I feel before he asked me out, so...yeah.

Anyway, whatever he decides to do, I don't particularly care. That's the problem. We've been together a year and I still don't feel any more strongly than I did when we started. It's more a best friend with boyfriend title than anything, I guess, but apparently that's suddenly no longer good enough.


As for tea, think I'll trade that in for Dr. Pepper. XD

12 minutes left on my power hour. D:

Might take a break and play some WOW once it runs out. P:

@ Cyndel If it relaxes you, then that's good.

Oh yeah.... >.> *clicks power hour*

Hmm...dunno if it's relaxing, but t tastes better. XD Never been much of a tea or coffee person, it's too bitter no matter how much sweetener you put in it.

Originally Posted by Cyndel

Well, I'm not trying to really vent. That's just what went down before I got in here. He went to work. Just waiting for him to get back so we can finish hashing it out.

And in his defense, he did offer to call, I told him I didn't feel like talking on the phone (mom mom was home, didn't feel like trying to talk without being overheard). So hence, we were talking it over on facebook. Haha as BSW said, it IS messed up. I mean the whole relationship is messed up (my fault), but I warned him about how I am and how I feel before he asked me out, so...yeah.

Anyway, whatever he decides to do, I don't particularly care. That's the problem. We've been together a year and I still don't feel any more strongly than I did when we started. It's more a best friend with boyfriend title than anything, I guess, but apparently that's suddenly no longer good enough.


As for tea, think I'll trade that in for Dr. Pepper. XD

im sure you can talk it through if you really care about each other. and if not, then it wasnt really worth it , was it?

Yeah, that's what I'm figuring. I can personally go either way and not be any worse for wear. If he's not happy in the relationship, then we don't need to be in it.

I just wish he'd picked a better time to get on my case. >.o My best friend just had major surgery yesterday (had to have her colon removed) and I'm still waiting to hear how she's doing, and I got my lovely unwelcome monthly visitor (cause you all wanted to know that lol) yesterday too...so I'm not in the best of moods for drama. lol.

well bad things happen in threes.

*sneaks in a CD player and starts play some Abney Park music* Now this is more like it!

Haha Seems to be the way of it, doesn't it? XD

Ah well. Such is life. It sucks, then you die. lol.

What's Abney Park? O.o