In truth, I would date neither. I got a feeling that they would do a little more than just stripping...

Could you ever date a male stripper?

Nope. Wouldn't be able to trust him and I'd get extremely jealous even though it's his job. T-T

Could you ever date a girl stripper?

No. I'm not into girls at all and 90% of female strippers have fake boobs and bodies anyways. Not into the fake-ness. I actually loathe it.

Would/ could I date a
male: I'm not sure, maybe
female: probably could
so long as either only stripped and didn't engage in risky business... ventures >>

I think I could date a male stripper. I'm into the sort of body type that would get a guy a job as a stripper, and I don't really mind other girls looking at my man. Just keep to the whole "look but don't touch" rule. And, at least he'd be making money. I'm not really into paying for everything, so he has to make money somehow.

And, I'm just not into females romantically, so it doesn't matter.

Originally Posted by khboy0

Could you ever date a male stripper? Could you ever date a girl stripper? Lol, yes you should answer both questions, because I've found straight girls who said "yes" to both and straight guys who said "yes" to both, as well. I want to know what you think, and, in fairness, I'll answer them myself.

A male stripper: I...don't know. I'd feel really inferior, honestly. Those guys always are big....

A female stripper: Possibly. I have trust issues, though. I could probably do it. Maybe.

What are your thoughts?

Male stripper: Fuck no. Don't do guys.
Female Stripper: Yup, Done it.

In all honesty. I do not see a problem with dating an exotic dancer for the fact its a job. It is like not dating someone who works at a McDonald's because you would feel superior because you (probably) make more money then they do. Though, I suppose everyone has their own comfort level. Or I just have a lack of standards.

I think it's Possible.

I would guess so but I wouldn't... ^w^

I would guess so but I wouldn't... ^w^

Um...I don't understand what this means! o.O Lol.

Oh! Are you saying "You could date a stripper, but you yourself wouldn't strip?"

Other than that, I don't know what that meant... lol.

Originally Posted by khboy0

I'm not saying they would sleep around everywhere. Maybe I should've been more specific with my original post. What I was saying was, would you date a stripper provided he/she is totally faithful to you? Could you stand letting whoever look at her naked? Could you have it in you to deal with that?

my answer would still remain yes and yes. it's their job, not like they can decide what the want to do. they have to fulfill their job requirements.

I'd be scared to talk to the male stripper because he must already be too sexy for me. Haha.. I'm totally straight, but those guys are too much for little ole me. He'll end up sleeping behind my back, because I can not handle him. xd

As for the female, sure. I'm not into girls, but I like seeing women strip. It's not that bad.

I asked my boyfriend if he'd stick with me if I was a stripper and he said yeah, as long as I didn't do anything I knew he wouldn't want me doing. Look but not touch. I would never want him stripping though, he's my sexy asian. No one gets to see my skinny man! D<

Female: No, because I'm not attracted to the female body, so...
Male: Nope, I know I'd have jealousy issues.

Could you ever date a male stripper? Could you ever date a girl stripper?

A male stripper no. A female stripper yes.

Could you stand letting whoever look at her naked? Could you have it in you to deal with that?

I think that depends on my feelings for that person. If I really cared about them then I would totally feel uncomfortable with strangers looking at my girlfriend naked everyday.

Not if they were still in that line of interest. If it was something he did in his past, maybe. But I'd have a hard time trusting him. I don't date casually, so, I'd be hard-pressed to having a serious relationship with a guy who takes off his clothes and flaunts himself like a peacock for women just to make money.

I don't know if I could date a male stripper. I wouldn't be comfortable if they were currently engaging in a career that involves other individuals oogling at him, let alone attempting to hit on him.
Don't get me wrong, I'm usually very trusting when it comes to relationships but that would draw the line for me. I personally find that form of occupation somewhat degrading and that it's sole purpose revolves around sex. Even if he promises that he would never have sex with any of his customers, I'd still be concerned.
Same with a female stripper - although I'm straight, if I were a bisexual or a lesbian, that would still concern me. Females are more vulnerable to sexual attacks than males anyway. I wouldn't be able to do it.

Yes! to both!

Originally Posted by Hermes

I don't think I'd ever really meet a stripper unless they were absolutely only doing it for the money and a hearty laugh. I'm pretty sheltered in my social interactions, so just a stripper I would probably not meet. If they were really just doing it for money and laughed at it, I'd consider it, but I'd be really dubious.

You might be surprised at the places you meet strippers. I met one who was studying to become a radiologist a few years ago. I have also met a few others who were in the middle of tertiary education.

As for the thread, I believe it is within the realms of possibility that I could date a female stripper. The act of being a stripper does not bother me at all. The only issue which could potentially come from this would be those related to my self confidence or lack thereof.

In my experience most stippers are not all that great to look at. Most I have known have had a sleezy or unhealthy look to them that reminds me too much of an overused porn star.

Plus I have really bad trust issues. I don't even like my bf going out to strip clubs without me I really wouldn't like it if he was on stage shakin his booty.

So no to both.

I almost dated a male stripper once. He worked at a gay club that I go to. (It's the only club that allows people 18-20 years old to get in) I danced with him(when he wasn't working) and obviously he was really good at it, lol. So I took that as a plus. We hung out a lot after that, and I actually got to like him quite a bit. But he ended up going out with this crack whore or something. Then I left for Alaska, lol. When I got back he actually started hitting up on me. And I told him he missed his chance, lol.

So suffice to say, I don't mind the guy. but then again, he was straight working at a gay club. I don't like women at all, especially stripper women. Mostly for personal spite, I will admit, lol.

Nah. I wouldn't want someone I'd date to have their body on display for a bunch of random perverts passing by. I mean.. like guy or girl, I wouldn't want that. Male strippers tend to normally be very bulky, and I don't like men with big muscles.

You know I don't think they would cheat, well I guess it depends on the person lol.. but I'm selfish. I mean I can understand someone doing that to pay for college, but I still wouldn't feel right about it. Also I sort of feel like if it is the case of supporting yourself through college, that it is the easy way out. I mean there are other things you can do. A lot of schools have work study programs. I'm sure there could also be other decent circumstances as to why a person could need that much money.

There is also a fact that I want to date someone that loves their job.. and well if they love showing their body off to complete strangers...well yeah as I said before, not cool with that.

I agree completely with fuymui_saito for all the reasons listed! Strippers are just not my thing. I'd rather date someone with higher values/morales.

No because they might end up cheating on that person!

Originally Posted by Angelicious3

No because they might end up cheating on that person!

That seems like a big assumption though. Because honestly anyone that person would date might end up cheating on them. Everyone is very much capable of it.

That seems like a big assumption though. Because honestly anyone that person would date might end up cheating on them. Everyone is very much capable of it.

Score one for Dr. Nyx! :)

Not a male because I don't share my guys with anyone.
Not a girl because I'm straight.

It depends on if the person is loyal or not. It's one thing to strip but to do favors on the side is a whole other thing. Also I have no problem with topless dancing but I do have somewhat of a problem with full nude.


In short, in would depend on the person.